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| Author: | bonbon [ Mon Feb 29, 2016 10:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
The girl I'm seeing angrily told me that there are two things that you should never ask a girl. They are, 1. Her age. 2. Her past. Why is that? Why is it that girls manage to extract my age and my past? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Feb 29, 2016 10:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
Quote: Why is that? This specific girl doesn't speak for all women, so don't worry about it.Quote: Why is it that girls manage to extract my age and my past? Because you let it happen.
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| Author: | bonbon [ Mon Feb 29, 2016 10:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
I like your answers. So what are the best possible response if the girl ask about your past girl friends, what happened, sex life, etc.... It's a rather delicate subject as it could make or break a potential new relationship. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Feb 29, 2016 10:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
Quote: I like your answers.
This answer is strictly from my point of view. If a girl doesn't like my past...oh well. However, I've never met a girl that has disqualified me for my past with women. I believe the more checkered past that you have, unless you're talking abusive, the more the woman wants to be able to be the one that can tame you.
So what are the best possible response if the girl ask about your past girl friends, what happened, sex life, etc.... It's a rather delicate subject as it could make or break a potential new relationship. |
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| Author: | horologist [ Mon Feb 29, 2016 11:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
Quote: I like your answers.
Dude, you're thinking about this all wrong. The subtext of your question, the psychology behind it, is putting these girls on a pedestal.So what are the best possible response if the girl ask about your past girl friends, what happened, sex life, etc.... It's a rather delicate subject as it could make or break a potential new relationship. It's NOT a delicate subject. It's a subject you need to be totally up front and honest about. If you play it down, she will think you just don't know how to please a woman. When I get on the subject of my past, past girlfriends, sex life, etc, I am 100% up front, and I even grovel in it a little bit. Her: How many girls have you been with? Me: Haha that number is too high for me to tell you. You'll think I'm a fucking slut. Her: Nah it can't be that bad. Me: This is gonna have to be a quid pro quo conversation then! Her: What's quid pro quo? Me: You've never seen Silence of the Lambs, have you? Her: I love that movie! Me: Me too! It's fucking bad ass. No, Quid Pro Quo, like I tell you so you tell me. Her: Okay haha so how many Me: 56 total. But like 48 in the past year Her: Oh my god! You're busy! Me: Your turn! Her: Umm like 15. Me: That's not that many. You need to raise your numbers a bit. Jeez. What are you a fucking angel! Her: Maybe I do! ^^^^^ That is a very real conversation that I've memorized because it goes almost exactly like that Every. Single. Time! Trust me, it's a good thing to be up front about your history. Pre selection by women through your story telling is definitely a thing. I also like to talk about how the girl can't handle me in bed because I turn into a rabid fucking animal. Quit thinking their personalities are delicate sensitive little flowers. |
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| Author: | dicemaster [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 12:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
she is relatively right because if you ask her age, the result d be higher than you. I could reduces chance to fuck her. About past, i think it is normal to ask but do not be so specific, even u say, make it with playful way. So fuck first, then ask. U ll be happier  Maybe u will not need to ask about her past, by judging her actions, responses and ability in sex. It is pretty clear if she is good at least she has had one LTR.
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| Author: | R.C [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 12:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
Quote: The girl I'm seeing angrily told me that there are two things that you should never ask a girl. They are,
Because she's an idiot.1. Her age. 2. Her past. Why is that? Why is it that girls manage to extract my age and my past? No, really. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 3:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
When a woman asks you to guess her age/weight, it's like deciding whether to cut the blue, red, or green wire to diffuse a bomb. Her stating that is the same shit. I would have said; "It's no big deal, you don't look a day over (her age + 5 years). With a cheesy grin. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Fri Mar 11, 2016 6:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
When I first meet up with the girl I usually play a game of "lets guess each other's weight." I usually estimate it like 50 to 75 pounds over what she probably is, with a straight face. It works. To a noob reading this i am only kidding. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Mar 13, 2016 7:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
I mean Jackzero gave you the straight to the point response. So no need to talk about that. If a girl likes you, some, not all will look past your bullshit. So dont worry about the make or break relationships. Lets be real, you can't keep it a secret forever. I have managed to always avoid the topic of past relationships, honestly, I talk way less about myself and way more about her. They do get curious and ask me, all i really do is tell them that a gentleman doesn't discuss his sex life with girls that aren't in it. No biggie. |
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| Author: | maria_ [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 11:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
Quote: The girl I'm seeing angrily told me that there are two things that you should never ask a girl. They are,
You put her in a difficult position. She doesn't know if she'll say the wrong thing and ruin her chances of a relationship.1. Her age. 2. Her past.g Why is that? Why is it that girls manage to extract my age and my past? You have no obligation of answering those questions. If you don't feel that it is fair you can say something along the lines: "a lady should never ask a gentleman those things" The best policy is don't ask about someone's past and don't say yours either. The age at some point is going to be revealed. Don't worry about it. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 11:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
Quote: "a lady should never ask a gentleman those things"
AS usual Maria gets it.
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 1:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Don't ask about the girl's past or her age... |
Quote: Quote: "a lady should never ask a gentleman those things"
AS usual Maria gets it. |
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