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| Author: | killswitchengage [ Mon Mar 06, 2017 2:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
Hello I am with a GF right now , i am afraid of falling into the same problem my brother had which his fiance constantly wanting him to call , to hang out and show his interest . So when a girl asks why aren't you calling , or you sound cold toward me , what should i do ? thanks |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Mar 06, 2017 2:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
You should take a step back and analyze things. There's plenty of girls out there with little to no independence of their own. As such they need to be a constant presence in your life and they need to be included in everything you do. If she's one of them, consider breaking up. That type of relationship is a never ending moan fest which will drain the life out of you. |
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| Author: | killswitchengage [ Mon Mar 06, 2017 5:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
Fair analysis man , have you experienced that kind of relationship before ? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Mar 06, 2017 6:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
I've experienced the kind of woman. I didn't give them the girlfriend title though. |
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| Author: | killswitchengage [ Wed Mar 08, 2017 9:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
thanks for the feedback |
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| Author: | xplosiv [ Wed Mar 08, 2017 9:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
Some women need more attention than others in order to bond and feel like they can trust you. I find most younger women are this way but they grow out of it as they get older. If you don't want a relationship that requires work, maybe stick to women who are fine with being "friends with benefits". |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 7:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
Quote: Some women need more attention than others in order to bond and feel like they can trust you. I find most younger women are this way but they grow out of it as they get older. If you don't want a relationship that requires work, maybe stick to women who are fine with being "friends with benefits".
Age is of little relevance.
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 8:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
Quote: Hello
She has a need for validation. The strategy to meeting her need (calling several times a day) may not be a strategy you're willing to use. Having a convo about this you may realize you can meet this need in other ways, however that are more desirable for you.I am with a GF right now , i am afraid of falling into the same problem my brother had which his fiance constantly wanting him to call , to hang out and show his interest . So when a girl asks why aren't you calling , or you sound cold toward me , what should i do ? thanks . |
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| Author: | killswitchengage [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 11:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
Anyway i know this can end badly and i don't want to look available all the time , so i am gonna do what i want to do . Yesterday , i called her once she didn't pick up immediately but she called me 6 times to which i wasn't alone to pick up the phone , she went a little upset about it but things went fine afterwards . |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 12:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
Quote: Anyway i know this can end badly and i don't want to look available all the time , so i am gonna do what i want to do . Yesterday , i called her once she didn't pick up immediately but she called me 6 times to which i wasn't alone to pick up the phone , she went a little upset about it but things went fine afterwards .
Now this is kinda silly and unnecessary. Sure, her calling you 6 times is too much imo, but act like a human being. If you saw her call you back, a simple text saying you were busy is just courtesy. Then if she gets upset thats on her. She's your gf. That doesnt mean you should drop everything for her, but it does mean you can let her know your busy vs just ignoring her. I dunno....you could be seeing this girl 1x a week at your place, fucking her and not really communicating during the week, hence her comments. Or you could be seeing a healthy amount, good sex life, communication yet she wants more and more. Edit, yep...its more you. This isnt your gf, you havent even fucked this chick or kissed properly. You're on the pot but not shitting, so expect her to ask for SOMETHING. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 1:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl constantly wants you to invest |
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Edit, yep...its more you. This isnt your gf, you havent even fucked this chick or kissed properly. You're on the pot but not shitting, so expect her to ask for SOMETHING.
Wait, what?
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