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| Author: | Fishermanx [ Thu Sep 29, 2016 1:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What happens when you miss some of the steps? f closing ex |
Ok i saw posts about getting you ex in bad again, ive had 4 months relationship with this girl, it was fun for both of us, but we didnt see each other so often so i started an argue, then apologized but she still broke up, it was kinda mutual that i accepted it acting cold. Ive have an intention to f close her again, so i wonder what should i do when i miss some of the steps for getting an ex back. All my other ex gfs have came back to me while i was doing nothing at all, but it took some of them like weeks, some of them montsh, some of them even a year or two. So the first step is to ignore her for 2 weeks, i did that, then i called her to ask her how she was, she was sad bcz of some private problems she had so we couldnt have a coffee then, after a week or so she was supposed to call me for a coffee, she didnt, and btw we live in different towns so we dont even see each other and we are students (low on cash) . And we started going to college again, she was kinda acting angry at first then i had just a little talk with her how we should be firends it should be fine, bla bla she was more comfy after that, then we had a coffee with collegues, we were alone, i kissed her lips, told her that was a mistake cause she turned away at first and then we kissed. She was posting some dumb love posts on fb after that) we were supposed to go on a coffee the next day but i said i cant so she said next friday, but when we started going on college again from the monday, she was kinda negging me dumb on purpose and i also negged her back but smiling like teasing, then the days before friday came i never mentioned the coffee date before, i called her she said that she had some meeting cause she is going the next week on a conference for 7 days, and we could go on a coffee when she comes back. I know that my main mistake was that i didnt ignore her for long enough after the breakup, 2 weeks wasnt enough for sure, she still acts hard to get even too serious at some point. Should i now wait after she comes back and ask her for a coffee and game her again ? (by waiting i mean waiting with her, still im gaming other girls) Or should i ignore her and just tease her in person untill she shows more interest? Ive missed the step of letting her call me first, and made a mistake, so what should i do now ? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Sep 29, 2016 2:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What happens when you miss some of the steps? f closing |
You missed this. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Sep 29, 2016 2:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What happens when you miss some of the steps? f closing |
Good job R.C. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Sep 30, 2016 12:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What happens when you miss some of the steps? f closing |
Its not about ignoring her from some contrived set of time that you have developed in your head. Its about genuinely moving forward with your life and making your new focus about getting back on your square and becoming a better man than you were prior to your relationship. If the girl comes back she'll come back on her own, but the thing is, its highly likely that you won't want her when she does. You don't realize a bird back into the wild, and then stand there next to the cage for two weeks to see if it returns to the cage. You pack up, go home, and if it makes its way back you deal with it from there. |
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