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Author:  NVB_2 [ Tue Mar 29, 2016 9:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Push/pull in a relationship?
Should a relationship be treated like pickup? I feel as though if we are always just getting along, she could get bored, so we need to argue every once in awhile. It's supposed to be like an emotional roller coaster I've heard. The problem though, is that I'm with a girl right now who happens to be very sensitive, and she doesn't handle disagreements well. How should I go about this? Do you think she would get bored if we had a conflict-free relationship?
Author:  dicemaster [ Tue Mar 29, 2016 11:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Push/pull in a relationship?
someday kid comes to dad and say
k~dad i wanna marry
d~say sorry first
k~why??
d~say it
k~ok i am sorry..
d~after you learnt saying sorry for nothing, now u r ready for marriage.
:)

There is no drama free relationship bro, the fact is how successful you are by management the crisis.

Alpha male has always control under shit times. So you should keep your frame. If you are getting angry, after that point u will lose the fight.

At the other hand, setting good boundaries can also help you to have a healty relationship. Do not expect much thing from your gf. That keeps you happy.

And the other question, push pull strategies are also good for balancing the relationship. If you act needy, push strategy is helpful way to get the fuck out of the crap. Vise versa.
My 2 cents..
Author:  R.C [ Wed Mar 30, 2016 7:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Push/pull in a relationship?
Quote:
Should a relationship be treated like pickup? I feel as though if we are always just getting along, she could get bored, so we need to argue every once in awhile. It's supposed to be like an emotional roller coaster I've heard. The problem though, is that I'm with a girl right now who happens to be very sensitive, and she doesn't handle disagreements well. How should I go about this? Do you think she would get bored if we had a conflict-free relationship?
First off no, a relationship is not treated like pickup.

Secondly, if arguments are your way of stimulating your girl emotionally and making sure she doesn't "get bored" .. I don't know man. There's just some things that are so painfully obvious I shouldn't have to explain them. Just like this is such a painfully obvious stupid way to go about things.

Yes, you should stimulate women emotionally. That's the best way to connect with them. But for a healthy relationship that should be done in a positive way.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Mar 30, 2016 3:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Push/pull in a relationship?
You emotionally stimulate her out of her panties. Not out of the house.

This takes a man really knowing his woman, her needs,what turns her on.
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