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Hi guys,
I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years and I've noticed that over the past year when she texts me, most of the time they seem to be her texting me at work telling me how much work she has to do and how she might be stressed etc, its rarely asking me how my work is going or anything about us?
So you say "do you want advice, or do you just want somebody to listen?" and do as you're told I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years and I've noticed that over the past year when she texts me, most of the time they seem to be her texting me at work telling me how much work she has to do and how she might be stressed etc, its rarely asking me how my work is going or anything about us?
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I have also noticed(trivial I know) that she no longer puts kisses in her messages to me.
Are you 12? Lol. Do you put kisses to her? Unless I'm in a pretty soppy mood, I only put kisses when I'm saying bye, or maybe when I'm saying thanks.Quote:
How should I handle these messages, I know that trying to directly solve her problems isnt what I should be doing , should I bother to reply to these at all?
Typical texts are " this next job is going to take me 8 hours , my eyes are going square. Stressing out".
She's that busy, and STILL texting you? Whoa, she's into you Typical texts are " this next job is going to take me 8 hours , my eyes are going square. Stressing out".
You should just be reassuring. "You'll do it though, right? You're good at your job "