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Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 11:09 pm ]
Post subject:  The hassel of Dating Immature Women
Meet a girl two weeks ago while on vacation. I really was not looking to meet someone, but she came on pretty strong, and was showing at lot of interest. Long story short, we spent a lot of time with each other during the 3 my vacation. We did not get too serious, just making out and cuddling on the beach type stuff.

I found out that she lives only half an hour from my place back home. After I left, she was texting me non-stop talking about how we were going to meet up back home.

Back home, we ended up going on a date to the local fair, and after we had sex that afternoon.

I texted her a few days later asking to see if she wanted to have lunch, since I was on her side of town. No response. Probably busy or phone issues because she has not been on snap chat as usual. 3 days later, which brings us to today, I hit her up on facebook asking if she wanted to go out for saint patricks (we are friends on there at her requests because she wanted to tag me in her posts) and still haven't got an answer.

She is 19 and I am 23. At the onset she kept telling she how wonderful I was and that she likes guys like me. Naturally, I am confused. If she just wanted to hookup that could have easily been done the first night of the vacation. I pretty sure she is playing games, but I am not really sure how to respond since this is the first time in several years that I have been open to more than just hooking up.

Thanks for the help guys.
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
Go by her actions and not words. If she were serious, she would find time to respond.
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Mar 18, 2016 1:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
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Meet a girl two weeks ago while on vacation. I really was not looking to meet someone, but she came on pretty strong, and was showing at lot of interest. Long story short, we spent a lot of time with each other during the 3 my vacation. We did not get too serious, just making out and cuddling on the beach type stuff.

I found out that she lives only half an hour from my place back home. After I left, she was texting me non-stop talking about how we were going to meet up back home.

Back home, we ended up going on a date to the local fair, and after we had sex that afternoon.

I texted her a few days later asking to see if she wanted to have lunch, since I was on her side of town. No response. Probably busy or phone issues because she has not been on snap chat as usual. 3 days later, which brings us to today, I hit her up on facebook asking if she wanted to go out for saint patricks (we are friends on there at her requests because she wanted to tag me in her posts) and still haven't got an answer.

She is 19 and I am 23. At the onset she kept telling she how wonderful I was and that she likes guys like me. Naturally, I am confused. If she just wanted to hookup that could have easily been done the first night of the vacation. I pretty sure she is playing games, but I am not really sure how to respond since this is the first time in several years that I have been open to more than just hooking up.

Thanks for the help guys.
So...you didnt get serious 2 weeks ago when you first met. Then when you slept with her, you hit her up a few days later to meet again. Do you see how crazy it sounds to think SHE's the one playing games, when YOU say you want to get serious but your actions are otherwise. If you wanted to be serious with her, act like it. No one is a mind reader.
Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Fri Mar 18, 2016 1:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
I didn't say I wanted to get serious, though I am open to it. The way things were going there seemed to be a bit of potential. I am not really sure what you're getting at about being crazy. Seems pretty routine to me. Hookup and sometimes they chill with you after sometimes they don't. This time I'm more curious than anything since it took several days just to hookup.
Author:  R.C [ Fri Mar 18, 2016 8:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
Why exactly is she being immature?
Author:  dicemaster [ Fri Mar 18, 2016 2:46 pm ]
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Why exactly is she being immature?
Cuz she did not like to fuck him. That made her immature :D
Author:  masterm1ne [ Fri Mar 18, 2016 3:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
Why are you not considering your age group here? At your age, I wish I had the exp of hooking up and seeing as many women as I have now... That's what you should be focused on, meeting lots of people so you can figure out what you like and dont. I see so many 20 yr olds on here posting bout girls and immaturity. You've lived what? Like 1/3 to 1/4 of your life?

You know how many people in their late 20s/30s regret getting all serious with someone else in their 20s? I can still see the person I was at 20 and where I am now. 2 near completely different people. She is immature due to age. You really can't expect anything else or want anything but a hook up. If you're still talking when you guys are 30 and 26 then come back and post.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Mar 18, 2016 4:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
You scratched her itch. And fed her. Good Job.
Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Fri Mar 18, 2016 6:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
I appreciate the you guys taking the time to post replies. Although, I am just looking for an answer to the question how to proceed. I haven't received much in that department other than from JackZero.

As of now, I have just decided to stop contacting her, and go out with other women. The ball is in her court, and she can reinitiate contact if she wants. If not, easy come easy go.

^Does that seem like a good approach?

If you want to discuss more about the background details I provided, then PM me.
Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Fri Mar 18, 2016 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
I suppose the alternative would be to wait a few more days and contact her saying something along the lines of, "Is everything okay. I enjoyed spending time with you, and would like to again. If you were interested in a one time thing, I respect that and will move on and leave you alone."
Author:  Furiox [ Sun Mar 20, 2016 10:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
Reading all this i get a feeling you are to invested in this one girl and now that she is not giving you the same investement back in return your trying to attract her by chasing her with clever texts...

Now if a girl ignores you its a no brainer your not what she is looking for right now. Girls with value have plenty of options. You already answered your own question, go out with other girls, have fun and stop texting this girl for a week, yes resisting texting her is hard but feeling like like shit hoping she will be attracted to you sucks even more
Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Fri Mar 25, 2016 6:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
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Reading all this i get a feeling you are to invested in this one girl and now that she is not giving you the same investement back in return your trying to attract her by chasing her with clever texts...

Now if a girl ignores you its a no brainer your not what she is looking for right now. Girls with value have plenty of options. You already answered your own question, go out with other girls, have fun and stop texting this girl for a week, yes resisting texting her is hard but feeling like like shit hoping she will be attracted to you sucks even more
Solid Advice. I think my ego just got the best of me, and was not thinking straight. I haven't talked to her in a week. And since then have been date, talking to several other girls, and have a threw things lined up for the future. School's out in a month, I will consider contacting her in a month or two when things die down and summer starts.
Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Sun Mar 27, 2016 4:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The hassel of Dating Immature Women
She started contacting me again after a week of silence.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 28, 2016 1:39 pm ]
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She started contacting me again after a week of silence.
Let her chase.
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