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Author:  zeto [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 9:18 am ]
Post subject:  dont know what to think
Me and my girlfriend broke up 1 month ago, after two weeks i tried to get her back but i screwd up and we ended having a huge fight. So, now i told her that i had already forgot her and it would be cool if we could be friends and she said ok. But i still want her.. anyway, we had this conversation:
Me: so, how have you been?
Her: ive been fine. And you?
Me: well, im already on holidays. I already went to the swimming pool :D (we have this joke. I dont even know how to swim)
Her: i know ahah
Me: how? (I saw her bestfriend there)
Her: it doesnt matter ahah
Me: tell me or i will spank you
Her: I would spank you first haha
Me: arent you forgetting anything?
(Now she starts acting weird)
Her: ?
Me: that im super strong
Her:?
Me;?
Her:??
Me: whats wrong?
Her: i dont know
Me: so why did you block me on instagram? XD
Her: I dont know
Me: are you on drugs?
(She didnt ansewered)

So, guys, wtf was this?
Author:  R.C [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 10:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: dont know what to think
Quote:
Me and my girlfriend broke up 1 month ago, after two weeks i tried to get her back but i screwd up and we ended having a huge fight. So, now i told her that i had already forgot her and it would be cool if we could be friends and she said ok. But i still want her.. anyway, we had this conversation:
Using stealth tactics with women won't get you far. She broke up with you, you want her back and the way you went about it was by having no respect for your own word? Could be why she left in the first place.

Move on. You're done here. If you had a chance before, the 2 week thing and the whole "lets be friends but I wanna fuck you" thing buried it.

For future reference though, when shit like this happens, detach. Go about your life, focus on yourself for the upcoming period and don't fall into these types of drama traps. If she then comes back to you, you can make a decision. Although I always suggest never getting back with ex's, if you even wanna have that option this is the way to do it.

Oh, and for the record, 2, 4 or 6 weeks don't fall under the "upcoming period" category.
Author:  zeto [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 11:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: dont know what to think
Actually i was the one who dumped her. She needed time and space because she was feeling bad and having problems with family. At the time that didnt make any sense. If she was having a bad time I should stay and support her. What do you think?
Btw, this was the second "time and space" that she asked for
Author:  R.C [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 12:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dont know what to think
Whenever a woman tells you she needs a break, in her mind she already broke up with you. The "time and space" is simply an excuse for her either to distance herself or find another guy. Both purposes serve the same goal - making it easier for her to kill the relationship for good.

If you actually did break up with her when she told you she wants a break, that's a good first step. Nothing changes though. Move on with your life and forget about her. Her mind is already made and if you keep pulling her in all you'll destroy any chance of ever getting back together with her in the future.

What I said in the last post still applies:
Quote:
when shit like this happens, detach. Go about your life, focus on yourself for the upcoming period and don't fall into these types of drama traps. If she then comes back to you, you can make a decision. Although I always suggest never getting back with ex's, if you even wanna have that option this is the way to do it.
Author:  zeto [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 12:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dont know what to think
Well, I really appreciate your help. Thank you
Author:  R.C [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 12:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dont know what to think
Anytime.
Author:  HugoMoreno [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 7:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dont know what to think
Quote:
Me: arent you forgetting anything?
(Now she starts acting weird)
Her: ?
Me: that im super strong
Her:?
Me;?
Her:??
Me: whats wrong?
Her: i dont know
Me: so why did you block me on instagram? XD
Her: I dont know
Me: are you on drugs?
(She didnt ansewered)
The conversation started to take a "not so fun" turn at about
"aren't you forgetting something"

You guys recently broke up...so she probably automatically thought
you were going to bring up something about that...which is
why she reply only with a ?

"I'm super strong" isn't that playful of a respond

Are you implying you would hurt her?

Which is why she replied with another "?"

Your "?" means you aren't in a good
mood because you would have played it off by
saying something witty

It just started turning into a negative conversation
that she probably didn't want to take part in

*IMO(BA)O
Author:  younglady [ Sun Jun 28, 2015 9:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dont know what to think
Quote:
Me and my girlfriend broke up 1 month ago
Quote:
Me: so why did you block me on instagram? XD
I hope you're not being serious...
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