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Author:  vicarious_11 [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 7:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Good books on maintaining healthy relationships

So I know of many good PUA books but not many that deal with how to maintain good relationships. Does anyone know of any good ones?
(other reading material such as blogs, articles, websites, etc. is good too)

Author:  Charlie0 [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 7:38 pm ]
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Dude, just Google stuff like, 'keeping a relationship' and 'relationship advice'.

Most of the major things are: communication, compromise, communication, respect, communication.

Most relationships fail because something one party does is never brought to light until it's too late because the other party didn't know how to communicate; OR the other party communicated poorly, or the other didn't know how to listen.

When shit bothers you, you HAVE to deal with it THEN and THERE or it will grow like cancer. When cancer is small, it's a lot easier to deal with, and has a much higher survival rate than when it's allowed to grow. The same thing with relationship problems.

Respectfully being able to address issues when both parties are calm, and can think objectively is key to any relationship.

Author:  Locke [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 3:24 am ]
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Good advice Charlie0. You are exactly right-- communication is the key to many things; although, it isn't ALWAYS the answer :)

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

10 Stupid things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationship (written by a crazy woman, but still has a great basis!)

those are the only two that I know off hand and can vouch for. I would also recommend getting a book on keeping sexual romance heated; this is also a good preventative interaction.

I have a HUGE thing coming out that narrates relationships in many of their aspects. Wait with crossed fingers.

Author:  vicarious_11 [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 2:02 am ]
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right on. thanks guys :D

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