PUA Forum :: Her past is killing me

Hello,

Im 25 and shes 23, I have been with my girl for about 10 months. And just thinking about her past makes me sick. Its not that she jumped on 50 dicks or anything, she just slept with one man before me who she was in a relationship with. He was 9 years older than her when she was 19 and i just found out that age difference recently. He was using her and she doesnt really like to talk about it. Anyways, she's perfect for me, loves me to death and seriously would take a bullet for me. Some might say thats bull, but its true. I have slept with women before, However i always wanted to marry a girl who has only been with me, its kinda selfish I know.

After several heart breaks in my life, i worked hard to get a successful career, dress well, talk with confidence and I'm tall and handsome. Anyways, i knew about this when we started dating but i ignored that it was bothering me. Recently we decided to get married, and I would love that. However, today i bursted out and went all crazy bringing up the topic about her ex. She cried, said sorry and begged me not to leave her and telling me how it was the biggest mistake in her life. I wasnt going to leave her, its just we rarely fight.

My problem is, images of them having sex pop in my head (i never met him, so i just think of an older dude), i feel pain inside my heart when I think about it. Half of me tells me to leave her the other half is telling me to deal with it. I love her so its really hard. My father always told me that marrying a virgin woman was important, and my family is in a way religious. Hers too btw, thats why she's 23 years old and im the second guy. Im so confused that I dont know what to do and I need advise.

Thank you

Author:	Rekk'd [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 2:07 am ]
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Hello, Im 25 and shes 23, I have been with my girl for about 10 months. And just thinking about her past makes me sick. Its not that she jumped on 50 dicks or anything, she just slept with one man before me who she was in a relationship with. He was 9 years older than her when she was 19 and i just found out that age difference recently. He was using her and she doesnt really like to talk about it. Anyways, she's perfect for me, loves me to death and seriously would take a bullet for me. Some might say thats bull, but its true. I have slept with women before, However i always wanted to marry a girl who has only been with me, its kinda selfish I know. After several heart breaks in my life, i worked hard to get a successful career, dress well, talk with confidence and I'm tall and handsome. Anyways, i knew about this when we started dating but i ignored that it was bothering me. Recently we decided to get married, and I would love that. However, today i bursted out and went all crazy bringing up the topic about her ex. She cried, said sorry and begged me not to leave her and telling me how it was the biggest mistake in her life. I wasnt going to leave her, its just we rarely fight. My problem is, images of them having sex pop in my head (i never met him, so i just think of an older dude), i feel pain inside my heart when I think about it. Half of me tells me to leave her the other half is telling me to deal with it. I love her so its really hard. My father always told me that marrying a virgin woman was important, and my family is in a way religious. Hers too btw, thats why she's 23 years old and im the second guy. Im so confused that I dont know what to do and I need advise. Thank you

Author:	JackZero [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 2:51 am ]
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Easy fix. Grow up. Either toss her to the side and find your virgin and hope she makes you feel the same way or realize that it is normal for a girl of 23 years of age are sexually active.

Author:	Rekk'd [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 3:17 am ]
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Okay thanks for the reply.

Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 4:08 am ]
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Unless you are into volcano worship, you really don't need a virgin. What all men need is a woman who loves them faithfully and will serve his needs as a man. Most humans can't get things right the first time. Why deny her the benefit of making a mistake once? She is not a god. You are not either.

Author:	rakeal [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 4:55 am ]
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Quote: I have slept with women before, However i always wanted to marry a girl who has only been with me Kind of hypocritical. Dude get over it. If you don't want her send her my way. She sounds amazing. This day and age women are hard to come by. I bet she has men hitting on her non stop. You are lucky enough to have her and you are tripping over nothing. The pictures in your mind are your own insecurities. Were the other women you slept with virgins? Do you wish she wore a berka too (for the record I am arab/white) If you are happy, you are happy. If you have slept with her already then at this point it's a moot point.

