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how many girls are willing to work things out and find a medium so you can be happy.

Hello guys. Hello fellow pua's. Man, it's good to be back. It's been a while since I last gamed. I just have a question for some of you experts out there. Is it still possible to game even if you're in a relationship? I mean, I quit gaming ever since I had a girlfriend. But now I'm starting to miss it. I've thought about it a few times but I never had the chance to do it because I don't have the time and sometimes I think that it's not right or it would mean cheating. I really want to go back to game. So to be able to do it, do I need to let go of my gf or is it possible to game while in a relationship? Sometimes I think my game might get rusty or my style will get old and I'll miss out on the new and updated techniques. Thanks is advance

I know a guy with 3 girlfriends all living with him who did just that. He just spoke up and stated what he wanted. He wasn't happy with just one woman. His woman was happy with just one man, but not him. So he spoke up and she helped him find a second woman and third woman to be apart of the relationship.

would you be happy if your gf would do the same with other men?

if you could answer this question with "yes" - then I think it is okay to go on with playing

A girl with over 400 post on a pick up artist forum isn't normal either, but its happening. I'd guess she's missing daddy. And she's obviously single with an opinion on relationships. I find it hilarious, But you take that as you will. I said my part.

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It is more hilarious when you see a guy who doesn't believe in relationships to give advice about them.

Thanks guys and girls for the replies. I realized that gaming never ends. It still continues as my new relationship grows. I realized I can still game my girlfriend. Especially in times where the spark slowly dies. You should always find ways to keep her interested. On the other hand, I still decided to keep being social with other women.

Author:	kyuupidd [ Mon Apr 20, 2015 7:10 pm ]
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Hello guys. Hello fellow pua's. Man, it's good to be back. It's been a while since I last gamed. I just have a question for some of you experts out there. Is it still possible to game even if you're in a relationship? I mean, I quit gaming ever since I had a girlfriend. But now I'm starting to miss it. I've thought about it a few times but I never had the chance to do it because I don't have the time and sometimes I think that it's not right or it would mean cheating. I really want to go back to game. So to be able to do it, do I need to let go of my gf or is it possible to game while in a relationship? Sometimes I think my game might get rusty or my style will get old and I'll miss out on the new and updated techniques. Thanks is advance

Author:	WillEdward [ Mon Apr 20, 2015 9:02 pm ]
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I know plenty of guys that go out and game to stay in shape even though they have a girlfriend. It's up to you how far you want to take it though. I'm not here to give you a moral compass. I would still continue to be social to everyone regardless if I was in a relationship or not.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 4:08 pm ]
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Catch and release isn't cheating. But lying your way out if you get caught is hard.

Author:	Dragula [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 4:48 pm ]
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Having a girlfriend is a great time to focus on the REALLY important things. Health, wealth etc Catch and release always ends bad.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Thu Apr 23, 2015 4:34 pm ]
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Tell her. A girls power is in your fear of what she might do. If you're afraid that she'll leave you if you express your desire to get back out there and be social then she will leave you. IF this isn't your fear and you communicate what it is you want with her you'll be surprised at how many girls are willing to work things out and find a medium so you can be happy. Guys let their fears of what their girlfriend might do prevent them from finding a greater level of happiness than they already possess. Not to mention, you should be able to be open and expressive about all your desires with your partner and so should she. I know a guy with 3 girlfriends all living with him who did just that. He just spoke up and stated what he wanted. He wasn't happy with just one woman. His woman was happy with just one man, but not him. So he spoke up and she helped him find a second woman and third woman to be apart of the relationship. Speak up man. You'll be surprised.

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Author:	maria_ [ Sat Apr 25, 2015 9:54 am ]
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Quote: how many girls are willing to work things out and find a medium so you can be happy. Oh I have seen so many posts online of girls wanting to find a medium so they won't lose their guy. They have either low confidence they can't find a new guy or they are so much in love with their guy and they can't let him go. Is it nice though to suppress another person's feelings to get your greediness needs satisfied? My opinion is that the most ethical way you can have an open relationship and a drama free life is to define it before the other person emotionally invest in you. @ Eddie. I am sure the guy you mentioned it must have been with a bi-sexual woman. I have read stories like this and if the woman's orientation is bi she is more likely to accept this settlement. It is not the norm though.

