hey guys
ok, like some of you may have read in the other post i wrote
i have a LDR (long distance relationship. still waiting for
Locke's post on that with thrill
).she and i are deeply together and I yes i am totally in love
with her as much as it is possible being apart all the time.
(Un)fortunately she is SO great that there are always a lot
of other guys who try to steal/get her. Since she and i are
really REALLY deep and we both value our relationship, as hard
as it is, i don't feel especially threatened.
Well until today that is, when this guy friend of hers whom
she really likes (as a friend) made a move on her.
she just told me over chat that they were very badly drunk,
he had a depression and lots of other pain and those 2 were
always (they know each other roughly a year now. they study
in the same university) great friends. She says that he is
an incredible and awesome guy and she has been sad that he
is in depression. from what i hear, he has a lot
of the qualities that my girl likes in men.
well anyway, he kissed her after bringin her to her dorm after
a part. (she told me that he did it in a way I do, and up till
then i was the only guy who ever kissed her like that)
then he pulled back and apologized. there are a lot of reasons
and complications besides me being her bf that those 2 wouldnt
work out. (he is her best friends ex-bf and she really loves
him still). she told me straight out that she doesn't want to
start up smth with him and loves me alone. but she was also
honest enough to tell me that she felt a good feeling when
he kissed her. she said that she felt touched. well besides
being all like "oh shit wtf just happened i have a bf and he's
my gf's ex!!! im in trouble!!".
I dont think they would start up smth. but im feeling
very very uneasy and im fucking afraid that she would still
fall for him. i mean he is apparently very popular and alpha,
a very sweet guy, smth she REALLY loves. also most of all,
he is there where she lives, and i am far away.
what should my attitude towards this be now? i already told her
that if she doesn't feel for him, we'd be okay. i tried to
come off as cool about it as possible, cuz i dont figure a
real alpha man would go mad at smth like this.
besides that, more generally put, i dont believe in loyalty
for loyalties sake. I am aware that she could cheat on me,
especially since we are in a LDR. what i'd like to know is,
what can i do so that she will still stick to me in the long run?
thanks for ur replies
~base_player