in the time she was married i did "date" around 7 girls, but just not the same connection.
At one point i was dating 4 chicks at the same time and that becomes too tiring and not enough time for myself.

Thank you.
When you say "This woman will tire you for rest of your life", it literally hit me in the head. Last 5 years has been VERY tiring now that I think of it. Just an emotional rollercoaster.

Very nervous that im meeting her mum tomorrow, I want to totally end it with her.. but they expecting me to marry her! They even kicked out the husband and filed divorce already!

LOL WUT, this whole thing sounds like some sort of bizarre Indian move!

Like someone mentioned, if she has no brain she will be a pain. You should of let her stayed married and move on. If you guys connect so well why did she marry someone else (regardless of parents/culture).

Plus you gonna inherit in laws who convinced your girlfriend to marry another guy, that will be a great family for sure.

Best thing to do if you still unsure take a chill pill and do your own thing for frew months, then see if it's still feels right to take her back.

Update:
Her mother came over, invited me for dinner.
I couldnt eat because it wasnt my preference of food, yes im picky.
Her mother started talking about me and the girl, and i told them and was VERY firm I cannot marry her.
The mother started crying etc, and she said, the girl will be going home to treat some medical condition she has, which i do not want to mention here.

Then at the end gave me the keys to her flat to make sure everything is ok whilst she has gone away.

The girl keeps being distant from me, but then asked me when shes meeting my parents. She doesnt say things like babe etc, or anything intimate. Havent slept with her in 3 weeks. The only thing ive got in terms of physical with her in last 3 weeks was a 10 second make out session because she was worried her mum was in the flat.

Just to add, her mum even invitied me to her house abroad, which i respectfully declined as I have other things to do. And then she offered me to take the girl on holiday, just me and the girl, and the mother would offer us their holiday home :S.

Its left me very confused, because the girl herself is being a bit distant from me, i.e. doesnt even say anything intimate etc. So im not sure whether shes giving me a shit test, or making me chase after her...

Btw, I met her and her mother 3 times in last 7 days.