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Author:	Rekk'd [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 6:07 am ]
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I know this is all in my head. I know the problem is me and not her. And no, I would never have sex with a virgin unless im willing to get into a LTR or something. We do sleep together and its amazing, actually everything is amazing. I guess I will just continue everything as normal until these fucked up thoughts start to fade. I just wish they werent so damn painful and I hate the idea of her being used when she was soo naive. Thank you

Author:	oceanx [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 8:11 am ]
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For the love of humanity please break up with this girl. This cannot be a real posting. It's 2015 ffs.

Author:	Rekk'd [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 1:34 pm ]
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Yeah it's 2015, a world filled with feminists and girls starting to ride cock and do the nastiest shit starting at the age of 14. So yeah wanting something thats right but now that idea is corrupted by beta males like you. Makes me the bad guy, or as if something is wrong with me for wanting what men have been getting since the beginning of history.

Author:	Dragula [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 1:45 pm ]
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Quote: Yeah it's 2015, a world filled with feminists and girls starting to ride cock and do the nastiest shit starting at the age of 14. So yeah wanting something thats right but now that idea is corrupted by beta males like you. Makes me the bad guy, or as if something is wrong with me for wanting what men have been getting since the beginning of history. Why not try and be gay instead?

Author:	Rekk'd [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 2:56 pm ]
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I thought about it, why not come and give me my first gay blowjob to see of i like it or not

Author:	Dragula [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 3:24 pm ]
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Quote: I thought about it, why not come and give me my first gay blowjob to see of i like it or not I don't suck off beta men. Just alpha.

Author:	neo87 [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 3:42 pm ]
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I think you guys shouldnt get married, just because both of you don't seem mature enough to know what you want.

Author:	R.C [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 9:47 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: I thought about it, why not come and give me my first gay blowjob to see of i like it or not I don't suck off beta men. Just alpha. Hey Peb, I want you to suck me off. Also OP, what the fuck man?

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Mon Nov 23, 2015 2:05 am ]
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Quote: Hello, Im 25 and shes 23, I have been with my girl for about 10 months. And just thinking about her past makes me sick. Its not that she jumped on 50 dicks or anything, she just slept with one man before me who she was in a relationship with. He was 9 years older than her when she was 19 and i just found out that age difference recently. He was using her and she doesnt really like to talk about it. Anyways, she's perfect for me, loves me to death and seriously would take a bullet for me. Some might say thats bull, but its true. I have slept with women before, However i always wanted to marry a girl who has only been with me, its kinda selfish I know. After several heart breaks in my life, i worked hard to get a successful career, dress well, talk with confidence and I'm tall and handsome. Anyways, i knew about this when we started dating but i ignored that it was bothering me. Recently we decided to get married, and I would love that. However, today i bursted out and went all crazy bringing up the topic about her ex. She cried, said sorry and begged me not to leave her and telling me how it was the biggest mistake in her life. I wasnt going to leave her, its just we rarely fight. My problem is, images of them having sex pop in my head (i never met him, so i just think of an older dude), i feel pain inside my heart when I think about it. Half of me tells me to leave her the other half is telling me to deal with it. I love her so its really hard. My father always told me that marrying a virgin woman was important, and my family is in a way religious. Hers too btw, thats why she's 23 years old and im the second guy. Im so confused that I dont know what to do and I need advise. Thank you You realize you posted this (childish, immature) question to a pickup forum, right? For the life of me I can't figure out why. This isn't remotely pickup related - and seriously, what kinds of responses did you think you'd get from this place?

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Author:	DavidDHall [ Mon Nov 23, 2015 3:39 pm ]
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WTF man?how the hell do you know she is telling the truth?you know sometimes dont ask questions if you are not ready to hear an answer, thats my advice to you. If you are happy with her and she is happy with you that great and else doesnt matter, dont screw it up, i screwed up once and now i`m fucked up and fucking everything that walks, and every day i think what IF?so just relax and enjoy your life man!