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| Author: | sapipa [ Wed Jul 05, 2017 2:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to handle multiple relationships. |
I’m having a nice thing going with this girl. We’re having sex but there is also a connection. I like the time spend with her. Now I don’t have any ambition in being exclusive with her. In the beginning we already had a talk that I didn’t wan’t a relationship and she was ok with that, said she was on the same level. Now I respect her and want to give her the best experience possible. I feel like I should tell her that what we are sharing is all that I’m able to give her. I don’t want it to turn in to something public. But I feel I could make it in to something official and exclusive if I wanted it to be. Do you guys think I should tell her this or wait untill she brings it up? And how to handle this, meaning what to say to her? I would like to just keep what we have going. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Jul 05, 2017 2:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to handle multiple relationships. |
Why is this the issue if you've already explained your views on a relationship and she said she's on the same level? |
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| Author: | sapipa [ Thu Jul 06, 2017 9:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to handle multiple relationships. |
Quote: Why is this the issue if you've already explained your views on a relationship and she said she's on the same level?
We had that convo in the beginning, like 2 months ago. I just sense she is falling in love with me. I care about her and just want to make sure I don't hurt her. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Jul 06, 2017 11:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to handle multiple relationships. |
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We had that convo in the beginning, like 2 months ago.
This may sound cynical, but that's on her. You already made your stance known. I just sense she is falling in love with me. I care about her and just want to make sure I don't hurt her. Don't try solving problems that aren't actual problems yet. If she's allowing herself to fall for you, you're not hurting her, she's hurting herself. |
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| Author: | sapipa [ Thu Jul 06, 2017 3:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to handle multiple relationships. |
Quote: Quote:
We had that convo in the beginning, like 2 months ago.
This may sound cynical, but that's on her. You already made your stance known. I just sense she is falling in love with me. I care about her and just want to make sure I don't hurt her. Don't try solving problems that aren't actual problems yet. If she's allowing herself to fall for you, you're not hurting her, she's hurting herself. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Thu Jul 06, 2017 3:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to handle multiple relationships. |
What R.C said. OP, most of the time when you make this stance about relationships known and they say that they're on the same page with you, at some point her stance is going to change. FB's and FWB's are always going to be temporary because someone will always catch feelings. You're going to have to expect this reaction at some point. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Jul 06, 2017 5:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to handle multiple relationships. |
Yep, pretty much ^. |
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