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| Author: | HBwarm-Cph [ Sun Dec 04, 2016 9:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
Hey fellow PUA's! Recently I got a new girlfriend and I have just realized that I know a lot about how to get a girl, but almost nothing about how to maintain a healthy relationships and this is beginning to give me problems. We have been dating for half a year and she asked me to be her boyfriend in the end of Oktober. She has always been super keen on me and multiple times mentioned how I am the best guy in the bed she has ever been with, so good sex is not the problem. She comes almost every time.. What I have noticed is that she is no longer finding the 25th hour a day for me! She used to move mountains to see me and couldn't get enough of me. Now not so much! She doesn't ask how my weekend have been and what my plans are for the next week. I said I would like to see her an evening in the next week and she had made plans for the whole week without asking me before to see if she got keep a spot for me. She is seeing her good damn mother two times and her father and brothers another day! I think I have been too available and I haven't been going out as much lately because of exams, which I fear has made me look like she can just call me whenever because I am just at home at my place waiting as a nice little puppy. Normally I would just pull back, make no contact and begin to do other stuff and act like I am indifferent but I am not indifferent because I do have strong feelings for my girlfriend. What do you suggest I do? Should I do the typical move of having fun with me friends and wait for her to contact and initiate or is the best thing to just confront her with me feelings? I am afraid of looking needy so early in the relationship. |
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| Author: | WT Foxtrot [ Sun Dec 04, 2016 11:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
I would say, take this time to work on yourself. You can also make dates with her. Just because you two are going steady doesn't mean that you have a right to her time. You'll still have to lead the relationship and that means making dates ahead of time. Don't go chasing her. Just start doing cool things and make sure she knows she is invited. BTW, why aren't you invited to see her family? How early are you into this relationship? |
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| Author: | HBwarm-Cph [ Mon Dec 05, 2016 6:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
Quote: I would say, take this time to work on yourself. You can also make dates with her. Just because you two are going steady doesn't mean that you have a right to her time. You'll still have to lead the relationship and that means making dates ahead of time. Don't go chasing her. Just start doing cool things and make sure she knows she is invited. BTW, why aren't you invited to see her family? How early are you into this relationship?
I told her I would like to wait with all the family stuff a bit! We have known each other for 6 months and have been together for a little over 1,5 month.
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Dec 05, 2016 3:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
Your hot and sexy vibe is getting its ass kicked by your needy and clingy actions |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Dec 05, 2016 9:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
Quote: I think I have been too available and I haven't been going out as much lately because of exams, which I fear has made me look like she can just call me whenever because I am just at home at my place waiting as a nice little puppy. You know the problem, but you do want to respond to the problem because you're a sick love fool? And you think thats going to remedy your situation? Now what I will say is that its not so much the going out as it is the attitude that going out and getting social with other people gives you. There are plenty of men who stay at home and play video games while they're girls go out and work jobs and those women are still interested in the guy. Its in the attitude, not the action; but certain actions makes it easier for certain guys to develop certain attitudes. This post reeks of neediness.. And I'm sure she is fully aware of that needless. If you're unwilling to walk you will be walked over. Its that simple. Pull. And do something now; who's to say how much time you have left of being needy before things no longer progress. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Dec 06, 2016 2:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
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Now what I will say is that its not so much the going out as it is the attitude that going out and getting social with other people gives you. There are plenty of men who stay at home and play video games while they're girls go out and work jobs and those women are still interested in the guy. Its in the attitude, not the action; but certain actions makes it easier for certain guys to develop certain attitudes.
True that.
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Dec 06, 2016 4:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
If you can be secure in the knowledge that you do not need someone else to make your life complete. You will never have this problem. |
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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Thu Dec 08, 2016 6:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
She just replied again. Her: We can talk about that sometime this weekend At this point I'm confused. Idk what she wants to talk about. About her being done for good, or addressing the issue about her behavior the other day. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Dec 08, 2016 2:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
Less talking, more fucking. |
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| Author: | HBwarm-Cph [ Sun Dec 11, 2016 10:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
Quote: Quote: I think I have been too available and I haven't been going out as much lately because of exams, which I fear has made me look like she can just call me whenever because I am just at home at my place waiting as a nice little puppy. You know the problem, but you do want to respond to the problem because you're a sick love fool? And you think thats going to remedy your situation? Now what I will say is that its not so much the going out as it is the attitude that going out and getting social with other people gives you. There are plenty of men who stay at home and play video games while they're girls go out and work jobs and those women are still interested in the guy. Its in the attitude, not the action; but certain actions makes it easier for certain guys to develop certain attitudes. This post reeks of neediness.. And I'm sure she is fully aware of that needless. If you're unwilling to walk you will be walked over. Its that simple. Pull. And do something now; who's to say how much time you have left of being needy before things no longer progress. My girlfriend reached out and found the 25th hour to see me! She was back to being all over me and things are good! I will watch out for signs of me being needy again in the future. Thanks for great advice. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Wed Dec 14, 2016 3:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
Yeah watch out for that needy bug. Shit is terrible. |
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| Author: | Sonny Lofthus [ Wed Dec 14, 2016 12:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My new girlfriend is losing interest in me |
Girl is having fun, girl likes guy, guy gets too serious, desperation shows, the chase ends, and the girl loses interest. Repeat until marriage. |
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