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| Author: | feelingstronger [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 5:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | No sex for a month. |
Whatsup guys. So my girlfriend and I used to have sex all the time. But then they're were complications, like we had sex drunk I didn't wear a condom, and then we had sex when she was high and I came but didn't pull out after cumming in the condom. So basically she doesn't trust me anymore. But the first one, I don't know why she blames me for it, I was more drunk then her and the second one I had no bad intentions I was really tired and thought she was enjoying it so I didn't stop. Of course I don't feel good about either and I wish that I had not done either, but I also don't want to live in the past. The main thing is, now she doesn't want to have sex because she's convinced that all of our fights have to do with sex. So, we haven't had sex for over a month, and she thinks it's great. But then if I start escalating she gets pissed and says she doesn't want to have a physical relationship with me. I'm really confused because I like her a lot, but I also am into her for multiple reasons, one of which being sex. Now if I bring it up she basically says that I just want to get laid or that I'm being mean. Then she says that she doesn't need to have sex with me because we aren't married etc. etc. I don't know what to do because she used to want to have sex with me all of the time, there was more drama (thought there's still drama) but it was also way more fun. We're more productive now, but there's no medium anymore. It's like we go and do tons of stuff and then there's literally no intimacy. But then she says she's attracted to me. I'm not sure how much longer I can do this because I really want sex, but we've also been dating for over two years, so I don't want to end it solely because of sex. |
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| Author: | PapacitoGrande [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 6:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No sex for a month. |
What on earth, she's talking pure shit. I never have of it been a problem to carry on if you are wearing a condom. Not on her part anyway. I carry on all the time after coming. Not for long but i usually carry on. I think most people do. The fact is it is about sex, but she probably doesn't want it with you anymore. I wouldn't worry about it but if you are clear that you want a sexual relationship and she doesn't - for whatever reason - then seperating, even temporarily, might be worth looking at. Your needs aren't compatible. A month is quite a long time to be fair. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 7:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No sex for a month. |
Just tell her your relationship has needs otherwise the relationship will come to an end. She seems like the stubborn type and will call your bluff. But I think you are not happy and you are not getting what you want so nothing to lose right? |
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| Author: | maria_ [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 1:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No sex for a month. |
If the sexual part is over then you two are friends. So... you are in need of a gf or a fwb or a one night stand at least. Right? Let her know and according to her answer chose when you are going to proceed dating other people. If she wants to stay in your life as a friend and you want that too nobody says that you shouldn't talk as friends. |
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| Author: | odyn [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 1:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No sex for a month. |
No sex for that long usually signals the beginning of the end, brace yourself for a break up friend. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 9:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No sex for a month. |
Tell her "Ok. I'm game for one month of no sex.. With you, that is." and exit the scene dramatically. |
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| Author: | masterm1ne [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 9:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No sex for a month. |
Quote: you are not happy
Amazing how many guys will just ignore this lolHow about keep her on the 'leash,' go find another girl to fuck while you date the girl that won't fuck you? As long as there is no intimacy, then who cares? I mean the whole point of seeing a girl is to have sex no? You can get everything else but sex from any other one of your friends I'm pretty sure. |
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| Author: | sarabellum [ Thu Jun 25, 2015 7:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No sex for a month. |
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If she wants to stay in your life as a friend and you want that too nobody says that you shouldn't talk as friends.
No friends. The man gets nothing out of it: viewtopic.php?f=53&t=190983
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Tue Jul 21, 2015 5:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No sex for a month. |
Quote: Whatsup guys. So my girlfriend and I used to have sex all the time. But then they're were complications, like we had sex drunk I didn't wear a condom, and then we had sex when she was high and I came but didn't pull out after cumming in the condom. So basically she doesn't trust me anymore. But the first one, I don't know why she blames me for it, I was more drunk then her and the second one I had no bad intentions I was really tired and thought she was enjoying it so I didn't stop. Of course I don't feel good about either and I wish that I had not done either, but I also don't want to live in the past. The main thing is, now she doesn't want to have sex because she's convinced that all of our fights have to do with sex. So, we haven't had sex for over a month, and she thinks it's great. But then if I start escalating she gets pissed and says she doesn't want to have a physical relationship with me. I'm really confused because I like her a lot, but I also am into her for multiple reasons, one of which being sex. Now if I bring it up she basically says that I just want to get laid or that I'm being mean. Then she says that she doesn't need to have sex with me because we aren't married etc. etc. I don't know what to do because she used to want to have sex with me all of the time, there was more drama (thought there's still drama) but it was also way more fun. We're more productive now, but there's no medium anymore. It's like we go and do tons of stuff and then there's literally no intimacy. But then she says she's attracted to me. I'm not sure how much longer I can do this because I really want sex, but we've also been dating for over two years, so I don't want to end it solely because of sex.
Bro you gotta realize this is your fault. She needs to be able to trust you and this is huge!After she went and controlled and manipulated you for sex. Call it betaization where she turned you into a beta by witholding sex from you. The truth is, if she controls if you have sex or not, who has control over your sex life? You are just friends with her now, she has the power. Man up and leave her. Realize that you can't do stupid shit with someone you care about like almost getting her pregnant, who gives a fuck if you were drunk. In the future find a girl who is on birth control who you can trust and not use condoms with her consent. |
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