Author:	telaviv [ Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:09 am ]
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would you be happy if your gf would do the same with other men? if you could answer this question with "yes" - then I think it is okay to go on with playing

Author:	maria_ [ Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:35 am ]
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Quote: Hello guys. Hello fellow pua's. Man, it's good to be back. It's been a while since I last gamed. I just have a question for some of you experts out there. Is it still possible to game even if you're in a relationship? I mean, I quit gaming ever since I had a girlfriend. But now I'm starting to miss it. I've thought about it a few times but I never had the chance to do it because I don't have the time and sometimes I think that it's not right or it would mean cheating. I really want to go back to game. So to be able to do it, do I need to let go of my gf or is it possible to game while in a relationship? Sometimes I think my game might get rusty or my style will get old and I'll miss out on the new and updated techniques. Thanks is advance So what if your game gets rusty? It will take you a month or so to get back on your feet. How many women do you think you're going to miss sleeping with for a month? haha Ok. I get it that maybe you have a high sex drive and sex is important to you etc But come on... really? Is it like air to you? If your relationship is not covering your needs the way you want them break it off. Some relationships are not meant to last forever and a relationship for convenience can have a negative impact on your life. Things work the same way as with every other goal in life. You either have the balls to keep going until you get what you want or you are afraid of risking so you remain in a situation that only wastes your time. It would have been the same like if you were on a job which wouldn't fulfill you. Do you quit and find a new one and risk any possible consequences or do you stay and accepting things the way they are? The grass can always look greener for some people because they can't find satisfaction on anything. At this case you should check where this need comes from. Are you addicted to a certain excitement or you have a sex addiction or is it a genuine case of you not being with the right person? Every choice you make in life has its positives and its drawbacks. The question is to chose what challenge you want to take and with what you are happy with. Most women won't accept a guy who will sleep around unless they are not that into him, have low confidence, want to sleep around too or come from a background where polygamy was the norm for their society. In all other cases, any suggestion for opening up a relationship will just break off the relationship.

Author:	maria_ [ Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:49 am ]
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Quote: I know a guy with 3 girlfriends all living with him who did just that. He just spoke up and stated what he wanted. He wasn't happy with just one woman. His woman was happy with just one man, but not him. So he spoke up and she helped him find a second woman and third woman to be apart of the relationship. What a wet dream come true right? Not so fast. I have another story for you. I knew a guy who was your average guy. He wanted to have more than one gfs. So he had his main girl and he was still searching for the second girl. The main girl wanted a baby so she said she had put on an implant. The implant is something you can't hide. It is easy to check. However, she wanted a baby so bad so she didn't change the implant on time. She pretended she did so the boyfriend would think he was somehow protected. He was also wearing a condom. One day the condom slipped off and she got pregnant. In the meantime, he was sleeping around. He met a new girl and she was alright sleeping being in an open relationship with him. She was an ex prostitute so letting her man sleep around wasn't a big deal for her. However, she wanted a baby too. It was hard for her to find a guy to get in a relationship with.So she made sure she would say she had an IUD. He believed her. They had sex she got pregnant. Now he has two babies coming, he can't fully support them and he is thinking about getting a vasectomy. Not such a wet dream come true right? And unfortunately my story is real.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Sat Apr 25, 2015 10:53 am ]
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Quote: would you be happy if your gf would do the same with other men? if you could answer this question with "yes" - then I think it is okay to go on with playing If you want to catch a deer do you ask the deer or the hunter? For that reason alone I would never take anything she has to say serious on these forums. And i'd advise you to do the same. A girl with over 400 post on a pick up artist forum isn't normal either, but its happening. I'd guess she's missing daddy. And she's obviously single with an opinion on relationships. I find it hilarious, But you take that as you will. I said my part. Peace & Love

Author:	maria_ [ Sat Apr 25, 2015 11:29 am ]
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Quote: A girl with over 400 post on a pick up artist forum isn't normal either, but its happening. I'd guess she's missing daddy. And she's obviously single with an opinion on relationships. I find it hilarious, But you take that as you will. I said my part. It is more hilarious when you see a guy who doesn't believe in relationships to give advice about them.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Sat Apr 25, 2015 11:37 am ]
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Quote: Quote: A girl with over 400 post on a pick up artist forum isn't normal either, but its happening. I'd guess she's missing daddy. And she's obviously single with an opinion on relationships. I find it hilarious, But you take that as you will. I said my part. It is more hilarious when you see a guy who doesn't believe in relationships to give advice about them. Nice come back maria.

Author:	enlightenedartist [ Mon May 25, 2015 6:17 pm ]
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gaming

Author:	kyuupidd [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 4:49 pm ]
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Thanks guys and girls for the replies. I realized that gaming never ends. It still continues as my new relationship grows. I realized I can still game my girlfriend. Especially in times where the spark slowly dies. You should always find ways to keep her interested. On the other hand, I still decided to keep being social with other women.

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Author:	n2thevoid [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 7:04 pm ]
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Quote: Thanks guys and girls for the replies. I realized that gaming never ends. It still continues as my new relationship grows. I realized I can still game my girlfriend. Especially in times where the spark slowly dies. You should always find ways to keep her interested. On the other hand, I still decided to keep being social with other women. Good luck with that.