PUA Forum :: Dating 4 women. Have oneitis for one them.

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Um... Not to be rude but what lifestyle are you afraid of losing? Your kissing 1 girl and holding hands with another. How old are you?

You must be daft to ask that to someone who said they're dating multiple women. Just let that sink in for a bit big boy.

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Oh no. We have another one...

Another what exactly? I came asking for advice on dealing with growing feelings for a girl and keeping the frame with other women. So far I haven't seen a meaningful contribution from you. So either kindly give me advice or don't comment at all.

My question was genuine. I have no idea why many of you guys are too "beta" to fuck a girl, then come online to be aggressive. Lol, be that aggressive in person on the dates. Did you tell girl 1, "oh you must be be daft to not kiss me/fuck me on the first date!" No, you didn't. You waited like a good boy till the second date. So if you want to tell people they're daft, tell that to the chick who you ain't fucking or kissing on the first date. Tell that to the chick who is sending you SPAM messages...that hasn't fucked you yet. Tell the african chick she's daft for sending you selfies and never kissing you. THAT'S DAFT. I'm not even insulting YOU, just telling you be THAT aggressive offline dude. Same way you can say either give me advice or dont comment at all, tell these chicks, either kiss me or fuck me on the first date or dont text me again.

As I said, I'm not trying to be rude to you. But this "lifestyle" is just going on 1 or 2 dates with a kiss hopefully in the future. You should not even be calling it a lifestyle. When I'm "dating" multiple women and having a similar problem, it's because I'm FUCKING multiple women, able to call down any one of them for sex and move on. Not trying to give you shit, but trying to tell you, you have work to do before you even worry about one itis over a 10. I was literally reading the post thinking "oh he's fucking 4 chicks and has to decide..." then my thoughts were "oh...he's not really doing anything and stressing about some girl he hasn't kissed."

THIS IS NOT TO BASH YOU. Relax, keep dating women, fuck the women you're dating, have fun. DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS OR PICKING A WOMAN YOU HAVEN'T SLEPT WITH.

Author:	XLR8R [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 8:17 pm ]
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Good to be back on these forums. Best damn time was spent reading the material here. After a year long process of rebuilding my frame after my failed relationship, you could say I hit "God Mode" pretty damn hard. Subtle brag here, but I just went on a rampage full of working out, diet, and women. Fast forward to present day, and I'm in a pickle (a good one in retrospect). I'm currently dating 4 different women (yes, 4. Not a typo). Each is unique and has something I like about them. Allow me to break them down. 1: HB 7.5 - Ecuadorian chick I met by chance. Gamed her pretty quickly and K closed by 2nd date. I have plans to make her a FWB. Reckon I need another date with her to seal the deal. 2: HB 7 - She's a nurse. She squats. She is head over heels for me. As amazeballs as that sounds (even I like the ring to it, a nurse that squats...), she's borderline needy/psychopathic. She's always calling me and wanting to SPAM when we can't hang out (among other things). She's wanting something serious though, so I'm on the fence with this one. K closed on the 1st date, probably a mistake. 3: HB 9 - A model (I don't even blame you if you stopped believing me at this point haha). She too looking for something serious being very religious, but still wants to have fun. She loves sending me selfies and asking ones from me (massive IOIs from her). Been on one date with her, can get the K close next one easily. She's African. 4: HB 10 - Jesus. Initially I didn't pay her a lot of attention after being introduced through a friend. After I started texting her I started really liking her. Pretty as hell and a personality to go with. I've been with her a few times for coffee, and have held hands only at this point. Also looking for something serious. I'm pretty sure you guys see I have oneitis for HB 10. I'm trying desperately to turn it off just so I don't act needy around her. I realised yesterday that I probably text her too often so I'm gonna cut it out. I finish my exams in a week and we have plans to meet up afterwards. There's a few problems with all of this shit. 1. I want this girl, but I don't wanna ruin it with the other 4. I feel like I'll relapse into a beta state and blow it with all four. 2. My oneitis lives 2 hours away from me, unlike the others who live (quite) close. 3. I would prefer not to develop feelings for HB 10, or any of them. I'm confident I can keep myself emotionless for the first 3 girls, but I'm afraid of the 4th one. What do I do now? Do I cut off all contact with HB 10 to game the other 3 and not blow it? I want a relationship preferably, but I also wanna just bang women. So even my goals are a bit muddled at this point. Help me out fellas, like you've done before.

