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Author:  epixx [ Tue Sep 13, 2016 12:58 pm ]
Post subject:  How much should i see and text my gf?
Hello guys,
I'm in a relationship with this girl for about two months. She's 4 years older than me and she is great. Everything is fine - i'm always leading, being dominant, sex is great and i give her alot of orgasms! Yesterday she told me that she loves me ( we know each other for an year). 8)
So my question is should I see her and text her as much as possible? She text me all the time and if she doesn't see me for a day or two she start missing me and wants to see me. Ofcourse i'm busy most of the time (job,gym,friends), but should i see her 4-5 times per week or should i reduce them to 1-2?
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Tue Sep 13, 2016 2:07 pm ]
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whenever you want. dont sacrifice your needs for you girlfriend
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Sep 13, 2016 2:25 pm ]
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Ofcourse i'm busy most of the time (job,gym,friends), but should i see her 4-5 times per week or should i reduce them to 1-2?
Then why?
Author:  R.C [ Tue Sep 13, 2016 5:17 pm ]
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How the hell can you see her 4-5 times a week if you're that busy?
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Tue Sep 13, 2016 6:15 pm ]
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How the hell can you see her 4-5 times a week if you're that busy?

I think hes tryin to justify a way to drop the gym and his friends to be the "perfect boyfriend"
Author:  epixx [ Wed Sep 14, 2016 6:47 am ]
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How the hell can you see her 4-5 times a week if you're that busy?

Well im working till like 6 pm. Ofcourse my work and gym are my top priorities,but i have free time in thr evening, sometimes she sleeps at my place, sometimes she comes to see me during my lunch break...
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How the hell can you see her 4-5 times a week if you're that busy?

I think hes tryin to justify a way to drop the gym and his friends to be the "perfect boyfriend"
There's absolutely no way im gonna drop the gym. I've been training for 4+ years..

Anyway i've been thinking that if i reduce the time spent with her i'll get resistance, and if i don't she might get bored after some time although she had only LTR (2+ years).
Author:  R.C [ Wed Sep 14, 2016 7:01 am ]
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I still don't get how you have the time. You live 5 mins from each other or what?

You'll get resistance with what?

I extremely rarely see my girls more than 1-2 times per week and when I do see them it's the weekend. It never led to any kind of resistance.
Author:  epixx [ Wed Sep 14, 2016 7:15 am ]
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I still don't get how you have the time. You live 5 mins from each other or what?

You'll get resistance with what?

I extremely rarely see my girls more than 1-2 times per week and when I do see them it's the weekend. It never led to any kind of resistance.
Guess it depends on the girl. She is the kind of girl that would message me all day on messanger, she tells me everything she is doing etc. She knows when i finish work so she waits me or she would come in the evening to my place...
She is kinda obsessed, but if i start blowing her off more, she would feel bad or smth..
Author:  R.C [ Wed Sep 14, 2016 7:22 am ]
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Well obviously she'd feel bad now. I mean if you've been seeing each other 4-5 times per week since the beginning of the relationships and now suddenly tone it down to twice per week, then yes, she'd feel bad.

Do it gradually. Or keep seeing her as you are now if that's fine with you. Personally I'd feel suffocated if I had her wait for me to get off work, wait for me during my lunch break, message me all day and that kind of stuff.
Author:  epixx [ Wed Sep 14, 2016 7:28 am ]
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Well obviously she'd feel bad now. I mean if you've been seeing each other 4-5 times per week since the beginning of the relationships and now suddenly tone it down to twice per week, then yes, she'd feel bad.

Do it gradually. Or keep seeing her as you are now if that's fine with you. Personally I'd feel suffocated if I had her wait for me to get off work, wait for me during my lunch break, message me all day and that kind of stuff.
Thanks for your response!
I'll try to reduce the time I spend with her.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Sep 14, 2016 6:46 pm ]
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Prioritize man.

How often do you see her already?

How you start is how you finish man. If you don't want to see a girl every day or every other day thats something that you have to establish in the very beginning. Relationships can be shaken up a bit when you suddenly want to reduce 5 days a week visits to 1 visit a week after doing so for almost a year. If this is what you want to do, you want to do it gradually. Going from 5, to 4, to 3, and so forth over the course of 3-6 months.
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