Hey guys... need some help here.

Been seeing this girl who has a "boyfriend"... how ever he lives in a different state and I really dont care what her relationships is with him. Here is how our relationship has progressed:

1st hangout - casual with mutual friends, exchanged numbers, small escalation, no kissing.

2nd hangout - light hand holding, small make-out back at my place... no sex.

3rd hangout - hand holding, heavy makeout, fingering and dry humping, no sex...

4th hangout - hand holding, heavy makeout, oral sex, just the tip... but she will not let me fuck her

(***She was the one escalating the making out and hooking up on on the 3rd and 4th hangouts)

which leads me to now...

We had planned to hangout and she flaked me...I called her the night after 4th hangout...

here are the texts below:

Me - Call - Her - No answer but text below...
Her-
Sorry bad day. I Don't want to talk right now.
Me- No response.

Her the next day regarding our hangout-

Hey! So I just got done were doing implant on receptionist and then lunch and meeting. Today's probably not going to work.
Me-
No worries... if you wanna drop by from 4 to 7 pm I could squeeze you in.. but im busy tonight as well.
Whats your schedule like the rest of this week?
Her - No response.

Its been about a week now since this and she has not texted me and I have not texted her... how do I proceed or is this one done?

If its not done what should i text and when?

Thanks again!
Duke

Buyers remorse.

Sex for women is highly psychological. She will find ways to dismiss how much of a big deal a kiss is, but you can't really do that with a blowjob or actual sex. Cheating becomes real at that point.

You basically tiptoed the line without crossing it. So now she knows exactly what will happen if she comes over and she can't pin it on "the heat of the moment". It's a conscious and informed decision now.

I can't tell you how many times I had girls tell me "Well what's done is done. So if I'm gonna have sex outside the relationship at least it's with one person multiple times rather then multiple people one time".
I mean I guess it makes sense, but that's not an excuse she can tell herself if you don't actually go through with it.

I'd suggest you let her cool off for a while.

Text her: "Breakfast in bed this weekend?"

I feel like we honestly just need to talk it out...

I feel this would activate her needy puss defense. But hey I guess you know women really well huh? Go with what you know.

I feel like that would activate her slut defense... I feel like we honestly just need to talk it out... But how do I go about actually re engaging her without her freaking out. Should I just text what are u doing tomorrow?

The guys are telling you to go for a hail mary at this point. Because it's not looking good at all.

Any specific suggestions in going for the hail mary? Like a shock text or phone call?

I gave you a free one.

Here is another. "I'd love to slam you against the wall and....."