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| Author: | Mixooo [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 6:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl has low self esteem |
So there's this girl that Im dating we both really like each other for some reason she has low self esteem, and when we are with group of friends she's alway quiet. I asked her why she's quiet and she was like im just like that. Her previous relationship broked her heart, and right now she's thinking that I might brake her heart, and that I could be the same as her other bf, but she gave me a chance. Please give me some advices guys. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 6:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl has low self esteem |
Have you taken her to Pound Town yet? |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 7:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl has low self esteem |
A lot of people avoid answering the above question because they think we're just perverts or trolls. They view it as if we're asking "how big are her tits?" But, believe it or not, it's actually somewhat important information. So, genuinely, have you had sex? |
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| Author: | Mixooo [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 1:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl has low self esteem |
yeah we did couple times last time was last weekend, seems like shes thinking still about her past, she is like really cute but she has very low self esteem and low confidence as well, so kind of lost in this situation |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 1:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl has low self esteem |
Well, feminine energy grows through praise. Whenever she does something that you like, make sure to go all out with the compliments. The trick is to only compliment when it's earned. Don't just constantly tell her she's amazing for no apparent reason. Make sure it's earned, and it's true. If she has horrible hair then don't spend your days telling her how amazing it looks. Just don't comment on it. If she does something new with her hair, gets her nails done, buys some new shit... then she probably did it for you. Don't be all "Ye looks ok. I'm a bit busy, sorry." but instead give it the whole "Wow! Yea, it looks great! The hair suits your face shape, and makes your eyes stand out more. I love it." Compliment her on odd things, too. If she's being real understanding when you're going through some shit, tell her after it's sorted "You know, I do really appreciate how caring you are. I like knowing that we can count on eachother if shit fucks up for one of us. We're a good team, you and I." When she comes bitching about somebody at work, it's hard to pay full attention (even I fuck up on this one a lot) but do your best. I don't care if she was a huge bitch, you tell her she was right and the other person was being such a bitch. Don't be all "Yea... mmmhmmm... yea..." but go all out with "She said what? Wow so she thinks she can just talk to you like that? I don't think so. That place is lucky to have you" lol. Don't do the same thing if she argues with a relative, in that situation just ask "do you want advice, or do you just want me to listen?" and if she asks for advice, you're so fucked. Just sit on the fence and make it look like you're giving advice when you're not. Just basically encourage her to reach the decision that she sounds like she has already reached. And for the love of anal, please, NEVER, EVER, EVER use a neg on her. Ok? I know this sounds a little too... routine based, but I know a girl similar to the one you described, and it's just how it is. If I tell her how good her hair looks, I get about 10 selfies on Snapchat to make sure that I get a full understanding of how good it looks. Lol. I do neg her though, because she knows the basics of pick up and knows about things like negs, reframes, qualifying and all this... so she knows I'm fuckin' about. If she didn't, I wouldn't. I'd tease, but I wouldn't go all out with a neg like "It's brave of you to wear that shirt. I love brave girls" lol. |
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| Author: | Mixooo [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl has low self esteem |
Thanks for the info bro, could you recommend any books? ive read alot of forums and recently finished reading "the game" but still looking for new fresh material |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl has low self esteem |
Going out and taking action is 10 times as beneficial as reading books. Expecting to get good from reading books is like expecting to be a good driver from reading books. Theory is only a small percentage of it. Having said that, check out the topic in my thread for new guys. Corey Wayne especially. |
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| Author: | Karlb [ Sat Jan 30, 2016 6:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl has low self esteem |
Tell her you're not her ex-boyfriend. Bring her around your parents and family. When she sees you treating them well she will open up and trust you more. |
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