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Author:  murovsky [ Thu Aug 27, 2015 8:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Open Relationship Issue / Cheating GF
I've been dating this girl for over a year now, she calls me boyfriend and introduced me to her family, friends, etc. Sex is great and she loves being dominated. She ALWAYS initiates contact and we see each other every weekend.

I found out that she eventually fucked another guy(s). The subject came up and she admitted it. I acted cool but said I wasn't confortable with that. I WANT HER MINE. I know she likes a powerful man. Generally I am pretty alpha, but not so much over the last couple months, I have been a bit introspective.

She is bisexual, very alternative and said she's ok with me fucking other girls. She can do the same but I dont want her to fuck other men.

Any tips, please? I want this girl to be more devoted. She takes me for granted. Should I walk away and wait? Should I neg her a little? She likes being a bit of a puppy and I cant let her feel in control at all!
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Aug 27, 2015 8:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Open Relationship Issue / Cheating GF
So basically, you want to have your cake and eat it but she isn't allowed to eat hers?

The fact that girls can get sex much easier than guy's is usually the demise of open relationships...

Just talk to her bro...the dynamic seems a little selfish to me but depends if she is into girls as much as you
Author:  n2thevoid [ Thu Aug 27, 2015 11:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Open Relationship Issue / Cheating GF
Sounds like poor parameters on the relationship.

You haven't clearly defined what it is beyond being an "open relationship" which her actions fit within the title. You can't telepathically tell the other person what you want, and as such you've no reason to be upset with her.

If she's cool with bringing another female into the relationship cool, if not, then you need to consider either having a monogamous relationship or move onto someone else who is cool with women-only.
Author:  murovsky [ Thu Aug 27, 2015 11:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Open Relationship Issue / Cheating GF
She is a lot into girls, and Id be ok with an exclusive relationship, she came up with the idea of it being open.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri Aug 28, 2015 2:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Open Relationship Issue / Cheating GF
Quote:
So basically, you want to have your cake and eat it but she isn't allowed to eat hers?

The fact that girls can get sex much easier than guy's is usually the demise of open relationships...

Just talk to her bro...the dynamic seems a little selfish to me but depends if she is into girls as much as you
^^this.

Communicate. Like adults.

No games.

Games end when you enter a relationship for the most part.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Aug 28, 2015 8:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Open Relationship Issue / Cheating GF
Quote:
She is a lot into girls, and Id be ok with an exclusive relationship, she came up with the idea of it being open.

My girl has talked to me about bringing another girl into the relationship for sex only. I'm on the fence with it - I am honest with myself about my attachment and if I feel bringing someone else into the relationship sex or other is risky. That said, for some couples it works just fine.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat Aug 29, 2015 11:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Open Relationship Issue / Cheating GF
A girl is only going to do what she thinks you'll stick around for.

IF there was no legal consequence for theft what would happen? It is the possibility of a consequence that gets people without integrity in line. Now of course there are women who would leave before they did this, but for the women who will stay, if you're going to stick around. Why change? For what?
Author:  Leent1992 [ Fri Sep 04, 2015 1:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Open Relationship Issue / Cheating GF
If you're having an open relationship with your gf than It's a normal thing but If your relationship is normal, you shouldn't tolerate these things. Even if your relationship status is open you have to follow certain rules and regulations.
I'm currently in an open relationship and I found my current partner in a biker club. But open relationship or any other type, you've to follow some rules and recalculations to make it successful. Open relationship rules may seem like an ordinary thing as there are no strings attached but after keeping these in mind, you avoid all kinds of difficulties and tensions. Trusting each other, avoiding common friends. keeping the relationship secret are some of the rules that are necessary for this kind of relationship. So If you both want to have a open relationship, just follow these open relationship rules.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 7:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Open Relationship Issue / Cheating GF
Quote:
If you're having an open relationship with your gf than It's a normal thing but If your relationship is normal, you shouldn't tolerate these things. Even if your relationship status is open you have to follow certain rules and regulations.
I'm currently in an open relationship and I found my current partner in a biker club. But open relationship or any other type, you've to follow some rules and recalculations to make it successful. Open relationship rules may seem like an ordinary thing as there are no strings attached but after keeping these in mind, you avoid all kinds of difficulties and tensions. Trusting each other, avoiding common friends. keeping the relationship secret are some of the rules that are necessary for this kind of relationship. So If you both want to have a open relationship, just follow these open relationship rules.

Do you bring other men into your open relationship or would your bf get jealous?
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