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Author:  Stratton [ Wed May 11, 2016 8:39 am ]
Post subject:  Trying to get her to forgive me so we can have fun again
Hi guys, appreciate any help here.

The gf and I got in a fight on Saturday and we didn't really talk last few days.

Today we spoke for first time really and I got her to commit to a dinner date on Friday.

Now a couple hours later she send "not sure if I forgave you yet"

How do I respond to this? I have already apologized and don't necessarily want to do that again.

Should I keep it light, or stand my ground? She's a pretty tough girl herself
Author:  dicemaster [ Wed May 11, 2016 9:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to get her to forgive me so we can have fun again
You can write down, you will chance your mind when you see me.
Author:  Stratton [ Wed May 11, 2016 9:28 am ]
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You can write down, you will chance your mind when you see me.
Thanks man, I like it!
Author:  Stratton [ Wed May 11, 2016 9:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to get her to forgive me so we can have fun again
Ok she came back with "and why is that"

Time to bring back some fun in the conversation

Any more tips here?
Author:  dicemaster [ Wed May 11, 2016 10:18 am ]
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There is no such a feeling can resist against true love.
Author:  Stratton [ Wed May 11, 2016 10:34 am ]
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There is no such a feeling can resist against true love.
Great stuff. I think I'm in the clear, can't wait to put all this shit behind us and chill again.

Thanks
Author:  dicemaster [ Wed May 11, 2016 11:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to get her to forgive me so we can have fun again
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Quote:
There is no such a feeling can resist against true love.
Great stuff. I think I'm in the clear, can't wait to put all this shit behind us and chill again.

Thanks
Your welcome.
Author:  R.C [ Wed May 11, 2016 12:15 pm ]
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Do you really need us to talk to your girlfriend for you?

Why did you fight?
Author:  neo87 [ Wed May 11, 2016 3:56 pm ]
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Why did you fight
?

You know that doesn't matter for how he should respond

:roll:
Author:  JackZero [ Wed May 11, 2016 4:05 pm ]
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My favorite part is that dicemaster, who came here trying to figure out how to get his girlfriend back, is now giving out the forgiveness advice. What a difference a few months makes.
Author:  dicemaster [ Wed May 11, 2016 9:42 pm ]
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My favorite part is that dicemaster, who came here trying to figure out how to get his girlfriend back, is now giving out the forgiveness advice. What a difference a few months makes.
Cuz we were with my ex beyond repairable point, so i eqs not beg or tried get her back. I have my respect against me and i did not give a shit. But for Op it is just easy to make things work again. Yeah even a day can make difference.
Author:  Stratton [ Thu May 12, 2016 2:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to get her to forgive me so we can have fun again
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You can write down, you will chance your mind when you see me.
Allright hours late, but my buddy responded who lives a solid 15 hour time difference away from me.

I sent her the above, and according to him I qualified myself with that. Looking back, I can see what he's getting at.
Author:  Stratton [ Thu May 12, 2016 2:18 am ]
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Do you really need us to talk to your girlfriend for you?

Why did you fight?
I acted like an ass, that's why we fought. No need to get into detail because it's not important.

As far as if I need your help to talk to my gf, yes, that's why I am posting in the relationship section of this forum. What else am I supposed to use it for?
Author:  JackZero [ Thu May 12, 2016 2:20 am ]
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I acted like an ass, that's why we fought. No need to get into detail because it's not important.
Did you have a dismissive attitude with her?
Author:  Stratton [ Thu May 12, 2016 7:47 am ]
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I acted like an ass, that's why we fought. No need to get into detail because it's not important.
Did you have a dismissive attitude with her?
Nope, what I did was wrong, I apologized, maybe over apologized.

I think now I have been conditioning her this week to receive apologies when she brings it up. So I am ceasing apologizing about that entirely.

I'll see her tomo, will just have a fun night and hopefully we can put it behind us. Overal she responds better to me when I'm standing my ground, should have acted that way yday from the start.

She's a pretty tough girl and has little time for a guy who's readily available and needy. But hey I'm still learning, all my previous gfs weren't nearly as independent.
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