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| Author: | Megamerk1 [ Fri May 29, 2015 3:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need help from the pua masters |
so this is my story I've been following these forms for a while and after getting dozens of girls finally met the love of my life. Proposed to her a few months back but we broke up and I went back on the hunt. Ultimately the get your ex back game and Pete method did the trick. However she hated this for I dated during the split and asked me dozens of times if I slept with her. Stupidly I told the truth two months after finally getting her back and crafting the perfect relationship. She wigged out and said she's done. The difference this time is we still see eachother because her kids and my kid are close but she's adamant about being done and being friends. Tonight I went by her place trying to get her warmed up and in a frame but after only cuddling and not being able to so much as k close I realize I need help from the pua community to get her to get over my lie, rebuild trust outside of the fz and above all else not get her heated by making her jealous of other Girls I'm dating. She's still super flirty and it's a fresh split so I'm at a loss of how to handle this. Please give me some advice. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri May 29, 2015 4:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help from the pua masters |
This is the repost I think but I missed something the first time.. She got upset about a girl you slept with while you were single and you accepted that? Where the hell is your self respect and where is your integrity. You should have confronted her immediately. She's only responding to you negatively for it because you feel guilty. You feel convicted and you're allowing her to punish you because of it. For everything else check the other thread you made. If you have ever done something to a girl that didn't wasn't a big deal to her until after you said sorry for it you'll know what i am talking about. A woman is only mirroring your own frame back to you. You behave guilty she'll treat you guilty. You behave with confidence and assertion, she'll treat she with attentiveness. You can do whatever you want while single and you should stand on that. Wanting her back is not worth losing your integrity for. She can't respect a man that trades his integrity. And without respect, there is no attraction or love. |
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| Author: | Megamerk1 [ Fri May 29, 2015 9:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help from the pua masters |
Quote: This is the repost I think but I missed something the first time..
She got upset about a girl you slept with while you were single and you accepted that? Where the hell is your self respect and where is your integrity. You should have confronted her immediately. She's only responding to you negatively for it because you feel guilty. You feel convicted and you're allowing her to punish you because of it. For everything else check the other thread you made. If you have ever done something to a girl that didn't wasn't a big deal to her until after you said sorry for it you'll know what i am talking about. A woman is only mirroring your own frame back to you. You behave guilty she'll treat you guilty. You behave with confidence and assertion, she'll treat she with attentiveness. You can do whatever you want while single and you should stand on that. Wanting her back is not worth losing your integrity for. She can't respect a man that trades his integrity. And without respect, there is no attraction or love. No she got mad bc I lied about it and said I didn't. I slept with 4 different girls and was honest but the girl I dated and slept with she hated so I said I didn't sleep with her. Then two months later after the other girl kept callin me actin a fool I told her the truth and she got mad bc I lied she doesn't care that I slept with anyone I was single and she knows if she ain't puttin out I'm goin elsewhere. I do agree with what you wrote though I tried to say I lied to protect her but now it's about breaking out of the friend zone ... That's pretty much how it feels. I know I can do it in just trying to do it faster than my normal 1 to 3 month average. Normally I'd freeze her out for at least 30 days but honestly I should have kept my mouth shut so I need to rebuild rapport and get her comfortable seducing her won't be a problem just getting into her head while its fresh is. |
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