Thanks for the answers.

Well emotionally im in love with her.
She is 24, im 26. She was in love sometime when she had 18.

Im completely sure i have to change my attitude because be too available and be so expressive make her very sure about my feelings to her. We never fight, always the relationship is too perfect, so maybe its boring or doesn't generate that hate-love that its so important.

Thanks for the answers.

Well emotionally im in love with her.
She is 24, im 26. She was in love sometime when she had 18.

Im completely sure i have to change my attitude because be too available and be so expressive make her very sure about my feelings to her. We never fight, always the relationship is too perfect, so maybe its boring or doesnt generate that hate-love that its so important.

Don't be indifferent to anything she says. She's a human being and her opinion fucking matters. Jesus Christ..

Don't be too available; focus on your passion, your purpose in life. Whatever it is, she comes SECOND. Ok? Guys naturally want to put their woman first, but I can promise you that this is a turn-off

Google: Corey Wayne Scribd (it'll take you to a website called Scribd, where you can read his book for free.)

Read it 10-15 times so you remember 70-100% of it, and really get this shit down. Look at his YouTube videos after AND ONLY AFTER you've read his book.

Dont play stupid little games like pretending to be indifferent to everything she says. That's how you end up single.

In the process of reading this book through now. It is a great way for newbies to see that being true to your natural self, is the most attractive thing to a woman. Living another humans reality has never been and will never be the sole reason that one individual was born. Women want to have their reality and want you to have your own. If both of your realities happen to be able to coexist with one another and spike areas of life for one another, then BOOM!

Be indifferent to anything she says.

Sounds like a warning.

This one was more direct than they usually are. Girls are always dropping them "I'm unsure of this" about a month before they end it as a way to get the guy to shape up and revert back to the guy she liked originally. As men we don't pay attention to hints, because we're direct. Women communicate to each other in hints, its the language so they naturally think that we speak it to. But we don't. At least not most of us.

How do you feel about her man?

And just be aware that a woman can ONLY leave a man if she knows in her gut that the guy will be emotionally devastated if she does.


Could have just as easily, and more accurately, have said women lose attraction to guys who are more invested in them, then he is in himself.

If there is even the slightest hint that he will be crushed by her exit, this is all she that needs to spring forth emotionally. She's needs that emotional investment. She needs something to use as an emotional platform to push her to the next level. The guy thats like "Meh.. I love her, but if she goes she goes. I'll be straight" never gets left. Ever. The woman is without the emotional platform to spring her forward. She would be worst of leaving that she would be staying.

This is hardly accurate. Women will break up with a guy if she simply FEELS he isn't a good fit, even he isn't all that invested in her. Women, as with everyone else on this planet, backward rationalize decisions based on what they feel serves them best both in the moment and moving forward. It's a hindsight bias humans have acquired over thousands of years of evolution. Remember. Women want to be desired more than ANYTHING else, if a guy has a "Meh whatever" attitude towards her, MOST healthy women will move on.

This is why some women will have a guy that treats them like garbage and they will still stay with the guy. Unless he'll be damaged by her leave. she is without the platform necessary to exit the relationship. Unless she has a lot of emotional help and support from plenty of family and friends on the decision. And even then its difficult.

Most women who remain in toxic relationships have had patterns of abuse or neglect in some form or other and have developed insecure attachment styles. They remain with partners who treat them poorly because that's all they know, and when they receive positive regard from a guy they quickly feel there's some sort of agenda behind OR that they're undeserving of it and they want the familiarity of being with somebody who treats them the way they've been accustomed to.

So where are you emotionally? That will determine a lot.