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Author:  sapipa [ Mon Mar 07, 2016 10:14 pm ]
Post subject:  GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... wtf?
So,

I gave my ex a second chance and it didn't work out (as most of you predicted :oops: )
We both did our bests but in my opinion she has some deep issues that just don't make her capable of having a stable serious relationship.
After another set back I was just really done with it and we decided to break up.
She understands but asked me if I wanted to have a platonic relationship with her because she doesn't want to lose me. She told me I could see and fuck other girls, so she had the space to work on her issues. She also told me she wouldn't be allowed meeting other guys in this scenario. Also, and that really surprised me she asked if she could explore her sexual desires with other woman in this "agreement". I asked that if I would agree I could join, to which she replied she didn't want to see me fuck another girl...

So to be honest I was really mind boggled by this and have no idea what to think of it?

I already declined because I don't really have any interest in her anymore and believe I deserve a girl of higher quality.
Also staying in this relationship would just keep frustrating me over her behaviour, issues and I'm just to emotionally invested in this girl to not give a fuck...

But seriously, why would any woman want something like this?

Thanks!
Author:  JackZero [ Mon Mar 07, 2016 10:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
What did she say when you asked her why she would want that?
Author:  sapipa [ Mon Mar 07, 2016 10:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
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What did she say when you asked her why she would want that?

I did not really go in to detail about it because I was kind of shocked.
She said she didn't want to lose me but understood that I would meet other girls because she isn't able to satisfy my needs at the moment...
Author:  JackZero [ Mon Mar 07, 2016 10:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
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What did she say when you asked her why she would want that?

I did not really go in to detail about it because I was kind of shocked.
She said she didn't want to lose me but understood that I would meet other girls because she isn't able to satisfy my needs at the moment...
Here's my theory. She doesn't want to lose you but understands that you will meet other girls because she isn't able to satisfy your needs at the moment.
Author:  dicemaster [ Mon Mar 07, 2016 10:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
This offer kinda devil's one. I'd probably accept this offer even if i dont interest with her cuz in this deal u have nothing to lose, in contrast u can get benefits from it. It is like typicall advanced FWB.

Wait till u find another LTR, see her as insurance, then dump her. Kida soft nexting. It is Win Lose situation. Keep on fuckin...
Author:  R.C [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 9:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
That's like saying you'll quit smoking by just having a couple a week.

1/100 people can do it, the other 99 will fall right back into the habit.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 9:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
Attachment.

It doesn't sound like a healthy compromise for either one of you.

It's just a way of not letting you go, but will require more work than its worth.
Author:  neo87 [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 12:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
Why did you guys break up?

It sounds to me like she just wants to fuck girls for a while
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 3:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
Quote:
But seriously, why would any woman want something like this?

Thanks!
There is something she's never had the chance to do alone. Although the situation is not ideal. The reality is that she has to feel full in herself before she can have a mature and unwavering relationship with someone else.
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She understands but asked me if I wanted to have a platonic relationship with her because she doesn't want to lose me. She told me I could see and fuck other girls, so she had the space to work on her issues.
She's just not quite ripping the band-aid off, leaving you hanging there like a safety net. An option, if she trips on her journey and fucks it up.

Is that what YOU want? Is that where you picture yourself?

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, and choose honestly.

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option, seriously.

EDIT:
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-Keep her WiFi code.
Author:  sapipa [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 7:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
Quote:
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But seriously, why would any woman want something like this?

Thanks!
There is something she's never had the chance to do alone. Although the situation is not ideal. The reality is that she has to feel full in herself before she can have a mature and unwavering relationship with someone else.
Quote:
She understands but asked me if I wanted to have a platonic relationship with her because she doesn't want to lose me. She told me I could see and fuck other girls, so she had the space to work on her issues.
She's just not quite ripping the band-aid off, leaving you hanging there like a safety net. An option, if she trips on her journey and fucks it up.

Is that what YOU want? Is that where you picture yourself?

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, and choose honestly.

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option, seriously.

EDIT:
Quote:
-Keep her WiFi code.
Nice insights! Your first sentences are not completely clear with me (English is not my mother language).
Could you explain a bit more on "There is something she's never had the chance to do alone. Although the situation is not ideal. The reality is that she has to feel full in herself".

Thanks man
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 7:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
Quote:

Nice insights! Your first sentences are not completely clear with me (English is not my mother language).
Could you explain a bit more on "There is something she's never had the chance to do alone. Although the situation is not ideal. The reality is that she has to feel full in herself".

Thanks man
She's moving in a direction that does not include you. She has unfulfilled aspirations.

It may not be the best timing. but is it ever?
Author:  sapipa [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 10:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
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Quote:
Nice insights! Your first sentences are not completely clear with me (English is not my mother language).
Could you explain a bit more on "There is something she's never had the chance to do alone. Although the situation is not ideal. The reality is that she has to feel full in herself".

Thanks man
She's moving in a direction that does not include you. She has unfulfilled aspirations.

It may not be the best timing. but is it ever?[/quote]

Ok, that makes sense. There is a lot of wisdom in your words :)
I made it clear to her that I just want a breakup. So now she is showing hard work in trying to keep me.
Why is it that this woman shows the most love when she knows there is a good chance of losing me and acts the complete opposite way when she knows she has me?
Author:  dicemaster [ Tue Mar 08, 2016 10:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
low quality relationship, no matter what it doesnt fucking really perform some effort. Go hunting do not think much about her.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Mar 09, 2016 4:47 pm ]
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low quality relationship, no matter what it doesnt fucking really perform some effort. Go hunting do not think much about her.
"perform some effort" and "hunting"

Well folks there's your wisdom for the week.
Author:  oceanx [ Thu Mar 10, 2016 11:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: GF wants to go platonic and let me fuck other girls... w
She may be tired of hetero sex at the moment.
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