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| Author: | oliserio [ Sun Nov 29, 2015 3:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Long Distance girl acting cold and distant |
Hey guys hope you can help me out: I've been long distance with this beautiful german girl for 3 months now. She was my german teacher (she's 25 years old and Im 27) and attraction sparked fast after the first classes we had, we made out on the second date+ me fingering her. She was here in Barcelona but she already had a ticket and a contract to go for 1 year to Israel to work so she had to go..Later she told me that she was living here in Barcelona with her ex-boyfriend (they had been together for like 2 years) and that things ended because they didnt do anything during the whole year she was living here with him and they also had 2 major discussions, so she decided to move away from here. Of course she met me (been gaming for years, I've always had girls and sex since I was 16, naturally good looking..) and things changed. She came to my house for 1 week after she had been 1 month away and we had incredible sex, I made her orgasm every time and we had incredible conection, like boyfriend-girlfriend. She went back to Israel and after 1 week passed she told me on SPAM that she would only stay there for 4 months instead of 1 year and that she was going to my town to live, to be with me (she already had worked here so she could work in the same place no problem). So we've been 3 months long distance and things were good: Skyping every week , texting every day, her saying I miss you and things like that, wich made the distance better (although its very hard, I would never do it again). The thing is that her ex boyfriend moved to Israel aswell to try to get her back. I told her that I dont want anything serious with an ex in the picture and she promised me that I didnt have to worry about it, she didnt want to talk or see him at all after what had happened in the past, I trusted her since I saw she was truly a nice girl and a very honest one (I dont fall easily for this, I've had lots of girls in my life and can detect the lies easily). A week ago we were Skyping and she told me that in a bus tour she did around Israel she had asked her ex boyfriend to join her and another couple (her neighbours) and other people, since they were missing people in the bus and she didnt know many people there. This bothered me and the next day I texted her that I wanted to SPAM and talk about this, I told her it wasnt a big deal but not something I'm cool with either. She told me that she thought this issue was already cleared and that there were 10 other people in that tour and the ex didnt try to get her back, that thank god he acted normal. So she put excuse not to SPAM after I told her I wanted to talk about that and the next day the same. This past week she has been acting cold and distant, with little to no affection or love in her texts (although she still initiates, but not as much) and she still hasnt proposed a SPAM. I'm acting as normal, sending her funny things and being cool, but in reality I feel completely devastated because I know this cold behaviour from her is not a product of my imagination even if in long distance its easy to get paranoid. It could be that she is busy these days since she's leaving Israel and going back to Germany in 4 days, before coming here to live in 1 month or that she was offended by me pointing out that the ex thing bothered me, but I've been 3 days feeling completely unloved and miserable. She already has the plane tickets to come here and has been looking for a flat to live here during these 3 months, but I'm still scared she'll cancel it all or some crazy shit like that. I really like this girl, although we aren't officially GF-BF, we do act like it and before she left we said each other not to worry about being with other people, implying we wouldnt (although I've fucked my ex GF once and made out with another girl during these 3 months, otherwise the distance would have been unbearable). Am I just paranoid about all this and should I just chill and act normal since she's coming in 1 month? Thanks guys I know you will give me good advice. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Nov 29, 2015 11:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Long Distance girl acting cold and distant |
Paragraphs lacking, did not read |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sun Nov 29, 2015 3:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Long Distance girl acting cold and distant |
I read the first two sentences and the last two sentences and I can already give you your answer. Let her come back and when she gets in touch with you, take it from there. |
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