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| Author: | stevedtat [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 8:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | getting back with a girl after a long period of time |
hey guys, I don't usually have to ask on here...but this is a strange situation. here's the background. the girl I've been seeing is in the navy, we hooked up 8 months ago and went absolutely great. she had to ship out to italy (i'm in the US) for 7 months. we talked everyday, and I always kept the 'fire' alive just like I always do, it's all good there. now, she's came back for a couple weeks and things are wierd to say the least. I tried to do the "new approach" idea, just like I would if we met after not seeing each other for years. I tried the bf/gf frame also. but she's stand-offish and backing away from my advances. now take in mind, she's extremely smart so standard game wont work on her. I know she hasn't been with anyone else, so that's not the problem. I've been able to keep her exclusive and always pursuing. also, have to realize she gets stuck in 'work mode' constantly being in the military so sex is a challenge at times, which i don't mind because that's fun. my question is, have any of you ran into having a distance relationship and only reconnecting after months? and how did you game in that situation? btw, I wouldn't ask this because I have had plenty and can get any woman. but, she's my perfect 10 and wanting to take it as far as i can. |
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| Author: | Cross De Lena [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 8:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: getting back with a girl after a long period of time |
Quote: Now take in mind, she's extremely smart so standard game wont work on her.
You don't know what you're talking about. Every girl's weakness is her emotions, if you trigger the right ones her IQ doesnt matter.Quote: I know she hasn't been with anyone else, so that's not the problem.
Don't want to stir up the water, but how do you know? Seriously?Quote: She's my perfect 10 and wanting to take it as far as i can.
Sounds like you have her on a pedestal. I don't have any experience in long distance relationships but I don't for a reason. So she's traveling like that a lot?
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| Author: | stevedtat [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 8:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: getting back with a girl after a long period of time |
I see your point about having her on a pedestal. that makes perfect sense. holy hell, never thought I'd be the needy one. thanks for the clarity. gotta check myself. and yeah, she travels alot because she's in the Navy. I guess it would be the same way if I was deployed and came back also. I did have a revelation tho...she gets affectionate when other women hit on me. so I know the attraction is there. so your emotions-overpowers-intelligence makes perfect sense! thanks guys, few words but exactly what I needed to hear. brothers in arms for life. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 4:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: getting back with a girl after a long period of time |
Quote: I see your point about having her on a pedestal. that makes perfect sense. holy hell, never thought I'd be the needy one. thanks for the clarity. gotta check myself.
So you'd just wanted validation from her that she's still attracted...and when that dries up again, I guess u'll look for the same - perpetually looking outward for her reassurance.
and yeah, she travels alot because she's in the Navy. I guess it would be the same way if I was deployed and came back also. I did have a revelation tho...she gets affectionate when other women hit on me. so I know the attraction is there. so your emotions-overpowers-intelligence makes perfect sense! thanks guys, few words but exactly what I needed to hear. brothers in arms for life. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Wed Aug 31, 2016 7:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: getting back with a girl after a long period of time |
Quote: she's extremely smart so standard game wont work on her.
Standard game won't work on her?Dude, game is not a way to trick the simple minded. You're supposed to appeal to a woman on an emotional level. If you're not, you're doing it wrong. And that's just the thing. It's been months. She's being standoffish because you're trying to pick it up where you left it off as if it's been a few days. Go out, have a drink, have some fun and don't treat her as your only option. |
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