Author:	JackZero [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 8:37 pm ]
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You need to have sex with these girls. Let's talk about the oneitus after you fuck the one that you put on the pedestal.

Author:	XLR8R [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 9:12 pm ]
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Obviously that's what I want to do. But as I said, I'm developing feelings for this girl and can't seem to turn it off. I'm afraid these feelings will jeopardize my chances with not only her, but the other girls. Where do I go from here?

Author:	Dragula [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 9:29 pm ]
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Quote: You need to have sex with these girls.

Author:	JackZero [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 9:41 pm ]
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Quote: Obviously that's what I want to do. But as I said, I'm developing feelings for this girl and can't seem to turn it off. I'm afraid these feelings will jeopardize my chances with not only her, but the other girls. Where do I go from here? You're going to lose all of them anyway. Your worried about losing them when you haven't experienced any of them.

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Author:	XLR8R [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 9:47 pm ]
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Thanks for the honest replies fellas. I'm not afraid of losing these women, my abundance mentality is strong. What I am afraid of (maybe worded it incorrectly in the post) is that I fall back into my beta tendencies and lose my AM. As in, I'll stop gaming women in general just to focus on one woman. Obviously I don't want that happening so I wanted advice on how to tackle my oneitis. I get sex regularly from a FWB. That isn't the issue here.

Author:	neo87 [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 9:52 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: You need to have sex with these girls.

Author:	JackZero [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 9:57 pm ]
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So you're basically saying that you know that you are too weak for this girl. Since you already know that you are too weak, stay away from her.

Author:	XLR8R [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 9:58 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: You need to have sex with these girls. Hahahaha. Since ya'll insist I just hope that my feelings towards HB 10 don't get in the way of my game. I prefer the emotional detachment route, and my game is centered on this core principle. Will F close the 1st girl next week. 2nd girl has a great ass but not sure if I can put up with her psychosis (she grinded me and cried afterwards telling me never to leave her, I mean wtf). We shall see where the tide takes us.

Author:	XLR8R [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 10:01 pm ]
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Quote: So you're basically saying that you know that you are too weak for this girl. Since you already know that you are too weak, stay away from her. Yeah, you think that's a good idea? I dunno, she just gets to me. It's like the girl I would settle down with, but since I'm not looking to do that right now, I think she would cause more harm than good to my current lifestyle. If I could learn to turn off my emotions towards her, it would be good. Suppose I'll focus on her flaws to push her off the pedestal. God damn, I nearly forgot how therapeutic it is to type here.

Author:	neo87 [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 10:30 pm ]
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Um... Not to be rude but what lifestyle are you afraid of losing? Your kissing 1 girl and holding hands with another. How old are you?

Author:	Dragula [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 10:30 pm ]
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Oh no. We have another one...

Author:	XLR8R [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 10:39 pm ]
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Quote: Um... Not to be rude but what lifestyle are you afraid of losing? Your kissing 1 girl and holding hands with another. How old are you? You must be daft to ask that to someone who said they're dating multiple women. Just let that sink in for a bit big boy. Quote: Oh no. We have another one... Another what exactly? I came asking for advice on dealing with growing feelings for a girl and keeping the frame with other women. So far I haven't seen a meaningful contribution from you. So either kindly give me advice or don't comment at all.

