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- Words not matching actions -- Some nights she will say before bed that she wants to have sex tonight/is excited to have sex/is horny for me. But when we go to bed, all of a sudden she's too tired and says she wants to do it tomorrow. Last week she showered and even "shaved for me", but then just wanted to go to sleep.

- I have a hard time getting her warmed up and getting her to finish -- This is moreso embarrassing to me. We will be cuddled up and I have a hard on for her but I feel like I struggle getting her turned on whereas I used to have no problem getting her going. It kinda worries me that I have a desire for her but she doesn't for me in return. Outside of the bedroom she does nice things for me and even randomly gave me a massage last weekend which felt so nice. Not just that but I'm not even sure if she's cumming from me, she "thinks" she does but I know her and she's more inconsistent about it.

Author:	reel2real [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 1:32 am ]
Post subject:	Help me re-ignite my relationship
Been a while since I have posted and maybe that's why I'm in this predicament... I have been in a relationship for the past 14 months. We were long distance in July, I moved to the same state as her in September and now 70 miles apart from her. While things have been pretty good between us, the sex has been decreasing from 2-3 times a week to just once, and the quality of it hasn't been as good. Some of the issues I have had with her are: - Words not matching actions -- Some nights she will say before bed that she wants to have sex tonight/is excited to have sex/is horny for me. But when we go to bed, all of a sudden she's too tired and says she wants to do it tomorrow. Last week she showered and even "shaved for me", but then just wanted to go to sleep. - I have a hard time getting her warmed up and getting her to finish -- This is moreso embarrassing to me. We will be cuddled up and I have a hard on for her but I feel like I struggle getting her turned on whereas I used to have no problem getting her going. It kinda worries me that I have a desire for her but she doesn't for me in return. Outside of the bedroom she does nice things for me and even randomly gave me a massage last weekend which felt so nice. Not just that but I'm not even sure if she's cumming from me, she "thinks" she does but I know her and she's more inconsistent about it. - She's always tired/worn out from her work -- She's a 3rd year Medical student and she does say a lot that she is tired at the end of her day. She's constantly studying/worried about an upcoming exam and stressed out from her studies. I have a feeling this is a contributing factor. However, when we started dating last year, we had no problem doing it 2-3 times a week. She doesn't seem to be working harder but it is taking more energy out of her. We have kinda talked about this and she agrees that it is an issue. She enjoys sex and it feels nice. She misses how we did it a lot and when we do it, it brings us closer. So she does want to work on it which is a good sign. That said, how do I go about fixing this? Some things I am doing/trying are: - Have a vacation booked in December - Booked a couples massage - Seeing her more often and trying to relieve her study pressure What else should I be doing? Suggestions? I plan on talking with her more on this soon. I fear if things do not change it's not gonna work out.

Author:	DW-Heart-Charmer [ Wed Nov 18, 2015 3:22 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Help me re-ignite my relationship
Quote: - Words not matching actions -- Some nights she will say before bed that she wants to have sex tonight/is excited to have sex/is horny for me. But when we go to bed, all of a sudden she's too tired and says she wants to do it tomorrow. Last week she showered and even "shaved for me", but then just wanted to go to sleep. This are girls man. You can't plan sex and then be disappointed if they don't feel it in the moment. Never talk about sex, just lead up to it. Quote: - I have a hard time getting her warmed up and getting her to finish -- This is moreso embarrassing to me. We will be cuddled up and I have a hard on for her but I feel like I struggle getting her turned on whereas I used to have no problem getting her going. It kinda worries me that I have a desire for her but she doesn't for me in return. Outside of the bedroom she does nice things for me and even randomly gave me a massage last weekend which felt so nice. Not just that but I'm not even sure if she's cumming from me, she "thinks" she does but I know her and she's more inconsistent about it. Work on your sex game dude. It would be beneficial for you to know that she is cumming for you and even more so, cumming multiple times. There are plenty of resources out there for better sex. The key is that if she is having amazing orgasms with you everytime, why would she ever decline sex?

Author:	R.C [ Wed Nov 18, 2015 11:05 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Help me re-ignite my relationship
What the fuck dude. Would you not know you came? Would you "think" you came? She isn't cumming. Read "She Comes First".

Author:	DW-Heart-Charmer [ Thu Nov 19, 2015 3:08 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Help me re-ignite my relationship
Quote: Read "She Comes First". Good book. Also read Sex God Method.

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