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| Author: | melbourneplayerAU [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 2:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dating girl for 2 years, says shes confused + LUST help |
Hey everyone, Not sure whats happened here but ill try my best to explain Dating girl for 2 years, recently i think i lost the power in the r/s coz she was always getting upset and recently ive just been giving in - partly coz i thought a good bf should reward her every now and then? (is this correct) (sometimes she even cries when she wants to go somewhere that i decline). ANYWAY she said she is now confused/dosntknow who she is/thinks all this time dating for 2 years gf/bf was just lust. Pretty much learned it means attraction is going? Correct me if im wrong on this point Any suggestions on what to do? All help appreciated cheers ! |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 4:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dating girl for 2 years, says shes confused + LUST help |
Quote: ive just been giving in - partly coz i thought a good bf should reward her every now and then? Rewarding shitty behavior, will get more shitty behavior. On the other hand, judging by grammar alone, perhaps it was just lust? You might want to stop wearing your “I’m with Stupid” T-Shirt. Unless, it is the only clean shirt that you have. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dating girl for 2 years, says shes confused + LUST help |
Maybe it's not deeper than it appears. A relationship isn't a permanent thing. If she's saying she doesn't see herself with you long term take it for what it is. |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Sun Nov 15, 2015 1:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dating girl for 2 years, says shes confused + LUST help |
Give her time and space to miss you, focus on yourself for a while. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Nov 16, 2015 11:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dating girl for 2 years, says shes confused + LUST help |
Sorry OP but sounds to me you were a ride-along. Basically a dick with a pulse. Someone she never really loved, but provided her with the bare minimum she needed (affection and sex) until someone she considers truly attractive springs in her life. |
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