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Author:  henog007 [ Thu Dec 15, 2016 2:50 am ]
Post subject:  Current girlfriend vs other opportunities
I love my girlfriend and she's done so much for me, I would be in a horrible point in life without her. Problem is I've only been with three women in my life and I'm 24. I feel like I'm missing out on exciting dating opportunities. I'm desperately trying to get my head around this can anyone offer me some advice?
Author:  R.C [ Thu Dec 15, 2016 8:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Current girlfriend vs other opportunities
This is the type of problem that's going to slowly eat away at you, until you snap. You have to get it out of your system.
Author:  Parcival [ Thu Dec 15, 2016 9:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Current girlfriend vs other opportunities
You're not alone in this, I have the same nagging feeling.

Not just missing out on fun but missing out on critical experiences that help shape a person.

I've decided to make the best of what i've got, developing skills and building experiences within the borders of a relationship.

So finding out exactly what you are afraid of missing out on and why might help.
Author:  W1nd [ Thu Dec 15, 2016 12:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Current girlfriend vs other opportunities
This is pretty much the situation I was in 3-4 months ago. For me it was a steep learning curve.


- As R.C says, you do need to figure this out and get it out of your system. Weather that's in the relationship or out, it's better sooner than later.

- it may seem like it, but as I was told the grass ain't greener man. If you both love each other and she's good for you.. You need to take everything out of it (emotion, familiarity etc) and think about what you're really missing. It could just be you've fallen into the "old married couple" plot and need to inject a bit of excitement.

- As Parcival said, try to improve/expand what and where you can within the relationship - taking up a new hobby, changing up sex, whatever.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Thu Dec 15, 2016 3:14 pm ]
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If you've led sexually in the bedroom and opened your girl's mind properly (ie not judged her fantasies, can make her orgasm at will, etc), she'll let you fuck other girls with her.

No need to break up.

Following the fundamental rules of being emotionally centered, fun (playful, teasing), good in bed, fit, and leading will have girls dying to be at your side and thirsty to please you any way they can.

My exclusive gf of a year let's me pick up girls to bring home. I rarely do it, but if any girl grabs my attention it's a green light.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Dec 15, 2016 5:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Current girlfriend vs other opportunities
Quote:
If you've led sexually in the bedroom and opened your girl's mind properly (ie not judged her fantasies, can make her orgasm at will, etc), she'll let you fuck other girls with her.
Kinda agree with that but not everyone can pull it off.

She'll likely not want to know the details of your escapades though.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Thu Dec 15, 2016 5:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Current girlfriend vs other opportunities
True. You have to find a good, passionate relationship where both people are secure. And as the man you have to set the tone and lead sexually, bringing out her fantasies a lot through extremely honest communication.
Inevitably she will then seek to satisfy yours.


My gf is bi so that helps. And the rule is she has to be in the same room. I'm okay with it, lol. It scratches the "I wouldnt mind getting blown by a new girl" itch that occassionally crops up, and the threesomes bring us even closer.

None of this happens without fun, playful and honest communication that most couples are too insecure/needy/sexually close minded to have.
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