GF broke up with me (started as alpha and slowly my beta traits became profound and pushed her away).
I disrespected her in recent times and was insecure etc, but she did want to get back. I agreed, but then after an argument we decided to stop. I had the final word and dumped her (although i reckon she thinks the opposite).
Anyway, its been 2weeks no contact and I had to collect something from hers and she wanted her Pyjamas back. She left it outside the flat, and opened the door to grab the PJs. Very business like, but she did tell me that she was having an operation - so i asked if she was ok. She said yes, and its 2 weeks away.
I know its a boob job for a fact because she is turbo body conscious and v v v flat chested so she was planning to do it for a while...
...so anyway, the operation is in 2 weeks. Do i message her closer to the time and say 'good luck' or what?
Want to maintain my frame without seeming clingy, but also do want to make sure she is ok etc.
Most recent correspondence was after i collected the package and gave her the PJs:
Me:Happy youre coping well. Good luck with the op!
Her: Thanks you too
my op is 2 weeks todayMe: Elvis [her dog that had a big operation recently] no longer the centre of attention is he
no reply since (been a day). Last comment was perhaps overly trying to engage in conversation. Not sure if necessary to wish her luck again closer to the day and/or wait til after.
Thoughts?
