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Author:  Rokai [ Fri May 29, 2015 6:35 am ]
Post subject:  A catholic girlfriend (Need your help)

Hi guys i need your help

I was seducing a girl, she was a friend, at first i didnt expect her to fall into my game, but surprisingly my game in that moment was awesome, she even cried when i kissed her (She said that it was because she wasnt on control of her emotions). i was on a casual relationship with her for 1 month, it was like a trial month, if everything was ok, we get into a serious relationship.

Evertything was ok and we started the serious relationship, but there was something wrong, when we got into bed, i ran into a last minute resistance, she didnt want to have sex. i tried to bring the Last minute resistance Down but it didnt work at all, when i asked her what was going on, she said that she wouldnt do it until marriage, that it was "fornication" and that she was raised in a catholic belief.

I got in love with her, so i didnt wanted to break up and i still with her. but i dont want to wait, im not going to marry her, and i dont know if im losing my time, if i should use some tecnic, i've been close to it but, didnt got it.

i expect your help, thanks
(sry for the shitty english)
Rokai

Author:  R.C [ Fri May 29, 2015 6:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: A catholic girlfriend (Need your help)

I'm assuming you guys are young? Not really relevant but anyway. My vote is obvious, find another girl.

I never complicate my life with religious women. In fact I don't complicate my life with any girl that holds extreme beliefs of any kind. I simply cannot respect that. If your beliefs make little to no sense to me, and even worse - impact me directly (aka no sex until marriage) there's just no way I'm sticking around.

I can respect being devoted to something, as long as it's something that benefits your growth as a human being.

I'm not saying you can't turn it around, you can. But the time and effort simply won't be worth it and honestly, good luck dealing with the inevitable buyers' remorse followup.

No man, there's no way you can have a healthy relationship with someone like that.

PS: Crying when you kissed her? what the actual fuck?

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri May 29, 2015 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A catholic girlfriend (Need your help)

If you're not going to marry her and you're 100% sure you want nothing long term with the girl then leave her alone. Virgins get incredibly attached. And if you feel the way you feel before the sex, you'll feel far more detached after the sex.

I've learned the hard way several times. And its really not worth it.

My vote is that you end it. Don't even waste anymore of your time or any more of hers.

Author:  In$tinct [ Fri May 29, 2015 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A catholic girlfriend (Need your help)

You're sure you are not going to marry her.

She said she wouldn't do it until marriage.

Do you have any respect for this girl? Stop being an ass. Sorry mate, but that's what you are doing right now. You're being a major A-hole because you just want to fuck her but you are not letting her know this, nor do you seem to care about how this would affect her emotionally. (Just imagine that, if even kissing her made her cry.)

Stop wasting both of your times. Tell her that you're not planning on waiting to marriage, and you don't want to delude her or lure her into something she doesn't want to do. And find another girl.

And just a friendly advice. Next time, before you start serious relationships, make sure that you and the girl have at least remotely similar (but preferably close to identical) expectations in a relationship. This way you can avoid all this drama.

Good luck, mate.

Peace,

In$tinct

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