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| Author: | base_player [ Sun Oct 12, 2008 4:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Seek advice on Long Distance Relationship |
Hi guys, im in sort of a dilemma here. There is this girl that I love. I've known her for a long time, we've been like best friends and around a month ago we started having a thing. Problem is, she studies abroad and comes home around every 4 months. Additionally, she has a boyfriend. but he also studies in another country. They got to know each other when he had a year off to study in the country she's in. He went back now. Thing is, I really really love her. There are a couple of girls I got to know over the past, and she is really just my type. I dont wanna lose her, but im aware that a long distance relationship would be too tough on both of us. And her bf is actually a really good one. She has feelings for him too, and she feels bad for starting the thing with me. But she also loves me, and we have this deep bond. It's like she's got these feelings for both of us. What im asking is, should I go for a long distance relationship? We would have to be apart for 4 (!) years, only seeing each other every 4 months. Are there ways to keep up an LDR over such a timespan? I know, some people would advice to let this go and get another girl. But I couldn't just fill the void with some other girl, it's really tough. It wouldn't be fair to her, and it's not what i want... Please help me get wiser on this, i want to see things from new angles. Thanks in advance ~base_player |
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| Author: | Locke [ Sun Oct 12, 2008 8:18 am ] |
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any relationship is tough. I will be posting a big thread on long distance relationships soon....but I will say, if you have the ability, patience, and care to handle a long distance relationship, there is nothing better. |
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| Author: | Marlow [ Sat Oct 18, 2008 6:03 am ] |
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I had an unsuccesful long distance relationship a few years ago when I was a freshman in college, and they NEVER work unless 2 things are present. Those are: 1) Time together before she moves away so you know those feelings are real, and 2) A vast, enormous amount of mutual trust in each other If those aren't there, prepare to be dissapointed. I'd be willing to bet you're not much older or younger than I was when I tested out a long distance relationship. Just keep your options open, bro. Good luck mate, JB |
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| Author: | Anon7022 [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 1:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Locke |
Hey Locke, where is your best post of Long distance relationships? link? Also what are the best resources out there books and such for actual relationships? Like we learned the game, how to we learn relationships? Im in my first one and don't know how to go about it. Thanks |
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