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Show her you're the man in the relationship and set your boundaries. Let her know there are lines that she can't cross and if she does you'll break up with her. It looks like you're just being bossed around. But you moved in with her. So what did you expect?

I remember you OP. You were the guy that just broke up with your ex a few months back. The ex that you were living off of. Now you're in the same situation. You're moving in with women and then have to live by their rules because they are the providers in the relationship. When are you going to be able to take care of yourself so you aren't being told what you can and can't do?

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You can't set boundaries with people that are supporting you. Even if she were "in love" with him, at some point those boundaries aren't going to be important because she's going to understand her power over him. A man can't be a king if he doesn't have a kingdom.

so many red flags. but as long as she doesn't kill you, enjoy the thrill ride

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so many red flags. but as long as she doesn't kill you, enjoy the thrill ride

Are you sure about that?? She told me that she will kill me if she catch me with another girl

And read this , one good friend of us died before 20 days (very good friend of mine) , i was totally unhapy about that and i expected her to have a bad mood either and support me but i found her to dancing like nothing happened. The same night wanted to have sex with me. This girl have no empathy for other people

I believe that she have some type of personal disorder , its not normal

(she) was full of love for me, she put me on pedestal,
she cooked for me everything i liked, sex was the best ever and she do everything everything i liked...
Almost in first week she tell me that she loved me and that she want to marry with me and make babies...

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What's your secret?

You're having problems with a wacko.

Call the department for domestic violence and abuse, maybe they'll know what to do.

I have a 2 months relationship with an insecure girl , she forced me to live in her apartment,
she dont let me go out with friends and dont even with my family members.LOL
She want to do everything together, everything

Many times call me and want to hear the voice of my brother to prove that i am with my family,
its totally crazy all that.

More complicated the first month of our relationship was full of love for me, she put me on pedestal,
she cooked for me everything i liked, sex was the best ever and she do everything everything i liked...
Almost in first week she tell me that she loved me and that she want to marry with me and make babies...

Now she start to get angry and upset easilly, she call me to erase female friends from facebook and other social media, she called them sluts without even know them. She say that she loved me more and i dont really love her.
I am going crazy because i like the girl but she is so insecure and i cant breath

At first she looked like good girl full of love and empathy but now i see a different personallity, i see her as evil
and not really like or trust people. Also she have very few good friends, maybe just 4 good female friends
and dont trust even them. One day she get really angry because i just salute one of her friends.....

I can post here more and more but you get the picture, what i must do with her??

Author:	amunt [ Fri Aug 26, 2016 7:26 pm ]
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I have a 2 months relationship with an insecure girl , she forced me to live in her apartment, she dont let me go out with friends and dont even with my family members.LOL She want to do everything together, everything Many times call me and want to hear the voice of my brother to prove that i am with my family, its totally crazy all that. More complicated the first month of our relationship was full of love for me, she put me on pedestal, she cooked for me everything i liked, sex was the best ever and she do everything everything i liked... Almost in first week she tell me that she loved me and that she want to marry with me and make babies... Now she start to get angry and upset easilly, she call me to erase female friends from facebook and other social media, she called them sluts without even know them. She say that she loved me more and i dont really love her. I am going crazy because i like the girl but she is so insecure and i cant breath At first she looked like good girl full of love and empathy but now i see a different personallity, i see her as evil and not really like or trust people. Also she have very few good friends, maybe just 4 good female friends and dont trust even them. One day she get really angry because i just salute one of her friends..... I can post here more and more but you get the picture, what i must do with her??

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Aug 26, 2016 7:38 pm ]
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The moment you feel like you need to find someone else. You do.

Author:	galist [ Fri Aug 26, 2016 8:00 pm ]
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so many red flags. but as long as she doesn't kill you, enjoy the thrill ride

Author:	JackZero [ Fri Aug 26, 2016 8:10 pm ]
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I remember you OP. You were the guy that just broke up with your ex a few months back. The ex that you were living off of. Now you're in the same situation. You're moving in with women and then have to live by their rules because they are the providers in the relationship. When are you going to be able to take care of yourself so you aren't being told what you can and can't do?

Author:	Korekreate1 [ Fri Aug 26, 2016 9:40 pm ]
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Show her you're the man in the relationship and set your boundaries. Let her know there are lines that she can't cross and if she does you'll break up with her. It looks like you're just being bossed around. But you moved in with her. So what did you expect?

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Author:	JackZero [ Fri Aug 26, 2016 9:54 pm ]
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Quote: Show her you're the man in the relationship and set your boundaries. Let her know there are lines that she can't cross and if she does you'll break up with her. It looks like you're just being bossed around. But you moved in with her. So what did you expect? You can't set boundaries with people that are supporting you. Even if she were "in love" with him, at some point those boundaries aren't going to be important because she's going to understand her power over him. A man can't be a king if he doesn't have a kingdom.

