PUA Forum :: Interesting situation with girl im seeing

So 6 weeks in and everything is going ok..
She stays at my house a few nights per week and all going fairly well until...

I get up and go to work and leave her in bed..
I send a text just saying good morning and good luck with her new singing coach and added something about about me being a beaver and that i planned on damming her up lol

She doesn't respond and by like midday i check FB to find a message just saying "towels" no question mark or anything.. I didn't reply becuase i thought it was rude her ignoring my initial text.

When i get home i discover the bed made with a bra on it..
I straight away think "oh f***" because i see it belongs to my ex! She must've forgotten to take it, I don't even know where she would have found it! She also took everything she had left there like toothbrush and other assorteds

Now.. It gets complicated.

I've been using what you'd call Jealousy plotlines (or pretty close to it) i.e. catching up with other chicks and going out and being the man alpha 2.0 basically. Just living my life on the basis that she explicitly said she "wasn't the relationship type of girl" and "didn't want anything serious" - i ignored this and went about as per usual.

Her actions, like being all over me in front of friends and when we're out in public tell a different story i think, but i never wanted to initiate the "what are we" talk... So I've left it..

Soooo.. Does she have a right to be mad about this? I've been faithful and honest with her so far and haven't wanted to hook up with anyone since her, but wanted to appear like i could (because i could) and now it seems like the stuff I've done has served only to incriminate me now..

So yes, do i contact? Or wait for her? Her period started on the day of this whole incident took place and may have something to do with this dramatic over reaction..

Any inputs guys are always appreciated!

Umm yea she couldn't see why i had an issue with that?.. "It's totally common and curable" - ummm?

Quote:

This the chick that broke up with you, and gave you the clap? Thats 6 weeks of doing ok?

Its hot/cold, break up, jealousy plotlines, STds and bras on beds. Cant give much advice as this is just super complicated.

Author:	AlexanderTG [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 3:39 am ]
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So 6 weeks in and everything is going ok.. She stays at my house a few nights per week and all going fairly well until... I get up and go to work and leave her in bed.. I send a text just saying good morning and good luck with her new singing coach and added something about about me being a beaver and that i planned on damming her up lol She doesn't respond and by like midday i check FB to find a message just saying "towels" no question mark or anything.. I didn't reply becuase i thought it was rude her ignoring my initial text. When i get home i discover the bed made with a bra on it.. I straight away think "oh f***" because i see it belongs to my ex! She must've forgotten to take it, I don't even know where she would have found it! She also took everything she had left there like toothbrush and other assorteds Now.. It gets complicated. I've been using what you'd call Jealousy plotlines (or pretty close to it) i.e. catching up with other chicks and going out and being the man alpha 2.0 basically. Just living my life on the basis that she explicitly said she "wasn't the relationship type of girl" and "didn't want anything serious" - i ignored this and went about as per usual. Her actions, like being all over me in front of friends and when we're out in public tell a different story i think, but i never wanted to initiate the "what are we" talk... So I've left it.. Soooo.. Does she have a right to be mad about this? I've been faithful and honest with her so far and haven't wanted to hook up with anyone since her, but wanted to appear like i could (because i could) and now it seems like the stuff I've done has served only to incriminate me now.. So yes, do i contact? Or wait for her? Her period started on the day of this whole incident took place and may have something to do with this dramatic over reaction.. Any inputs guys are always appreciated!

