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Author:  Danish Delight [ Sat Sep 05, 2015 9:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Loosing interest in girlfriend
Hi

Im having trouble finding out if Im just loosing interest in my girlfriend, which I have known for 8 month only, or its just the honeymoon phase which is over.

My problem is she is this really nice girl, who treat me like im the biggest price ever. She cooks for me, gets me food, give me massage and just treat me like a prince. But Im starting to see her more as a friend than as a girlfriend, its like the spark have gone missing. I still care for her, but like a friend.

At the moment Im feeling I want to take other girls with me home, but at the same time Im afraid Im making a mistake by letting her go. What if it was just the honeymoon phase which was over?

So what are your guys thought on this? Have anyone of you been in the same kind of situation and have any advice you can give to me?

All kind of feedback are welcome and appreciated :) Sorry for my bad spelling.
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Sep 05, 2015 10:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
I went through the exact thing. I was wanking to porn before my gf would come to bed so I wouldn't have to have sex with her. I just missed that variety and often would think of other girls...

I wasted a lot of time just... tolerating the relationship.

Let me ask you this, if you had a sexy girl ask you for sex NSA low risk, would you do it?

If I was you I would just end it ASAP. I know it's hard and you will regret it as soon as you do it but you gotta fight it. I don't think it will last from my experience.
Author:  TheBlackMagician [ Sat Sep 05, 2015 11:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
Some people really want a relationship and then there are some people who want a relationship until they get it because they just wanted to experience what it was like with this person.

If you really want a relationship then I would advise to make sure to sit down and talk to your girlfriend about the problem and what kind of problems there are. Obviously there were reasons why you wanted a relationship with her and a point in time you were happy and satisfied by being with her so if you can try to remember what all that was. COMMUNICATION IS KEY IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS

What really changed? Was it you? Her? Or were you really in it just for the challenge?

Not everyone wants a relationship and if you think about all this and really decide that this is not where you want to be and you can see your life without her and that it looks better. Then I would say yes break up with her and let her know that your feelings have changed and you do care about her, just not in that way anymore (BE WARNED: it will likely end up in as a messy situation)

BUT I would strongly advise trying to think about all these things, see if there's anyway you can salvage your relationship...

Also a relationship is supposed to be fun and still interesting... roleplay... have sex in strange and new places, different positions and become way more adventurous, spend more time doing those kinds of things or by doing romantic things and going to romantic places, you have to think of a relationship as if you are still gaming her each and everyday and that she's still a challenge, but also that she is still trying to win you over. BOTH SHOULD ALWAYS CONTINUE TO FLIRT AND PLAY AROUND

That's why the spark is gone. The fun has started to fade and now you're just in the same old boring routine. That's why most relationships end. You can't change yourself for the relationship, you adjust to a point, but if you change who you are you can become miserable and as well end up being bitter towards her.

Good luck! I hope this helped and if you need anymore advice contact me man... just make sure to think this through
Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 8:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
These types of feelings are normal after the honeymoon phase. Wondering if there is a problem is counterproductive. Just be open and honest with yourself and partner about what is going on, and what you both want.
Author:  R.C [ Mon Sep 07, 2015 8:43 am ]
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Listen to yourself.

If you want to experience meeting new girls, do so.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Mon Sep 07, 2015 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
Could be a case of her doing too much for you.

Having a female prize you - personally I find it a bit gross, especially since I am secure in myself and don't need a woman for validation.

Try having some space apart during the week - seeing each other a bit less. Opening lines of communication is imperative; tell her you want her to do less for you - that she doesn't have to do all your cleaning and cooking etc.

I'm not saying this is definitely the case but it couldn't hurt to try.
Author:  Danish Delight [ Wed Sep 09, 2015 6:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
Thanks for the replies guys. I have been thinking, and I believe that due to the fact that I don't see myself having kids with her and my loss in sexual interest in her I should move on. Even though we are having fun, I still need the sexual part of the relationship.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Sep 09, 2015 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
Quote:
Thanks for the replies guys. I have been thinking, and I believe that due to the fact that I don't see myself having kids with her and my loss in sexual interest in her I should move on. Even though we are having fun, I still need the sexual part of the relationship.

Sounds like a logical decision. Tis is the part where you think you're gonna be drowned in pussy, but you know how it is, all the buses come at once don't they but never there when you need it.

Fight the dip and once you get that 1st sexy gal, you will be glad to be single again. Goodluck
Author:  R.C [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 7:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
Pretty much what the English Muffin said.

I applaud your courage though. Most people who come here don't have what it takes to do right by them.
Author:  Danish Delight [ Sun Sep 13, 2015 10:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
One more thing, Im not that used to actively break up, so how the hell to do it? Im going to man up and tell her face to face in a polite way, but do I just invite her over and drop the bomb or do I cook some dinner first? She is a nice and emotional girl and I still like her, so I would prefer to do it as gentle as possible.

Any more tips? Haven't been able to find any specific guides in her for that.
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Sep 13, 2015 10:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
Quote:
One more thing, Im not that used to actively break up, so how the hell to do it? Im going to man up and tell her face to face in a polite way, but do I just invite her over and drop the bomb or do I cook some dinner first? She is a nice and emotional girl and I still like her, so I would prefer to do it as gentle as possible.

Any more tips? Haven't been able to find any specific guides in her for that.

Lol this whole time you haven't done it???

Dude, no routine needed. Just be authentic
Author:  Danish Delight [ Sun Sep 13, 2015 10:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
Havent had time to meet her, busy with university and work. So what do I write to her to get her over? Or just act casual about it?
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Sep 13, 2015 10:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
Don't you think this is...one of those face to face to kind of things?????

Tell her what you told us. No script.
Author:  Danish Delight [ Sun Sep 13, 2015 10:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
ofcouse, so I just tell her to get to my place as usual?
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Sep 13, 2015 10:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Loosing interest in girlfriend
Dude, she is currently your girlfriend so she will meet you anywhere that you normally hangout. I am not saying anything else because your questions are suddenly really stupid.

Stop asking us how to meet your current girlfriend.
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