another oneitis is in the ship. U only missed her pussy, just it is. Best way to avoid this kinda feelings gaming on other chicks.

Like u said, the reason is her dissappearing IMO avoid to have a relationship with you, at least you give us only this detail except how the good was Sex.

My 2 cents are stop pursue her and wait her to come to you.

Seemingly you should not push for relationship.

It is all withdraval sendrome. When u were out, u think not much cuz u are busy. Keep your mind busy bro. Sometimes it is hard to understand women, maybe she is playing with you to see how u r acting in her absence. Leave it to the time at least 1week more. Try to avoid acting needy. Do not give to shit to her.

I don't think she's playing games. Cmon, she actually made a pact and she did her part. Seems to me like really coherent girl, so cross that options.


Did you use each other to fuck only or you actually know each other at some level? Maybe her past relatioship were shit and she just wants to went?


And... Usually, women develop feelings after sex, and you tried way to hard with texting her and calling her. Thats really needy in relationships, not to mention, especially when you are only fucking. Start seeing other girls, and don't contact this particular one anymore, she'll come along. They always do.

Who knows what's going on on her end, no point even speculating.

Just send out a 'nice' message saying you'd enjoyed your time with her and would like to get to know her better and then leave the ball in her court and move on with your life.

I think so, but it's too shallow reason for her not to contact me, or at least inform me on why she couldn't come. We can avoid commiting for a relationship, stay FWB like before, but then, she's gone like a ninja? Sometimes, it's hard to understand women.

Thats the nature of friends with benefits. No strings attached. No strings....

FWB's come and go man. Chick gets feelings, or you get feelings, or either decides to pursue someone else seriously or casually. You dont just keep ONE FWB and sleep with just her and think thats gonna last forever. Sounds like you 2 have stronger feelings than a casual relationship and she doesnt want that.

Can't stop thinking about her lately. Why she's not reaching out or contacting me. It's freaking weird and it seems like there's no reason for her to suddenly be cold towards me.

It's just your ego talking to you Bro, wanting what you can have.

You had a little seed of a warm wet fuzzy memory. You got your little red rocket going, and thought you'd like another taste, so you reached out.

You were confronted with the mighty wall of nothing returned.

With you personal ego wounded, your mind will try to get your own sense of self worth back up to what it was when you won her the 1st time. It does this by pushing you harder to win the thing that did the damage in the first place, which, in this case, is the girl you can't have.

Chasing her any more aggressively will most certainly push her even farther away from you, wounding your ego further and making you want her even more.

Your trying to wrap your mind around the idea; "Why wouldn't she want some of this? That's fucked!" When you completely dazzled her panties off last time.

The truth is, it's likely not you. It could be any number of reasons, as Neo said, or her grandma died, she got herpes, she changed numbers due to a stalker other than you, a horrific car wreck, could be six new dicks since then.

You just don't know. What we do know is her availability is restricted, causing you to place an unrealistic value on her.

The best thing is to relax, step back and not invest any further. If she was FWB status then you have other options. Use them.

I'm sure there is other pretty Easter Eggs in your basket.