Author:	neo87 [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 11:12 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Um... Not to be rude but what lifestyle are you afraid of losing? Your kissing 1 girl and holding hands with another. How old are you? You must be daft to ask that to someone who said they're dating multiple women. Just let that sink in for a bit big boy. Quote: Oh no. We have another one... Another what exactly? I came asking for advice on dealing with growing feelings for a girl and keeping the frame with other women. So far I haven't seen a meaningful contribution from you. So either kindly give me advice or don't comment at all. My question was genuine. I have no idea why many of you guys are too "beta" to fuck a girl, then come online to be aggressive. Lol, be that aggressive in person on the dates. Did you tell girl 1, "oh you must be be daft to not kiss me/fuck me on the first date!" No, you didn't. You waited like a good boy till the second date. So if you want to tell people they're daft, tell that to the chick who you ain't fucking or kissing on the first date. Tell that to the chick who is sending you SPAM messages...that hasn't fucked you yet. Tell the african chick she's daft for sending you selfies and never kissing you. THAT'S DAFT. I'm not even insulting YOU, just telling you be THAT aggressive offline dude. Same way you can say either give me advice or dont comment at all, tell these chicks, either kiss me or fuck me on the first date or dont text me again. As I said, I'm not trying to be rude to you. But this "lifestyle" is just going on 1 or 2 dates with a kiss hopefully in the future. You should not even be calling it a lifestyle. When I'm "dating" multiple women and having a similar problem, it's because I'm FUCKING multiple women, able to call down any one of them for sex and move on. Not trying to give you shit, but trying to tell you, you have work to do before you even worry about one itis over a 10. I was literally reading the post thinking "oh he's fucking 4 chicks and has to decide..." then my thoughts were "oh...he's not really doing anything and stressing about some girl he hasn't kissed." THIS IS NOT TO BASH YOU. Relax, keep dating women, fuck the women you're dating, have fun. DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS OR PICKING A WOMAN YOU HAVEN'T SLEPT WITH.

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Author:	XLR8R [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 11:16 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: Um... Not to be rude but what lifestyle are you afraid of losing? Your kissing 1 girl and holding hands with another. How old are you? You must be daft to ask that to someone who said they're dating multiple women. Just let that sink in for a bit big boy. Quote: Oh no. We have another one... Another what exactly? I came asking for advice on dealing with growing feelings for a girl and keeping the frame with other women. So far I haven't seen a meaningful contribution from you. So either kindly give me advice or don't comment at all. My question was genuine. I have no idea why many of you guys are too "beta" to fuck a girl, then come online to be aggressive. Lol, be that aggressive in person on the dates. Did you tell girl 1, "oh you must be be daft to not kiss me/fuck me on the first date!" No, you didn't. You waited like a good boy till the second date. So if you want to tell people they're daft, tell that to the chick who you ain't fucking or kissing on the first date. Tell that to the chick who is sending you SPAM messages...that hasn't fucked you yet. Tell the african chick she's daft for sending you selfies and never kissing you. THAT'S DAFT. I'm not even insulting YOU, just telling you be THAT aggressive offline dude. Same way you can say either give me advice or dont comment at all, tell these chicks, either kiss me or fuck me on the first date or dont text me again. As I said, I'm not trying to be rude to you. But this "lifestyle" is just going on 1 or 2 dates with a kiss hopefully in the future. You should not even be calling it a lifestyle. When I'm "dating" multiple women and having a similar problem, it's because I'm FUCKING multiple women, able to call down any one of them for sex and move on. Not trying to give you shit, but trying to tell you, you have work to do before you even worry about one itis over a 10. I was literally reading the post thinking "oh he's fucking 4 chicks and has to decide..." then my thoughts were "oh...he's not really doing anything and stressing about some girl he hasn't kissed." THIS IS NOT TO BASH YOU. Relax, keep dating women, fuck the women you're dating, have fun. DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS OR PICKING A WOMAN YOU HAVEN'T SLEPT WITH. My apologies in that case. I do go sleep with women but as I said, I have a thing going with these 4 women currently. I've only been seeing them for less than a month, but yeah I agree that I do need to escalate faster. I've been busy lately with studies and exams but no excuses. Thanks neo, was the response I came looking for.