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How old are the two of you?
Because if you stay with this girl, marry her, all your life will be pretty much a big question mark what if.
So, my advice is, break up.
If you feel like you're a better catch than her, then...what can I say....break up.
You're doing an injustice both to yourself and to her.
I certainly would not want to be with a man that has one foot out the door. It's just not fair.
Yes, you will be single, but eventually you will find the 'right' girl on your level.
As far as looks wise, do you mean you are above average in body type or face type? Because even if you're in excellent shape, if your face is average, you're not necessarily a 10, so to speak.
If she worked out properly, would she be on your level then?
Does she have other things that balance the two of you out? More motivated? A better personality? Better cook? Etc. Etc.
Thanks for the reply - good to hear some constructive advice, useful questions, and a different way of thinking Because if you stay with this girl, marry her, all your life will be pretty much a big question mark what if.
So, my advice is, break up.
If you feel like you're a better catch than her, then...what can I say....break up.
You're doing an injustice both to yourself and to her.
I certainly would not want to be with a man that has one foot out the door. It's just not fair.
Yes, you will be single, but eventually you will find the 'right' girl on your level.
As far as looks wise, do you mean you are above average in body type or face type? Because even if you're in excellent shape, if your face is average, you're not necessarily a 10, so to speak.
If she worked out properly, would she be on your level then?
Does she have other things that balance the two of you out? More motivated? A better personality? Better cook? Etc. Etc.
I'm 34 and she's 27. I guess the thing is, I think I'm a better catch than her, but I'm not sure of that. Everyone seems to think I am, but I never really tested myself on a level playing field when I was single, as I mentioned in my original post. Out of 3 years of gaming girls, I guess she's the best one to come along in terms of relationship material, and actually be interested in a relationship with me.
But I didn't really go for relationships when I was single, I was just looking to sleep with as many women as possible (tho I did aim for better quality ones), and I'd say it was pretty obvious to all of them that's what I was aiming for. I'm thinking if I did it all again, and changed my approach to attract higher quality women looking for a relationship, tweaked my game, improved, etc. would I have a better pool of women to choose from? That's the $64000 question.....
Looks wise, I'd say face wise we are probably about the same (both above average, but not model material), and body wise, I'm in pretty good shape (definitely a good bit above average), and she's only average. Aside from that, I have a much better job/education than her, and more interests, etc. going on in my life, but she has a great personality, and a lot of little day to day things she does that make her a good catch in that respect.
If she worked out, I'd be a lot more satisfied, yes. Whether it would stop me from having my head turned (figuratively) by other women & singleness, I don't know. I think it would help a lot tho. I've tried to get her to work out, etc. but she's failed repeatedly - I don't think she has the discipline and understanding to do what she needs to do to get in shape...