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| Author: | Crustav [ Mon Mar 14, 2016 2:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Don't want to make any rash decisions, need outside help |
Well, been seeing this girl exclusively for the past 6 months. Everything had been going great, she cooks for me, good conversation, good sex, no dramas. Yet, i recently stayed over for a few days and while she was showing me photos on her phone i noticed she had the tinder app installed. I was kinda surprised to see it but didn't say anything and carried on as if nothing happened. Now that i am back home and thinking about the weekend, i'm concerned about it. 1. Either she installed it some time ago and never got rid off it but doesn't use it 2. She still uses it. Frankly, i don't want to be cucked or cheated on. I know that some girls only use it for validation but damn, man, this is going to torture me now. If you were me, what would be your next move? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Mar 14, 2016 2:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't want to make any rash decisions, need outside help |
Build a time machine. Go back in time and ask her why she has tinder on her phone when you first see it. Seriously, these things should be addressed in the moment. Since you didn't do it then, calmly ask her about it now. We know the answer already will be that she never removed it, but at least you will make her aware that you know she has it on her phone. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Mar 14, 2016 9:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't want to make any rash decisions, need outside help |
Sure, talk to her. Personally I wouldn't be bothered by something like that. Maybe I'd playfully give her some shit about it but nothing more. Don't hyperventilate though. If she's happy with you you're not being cheated on, |
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| Author: | horologist [ Mon Mar 14, 2016 12:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't want to make any rash decisions, need outside help |
You've been exclusive for half a year and you can't ask her about tinder? |
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| Author: | dicemaster [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 1:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't want to make any rash decisions, need outside help |
mirroring her behaviour is also an option. But u could ask her whenever, it is not a big deal IMO. Everybody has this app nowadays. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 2:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't want to make any rash decisions, need outside help |
Hit her up on Tinder. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 4:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't want to make any rash decisions, need outside help |
Quote: Hit her up on Tinder.
lolunless she didn't select him then there's no match |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 4:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't want to make any rash decisions, need outside help |
You have trust issues... And maybe it's this girl or its just you. Regardless talk in the moment. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 4:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't want to make any rash decisions, need outside help |
Talk to her without any accusations/implicating her in anything. "felt a bit surprised when i saw the tinder on your phone, just wanted some clarity around that" sorta thing. If you've already built-up an enemy image of her then I suggest you give yourself the empathy you need so that when you do talk to her about this it's not coming out of negative energy which she may react to. |
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