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Author:  JoseH [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 2:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

So I'm dating a girl now but the problem is that she finished a long term relationship some moths ago.

Her ex still calls her and text her. She always tells me when it happens and she replies that she doesnt want him anymore.

Also she knows that there are other chicks that want me DHV, I've even shown her texts chicks send me and I always rejected them because I want to be honest with her.

She always says that her ex treated like shit and cheated on her.
Just some hours ago I found out her instagram with some of sad shit like "what a shitty period" and sad shit like that wich makes me think she still thinks about her ex.
Her ex likes some of her pics.
She doesnt like any of his.

She's a virgin and we see 3-5 times a month. She always texted me and text and talk every day (when I'm not busy). Convos are funny challenging.

How should I behave?

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 2:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

How old?

Author:  JoseH [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 3:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

She's 18 and I'm 24

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 3:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

Have sex with her. That will solve it.

Author:  JoseH [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 3:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

How do I take her V card? We made out, handjobs, blowjobs but the problem is that she said she isn'ready yet. I just acted normal

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

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How do I take her V card? We made out, handjobs, blowjobs but the problem is that she said she isn'ready yet. I just acted normal
Just keep agreeing with her, but push the envelope each and every time.

Author:  JoseH [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 3:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

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How do I take her V card? We made out, handjobs, blowjobs but the problem is that she said she isn'ready yet. I just acted normal
Just keep agreeing with her, but push the envelope each and every time.
Can you explain it better please?
I have never taken a girl's v.
So should I say that is ok and then what?

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 4:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

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How do I take her V card? We made out, handjobs, blowjobs but the problem is that she said she isn'ready yet. I just acted normal
Just keep agreeing with her, but push the envelope each and every time.
Can you explain it better please?
I have never taken a girl's v.
So should I say that is ok and then what?
You are 24?

Spend a lot of time on foreplay; kiss her, touch her, and all other things to turn her on as much as possible before you get to that point.

When she says not yet, agree and back off a little. Resume making out, get that pussy steamed up again, push a little further.

Rinse repeat. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay....and have lubrication handy.

Basically, just be very slow and gentle. This experience should be more about getting close to each other and showing affection than it is cramming your dick in her.

Having sex or 'making love' can be a very powerful thing. It's building a bond.

Author:  JoseH [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 4:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

Alright thanks a lot.
Anyway how should I behave until we see again: distant cold or just normal?

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 4:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

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how should I behave until we see again:
As though you are not seeking advice form internet strangers. LOL

Author:  JoseH [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 5:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

Ahaha got it. Thanks a lot for you help.

Author:  neo87 [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 5:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

You are rejecting chicks who text you for a chick who's not fucking you? Also you are rejecting chicks for a chick who's not fucking you who you see 3 to 5 times a month?

What the fuck

I'd say stop sending yourself fake messages to show her to make her jealous. Because no guy who is twenty fucking 4 has options yet he chooses a 18 year old girl he's not fucking or seeing.

Author:  JoseH [ Thu Jul 07, 2016 7:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

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You are rejecting chicks who text you for a chick who's not fucking you? Also you are rejecting chicks for a chick who's not fucking you who you see 3 to 5 times a month?

What the fuck

I'd say stop sending yourself fake messages to show her to make her jealous. Because no guy who is twenty fucking 4 has options yet he chooses a 18 year old girl he's not fucking or seeing.
Nah man these chicks are real, one of them is my ex, other are female friends. I showed her because I wanted to build trust.
We started dating short time ago and things are getting serious.

Yeah maybe I catched oneitis but she feels the same towards me.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Jul 08, 2016 12:46 am ]
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You are rejecting chicks who text you for a chick who's not fucking you? Also you are rejecting chicks for a chick who's not fucking you who you see 3 to 5 times a month?

What the fuck

I'd say stop sending yourself fake messages to show her to make her jealous. Because no guy who is twenty fucking 4 has options yet he chooses a 18 year old girl he's not fucking or seeing.
Nah man these chicks are real, one of them is my ex, other are female friends. I showed her because I wanted to build trust.
We started dating short time ago and things are getting serious.

Yeah maybe I catched oneitis but she feels the same towards me.
lol 3-5 months and no sex

pretty lame

and that's my opinion also as a professional therapist

Author:  JoseH [ Fri Jul 08, 2016 12:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating a girl but i think she's not over her ex yet

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You are rejecting chicks who text you for a chick who's not fucking you? Also you are rejecting chicks for a chick who's not fucking you who you see 3 to 5 times a month?

What the fuck

I'd say stop sending yourself fake messages to show her to make her jealous. Because no guy who is twenty fucking 4 has options yet he chooses a 18 year old girl he's not fucking or seeing.
Nah man these chicks are real, one of them is my ex, other are female friends. I showed her because I wanted to build trust.
We started dating short time ago and things are getting serious.

Yeah maybe I catched oneitis but she feels the same towards me.
lol 3-5 months and no sex

pretty lame

and that's my opinion also as a professional therapist
Actually we had only 5 dates, kiss close on the first, yeah I know it is pretty lame but it's the first time I should take a girl's virginity.

We've done other things anyway but no penetration.

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