I stopped reading and just started counting red flags.

How tight is her pussy?(just for curiosity)

for the OP to put up with this woman he has no other options in his life, and no self respect and no standards

Red Flag #1 She took me home first date, just did foreplay and later admitted she had sex with another guy she dated the day after our first date, said she just wanted to see if there was something there and a week later asked me to be her boyfriend before finding this out later in a argument.

Red Flag #2 In discussing our sexual past she admitted to sleeping with male friends "as a great way to get to know them better" and had slept with over 50 guys before me, She is 26, She was also big into couch surfing community. Still talks to many of them

Red Flag #3 While she is cute she also acts masculine, owns a business in a male dominated field.

Red Flag #4 We moved in together very quickly, and later after a bunch of fights I asked her to move out and she did but she wanted to stay together and continue the relationship because she understood I was under a lot of stress and we moved in to quickly together but she would eventually want to live together again. It's been a few months but she goes through weekly day long cold/distant spells but still states she wants to stay together and work things out.

Red Flag #5 Mostly talks to me about my business contacts that could help her, always is keen and happy to discuss this but never likes discussing the relationship if it is something she is doing to make me unhappy and refuses to change these behaviors (mostly being cold and distant) (or talking to single male friends that she either once had a relationship or fling with)

Red Flag #6 Never acts jealous even knowing I have attractive (most physically more attractive than her) female friends and a couple that are interested me, also does not react when I flirt in front of her with other girls. I'm also pretty attractive and financially and professionally successful as well as she is.

Red Flag #7 Week after she moved out we were supposed to meet up another night for a event she texted me to say she is too tired later through some phone snooping I see she texted a guy that night that I never met she claims is just a friend and has a girlfriend. The day of the event she texted she would let him know what she was doing after work and the text ended there. She later introduced me to the guy after I told her I knew about it.

Red Flag #8 Several times she has stayed over she has been getting late night calls which she does not take from a guy I have met via an email intro and phone call from (professional related) out of state but says is just a friend and these calls never happened when we lived together.

Red Flag #9 Keeps condoms in her apartment when we lived together and after she moved out (We have never used them) she has never gotten rid of them she says she keeps them in case we ever might need them if we do it in a place where there could be a mess. She also used to carry a condom in her bag but stopped after I told her it made me uncomfortable.

Red Flag #10 Had a guy she once slept with years ago she claimed had a very small penis in our relationship and she just kept him as a friend. He helped her move out of my apartment. Also early in the relationship the same guy visited her from out of town for professional reasons after we had established we were in a relationship (now lives in the same town) and slept on an air mattress in her bedroom because she had roommates at the time. (we also went on some double dates together, he is actually a nice guy. So I went along because he had a date.)

Red Flag #11 A night after a fight she left my apartment and went silent the next day and did not answer her apartment door the following day or pick up her phone or respond to text until later in the evening.

Red Flag #12 Once flirted in front of me with a guy in front of me she had admitted to having sex with twice in the distant past. Got defensive when I called her out on it then admitted it was 5 times and only for sex as she was never interested in him. Later apologized and said she regretted doing that to me.