Author:	amunt [ Fri Aug 26, 2016 11:47 pm ]
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Quote: I remember you OP. You were the guy that just broke up with your ex a few months back. The ex that you were living off of. Now you're in the same situation. You're moving in with women and then have to live by their rules because they are the providers in the relationship. When are you going to be able to take care of yourself so you aren't being told what you can and can't do? Its true bro , its my financial difficulties that throw me to that type of girls. But now i know where this situation is going, the new girl is crazy like my ex and this is not going to end nice. I dont want her to be my provider i can take care of myself, i dont want even to live in her appartment or to live together She act like crazy about that, she get upset if i dont sleep in her place. She get upset if i go out with friends, She get upset if i dont hug her and call her my love. She want to marry and make babies already from the 2 month , i have another crazy girl here and maybe i must broke up as soon as possible

Author:	amunt [ Fri Aug 26, 2016 11:54 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Show her you're the man in the relationship and set your boundaries. Let her know there are lines that she can't cross and if she does you'll break up with her. It looks like you're just being bossed around. But you moved in with her. So what did you expect? You can't set boundaries with people that are supporting you. Even if she were "in love" with him, at some point those boundaries aren't going to be important because she's going to understand her power over him. A man can't be a king if he doesn't have a kingdom. True, today i told her that i will live in my home and not with her anymore. I like her she is hot but i cant be her slave with her insecure bullshits I have friends and family, she want me to be all the time with her. drama drama drama and babies all day, ffs

Author:	amunt [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 12:11 am ]
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Quote: so many red flags. but as long as she doesn't kill you, enjoy the thrill ride Are you sure about that?? She told me that she will kill me if she catch me with another girl And read this , one good friend of us died before 20 days (very good friend of mine) , i was totally unhapy about that and i expected her to have a bad mood either and support me but i found her to dancing like nothing happened. The same night wanted to have sex with me. This girl have no empathy for other people I believe that she have some type of personal disorder , its not normal

Author:	galist [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 12:18 am ]
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Quote: Quote: so many red flags. but as long as she doesn't kill you, enjoy the thrill ride Are you sure about that?? She told me that she will kill me if she catch me with another girl And read this , one good friend of us died before 20 days (very good friend of mine) , i was totally unhapy about that and i expected her to have a bad mood either and support me but i found her to dancing like nothing happened. The same night wanted to have sex with me. This girl have no empathy for other people I believe that she have some type of personal disorder , its not normal this is a great life experience , live it up

Author:	Cross De Lena [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 8:40 am ]
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Quote: (she) was full of love for me, she put me on pedestal, she cooked for me everything i liked, sex was the best ever and she do everything everything i liked... Almost in first week she tell me that she loved me and that she want to marry with me and make babies... What's your secret? You're having problems with a wacko. Call the department for domestic violence and abuse, maybe they'll know what to do.

Author:	amunt [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 1:39 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: (she) was full of love for me, she put me on pedestal, she cooked for me everything i liked, sex was the best ever and she do everything everything i liked... Almost in first week she tell me that she loved me and that she want to marry with me and make babies... What's your secret? You're having problems with a wacko. Call the department for domestic violence and abuse, maybe they'll know what to do. Yeah , she is not normal for sure. I left from her appartment and we had a huge brawl. She tell me that i am going to cheat her and that i want to play with my whores Also that if i dont go back we are finished, everything together or nothing.

Author:	Cross De Lena [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 2:37 pm ]
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I would advise to start your plan toward independence. Or if really really really want to be with this girl, start making some boundaries.

Author:	n2thevoid [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 4:31 pm ]
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She's a wing nut, RUN don't walk. I've had experience with this type of girl before. THey're playing nice to put their best foot forward so you fall hard, and then they drop the act - classic bait and switch. Extremely insecure girls like this can't ever be satisfied. You can make all the sacrifices in the world for them, and then they'll dump you. I strongly implore you to reconsider this relationship and if its worth the massive amount of energy to keep it afloat. And yes, that energy will drain you from everything you do including career, family, friends etc... anything you care about and is good for you.

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Author:	Eddie Fews [ Sat Aug 27, 2016 5:50 pm ]
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Quote: I have a 2 months relationship with an insecure girl , she forced me to live in her apartment, she dont let me go out with friends and dont even with my family members.LOL She want to do everything together, everything Many times call me and want to hear the voice of my brother to prove that i am with my family, its totally crazy all that. More complicated the first month of our relationship was full of love for me, she put me on pedestal, she cooked for me everything i liked, sex was the best ever and she do everything everything i liked... Almost in first week she tell me that she loved me and that she want to marry with me and make babies... Now she start to get angry and upset easilly, she call me to erase female friends from facebook and other social media, she called them sluts without even know them. She say that she loved me more and i dont really love her. I am going crazy because i like the girl but she is so insecure and i cant breath At first she looked like good girl full of love and empathy but now i see a different personallity, i see her as evil and not really like or trust people. Also she have very few good friends, maybe just 4 good female friends and dont trust even them. One day she get really angry because i just salute one of her friends..... I can post here more and more but you get the picture, what i must do with her?? Marry her. This seems like its going to become a amazing and fulfilling relationship.