Author:	neo87 [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 4:13 am ]
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Quote: So 6 weeks in and everything is going ok.. She stays at my house a few nights per week and all going fairly well until... I get up and go to work and leave her in bed.. I send a text just saying good morning and good luck with her new singing coach and added something about about me being a beaver and that i planned on damming her up lol She doesn't respond and by like midday i check FB to find a message just saying "towels" no question mark or anything.. I didn't reply becuase i thought it was rude her ignoring my initial text. When i get home i discover the bed made with a bra on it.. I straight away think "oh f***" because i see it belongs to my ex! She must've forgotten to take it, I don't even know where she would have found it! She also took everything she had left there like toothbrush and other assorteds Now.. It gets complicated. I've been using what you'd call Jealousy plotlines (or pretty close to it) i.e. catching up with other chicks and going out and being the man alpha 2.0 basically. Just living my life on the basis that she explicitly said she "wasn't the relationship type of girl" and "didn't want anything serious" - i ignored this and went about as per usual. Her actions, like being all over me in front of friends and when we're out in public tell a different story i think, but i never wanted to initiate the "what are we" talk... So I've left it.. Soooo.. Does she have a right to be mad about this? I've been faithful and honest with her so far and haven't wanted to hook up with anyone since her, but wanted to appear like i could (because i could) and now it seems like the stuff I've done has served only to incriminate me now.. So yes, do i contact? Or wait for her? Her period started on the day of this whole incident took place and may have something to do with this dramatic over reaction.. Any inputs guys are always appreciated! This the chick that broke up with you, and gave you the clap? Thats 6 weeks of doing ok? Its hot/cold, break up, jealousy plotlines, STds and bras on beds. Cant give much advice as this is just super complicated.

Author:	JackZero [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 4:18 am ]
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Quit leaving women in your place alone. They are going to go through your shit.

Author:	AlexanderTG [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 4:50 am ]
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This the chick that broke up with you, and gave you the clap? Thats 6 weeks of doing ok? Its hot/cold, break up, jealousy plotlines, STds and bras on beds. Cant give much advice as this is just super complicated.[/quote] Umm yea she couldn't see why i had an issue with that?.. "It's totally common and curable" - ummm?

Author:	AlexanderTG [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 4:52 am ]
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Lol apparently so.. She's able to find things I didn't know existed! Though i'd be intrigued if i found a dude's underwear at her house and i was under some pseudo monogamous influence

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Author:	R.C [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 10:56 am ]
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Quote: Umm yea she couldn't see why i had an issue with that?.. "It's totally common and curable" - ummm? Tell her bra's being left at your apartment are totally common too.

Author:	AlexanderTG [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 4:56 pm ]
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Haha lol If nothing else, this place is good for a laugh!

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 5:49 pm ]
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKWmFWRVLlU

Author:	AlexanderTG [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 12:35 am ]
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Strangely accurate really

Author:	n2thevoid [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 8:34 am ]
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Quote: Quote: So 6 weeks in and everything is going ok.. She stays at my house a few nights per week and all going fairly well until... I get up and go to work and leave her in bed.. I send a text just saying good morning and good luck with her new singing coach and added something about about me being a beaver and that i planned on damming her up lol She doesn't respond and by like midday i check FB to find a message just saying "towels" no question mark or anything.. I didn't reply becuase i thought it was rude her ignoring my initial text. When i get home i discover the bed made with a bra on it.. I straight away think "oh f**" because i see it belongs to my ex! She must've forgotten to take it, I don't even know where she would have found it! She also took everything she had left there like toothbrush and other assorteds Now.. It gets complicated. I've been using what you'd call Jealousy plotlines (or pretty close to it) i.e. catching up with other chicks and going out and being the man alpha 2.0 basically. Just living my life on the basis that she explicitly said she "wasn't the relationship type of girl" and "didn't want anything serious" - i ignored this and went about as per usual. Her actions, like being all over me in front of friends and when we're out in public tell a different story i think, but i never wanted to initiate the "what are we" talk... So I've left it.. Soooo.. Does she have a right to be mad about this? I've been faithful and honest with her so far and haven't wanted to hook up with anyone since her, but wanted to appear like i could (because i could) and now it seems like the stuff I've done has served only to incriminate me now.. So yes, do i contact? Or wait for her? Her period started on the day of this whole incident took place and may have something to do with this dramatic over reaction.. Any inputs guys are always appreciated! This the chick that broke up with you, and gave you the clap? Thats 6 weeks of doing ok? Its hot/cold, break up, jealousy plotlines, STds and bras on beds. Cant give much advice as this is just super complicated. hahah savage reality check Most women are guarded against men fcking around as its a common experience. So, she'd found what she was looking for - evidence of that. Makes sense she'd be upset. Why you have this other woman's bra in your place? Come on now. That's stupid. Depends how invested she is in you at this point whether she comes to or not.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 1:45 pm ]
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Wait so.. Are you in a relationship with the girl or not?

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