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Author:  oliserio [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:53 am ]
Post subject:  Is her ex still in the picture? She hides photos of us on FB
Hi guys, I want your advice on this:
Met this girl 5 months ago when she was ending a bad relationship. She went to Israel to disconnect from all that but she met me just before leaving, so she came back after 4 months. During that time she came 1 week to visit me and we had great sex and when she was in Israel we SPAM and texted all the time, the thing looked promising.
Her ex went to Israel to try and get her back, but she told me not to worry at all and she wanted to be with me. They met once there in Israel with 10 other people because she needed more people to fill a tour bus and didnt know more people around there. It bothered me, I told her and she acted a bit distant after telling me not to worry because they were with 10 other people.
Now she came back 20 days ago and lives in my town, at 2 minutes from my place. We meet all the time, great sex, she knows my friends now and I've taken her to cool places.
THE PROBLEM: I asked her if she wanted to be my GF 1 week ago (I know it was a mistake guys) and she said she wanted something serious but it was too soon and wanted to know me better.
Her ex likes nearly all the photos she uploads to Facebook and she still has photos of them kissing, which bothers me tbh.
The other day we went out with 2 other friends and we have a photo of us 4 together (I have my arm around her). I uploaded it to Facebook and tagged them, but today I saw that the photo doesnt appear on her timeline nor in her photos section, which means she didnt approve it to appear on her profile..This seems like a RED FLAG to me and leads me to believe she doesn't want to "show me" to her social circle or her ex-boyfriend. Should I confront her on why she's hiding that photo on her profile? There really isnt any evidence that I exist if you look at her Facebook, even though we've been to places and have photos together, she's never uploaded any of them yet she has done whith photos with her girlfriends from here..
Author:  neo87 [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 5:53 am ]
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If she's hiding you on FB, could be one of a few things

You're not that serious to her, she doesnt know if you'll be dating for a while so would rather not show you
Shes keeping the option of going back to the ex open, ie you're a time filler
She is serious about you but would rather not show you on fb cause people may ask her how is she already with someone or something.
Author:  oliserio [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 8:32 am ]
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If she's hiding you on FB, could be one of a few things

You're not that serious to her, she doesnt know if you'll be dating for a while so would rather not show you
Shes keeping the option of going back to the ex open, ie you're a time filler
She is serious about you but would rather not show you on fb cause people may ask her how is she already with someone or something.
So would you ask her why is she hiding it? I wont behave the same with her after this, I know myself, and I want to know why she did it..
Author:  R.C [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 11:52 am ]
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I think neo's being overly optimistic with his last statement.

My opinion is that this girl is hung on her ex and doesn't want him to find out she's moved on.
Author:  oliserio [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 12:07 pm ]
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I think neo's being overly optimistic with his last statement.

My opinion is that this girl is hung on her ex and doesn't want him to find out she's moved on.
I sent her a text asking her about it and this was her response:
" :lol: Its not that, I think its something in my settings that doesnt allow you seeing it, let me check...
(Minutes later) Seems that photos im tagged never go on my wall, just when im tagged in texts or when I share something. How can i change it?
(Minutes later) Il be in 15 minutes down ur house before i go to work to give u a kiss. Fixed my settings..from now on every photo we take together will be on my wall for everybody to see(love emoticon) if thats so important for u little princess(kiss emoticon)."
I think her excuse is BS because I can see other photos she's been tagged in, unless she's changed her settings recently, but on the other hand it looked like she wanted to "fix" this somehow..how should I proceed?
Author:  R.C [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 12:39 pm ]
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Well there is a setting that needs you to check and allow every post you're being tagged in to show on your wall. Personally I have it activated.
Author:  oliserio [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 1:07 pm ]
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Well there is a setting that needs you to check and allow every post you're being tagged in to show on your wall. Personally I have it activated.
I have it aswell but this means she didn't allow it show on her wall. I don't know what I should do now really,
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 1:14 pm ]
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OP, you're just one month interacting face-to-face in person as more than friends with this girl. Give it time. You're too eager and putting too much pressure on the girl.
Author:  oliserio [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 1:35 pm ]
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OP, you're just one month interacting face-to-face in person as more than friends with this girl. Give it time. You're too eager and putting too much pressure on the girl.
Thanks for the advice, I think I need to relax and give her more time to know me and not put too much pressure on her.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:22 pm ]
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Fixed my settings..from now on every photo we take together will be on my wall for everybody to see(love emoticon) if thats so important for u little princess(kiss emoticon)."
That's her calling you out for being a needy bitch.
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I think I need to relax and give her more time to know me and not put too much pressure on her.
Now your thinking.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:41 pm ]
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I think neo's being overly optimistic with his last statement.

My opinion is that this girl is hung on her ex and doesn't want him to find out she's moved on.
This.
Author:  oliserio [ Thu Jan 21, 2016 12:49 am ]
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So this friday she'll apparently go to a concert in the town where she used to live with her ex and the band is of her ex's brother...I know because it showed on facebook's news feed that she'll assist to the event.
Now I dont know if her ex is back living in that town again because he moved to Israel when she was there to try and get her back, but nevertheless seems strange that she would go to another town just to see her ex's brother's band play and also she would have to stay overnight in that town because there are no trains to get back after 10pm..
She's coming over to my place tomorrow afternoon and I really dont know how to act after this, I trust her in some way but my experience with women tells me to be cautious when there's an ex in the background or a recent break-up (in this case 5 or 6 months ago). It could be that she's just good friends with her ex's brother, given that they spent quite some time together..
Would you guys dump her or continue and see if its just my imagination?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Jan 21, 2016 1:47 am ]
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Sarge other girls so you're not THIS needy. Besides, you're not officially bf-gf yet. Technically, she won't be cheating if she fucked her ex again. Just continue fucking her. Give her the benefit of the doubt AND learn from this experience. In case she gets back with her ex, just remember that after all, pain is the greatest teacher of them all.

You won't get REALLY good with women until you went through several relationship pains.
Author:  Cross De Lena [ Thu Jan 21, 2016 10:56 pm ]
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OP, you're just one month interacting face-to-face in person as more than friends with this girl. Give it time. You're too eager and putting too much pressure on the girl.

And start seeing other chicks too. Having one options clouds your judgment, you would think very differently if you had more options at the same time.
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Fri Jan 22, 2016 3:44 pm ]
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So this friday she'll apparently go to a concert in the town where she used to live with her ex and the band is of her ex's brother...I know because it showed on facebook's news feed that she'll assist to the event.
Now I dont know if her ex is back living in that town again because he moved to Israel when she was there to try and get her back, but nevertheless seems strange that she would go to another town just to see her ex's brother's band play and also she would have to stay overnight in that town because there are no trains to get back after 10pm..
She's coming over to my place tomorrow afternoon and I really dont know how to act after this, I trust her in some way but my experience with women tells me to be cautious when there's an ex in the background or a recent break-up (in this case 5 or 6 months ago). It could be that she's just good friends with her ex's brother, given that they spent quite some time together..
Would you guys dump her or continue and see if its just my imagination?
She's NOT officially your girlfriend. She has no obligation not to go out, or even not to fuck anyone else. You asked and she said no.

To be honest it really is still early. Ease back and relax a bit. Meet new women. But being overly concerned will only fuck things up, not help them.
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