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| Author: | Hiatus [ Sun Jun 07, 2015 5:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | break in the relationship.advice please |
hey guys me and my 4months gf took a break until 15 of june.my idee, we fought very bad and much.we both accepted it.she said that if we take a break, at least she wants me not to interfere and maintain it idk, i feel like....ending the break, i want to talk to her, to start again and be ok this time what should I do?how would she see the situation if I end it?what she would think of me? |
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| Author: | Rebooting [ Sun Jun 07, 2015 6:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: break in the relationship.advice please |
What was the fight about? Why did you decide to do this break thing? Personally, I believe that setting a break for a pre-established amount of time is a bit of a weird thing to do, almost antinatural. What is this going to achieve? I can understand it if people don't speak to each other for a while because they are mad, but needing time away from each other because you apparently cannot tolerate each others presence it a bit fucked up. Focus on working on the underlying problems instead (but for that, some info would help). May as well break it off, specially if you feel like it. You might come off as a bit unconsequent, but whatever, you'll survive. Just make sure to explain your motivation for talking to her again and maybe focus on fixing your relationship instead of further making it cool off with awkward breaks from now on. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Sun Jun 07, 2015 7:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: break in the relationship.advice please |
Quote: May as well break it off, specially if you feel like it. You might come off as a bit unconsequent
No.OP, as men we have many assets, but our word is amongst the top ones. Braking your word with the people around you means losing their respect. Think the kid that constantly gets threatened to be grounded, but the parent never goes through with it. Will the kid understand his actions have consequences or will he understand that he can get away with just about anything since the parent lacks the necessary strength to stand his ground? Will he gain or lose respect for the parent? What your girlfriend did or did not do is irrelevant. You made a decision, and it's your job to stay true to it. And if your relationship is worth anything, do you really think it will not survive another 7 days? You should stick by your decision. If you end this she'll see you as weak. Weaker than her. No woman wants a man in her life that she considers beneath her own level. She wants you to be the pillar that her structure leans on, not the other way around. Judging by her "at least" maintain it statement, I'd say you didn't do a great job demonstrating your strength so far, so another display of weakness will do nothing but repel her. |
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