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Author:  telaviv [ Sat Apr 18, 2015 10:32 am ]
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hey guys

what do you do if you "think" you have already found the perfect gf and you know that no "better" gf will come? :roll:

would you stop sarging, dating, kissing......and get married, children, family life
or
would you break up and play on the field?
Author:  CountRedRover [ Sat Apr 18, 2015 5:03 pm ]
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Get married, children, family life. But after I "know" she's the one.
Author:  MrBreeze [ Sun Apr 19, 2015 1:49 pm ]
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hey guys

what do you do if you "think" you have already found the perfect gf and you know that no "better" gf will come? :roll:

would you stop sarging, dating, kissing......and get married, children, family life
or
would you break up and play on the field?
This is ridiculous. There is no one perfect woman. And three years from now the mood and feelings will change, its human dynamics. What I do in my life when I find a woman that is clearly above the rest is make here a live in GF, never offer monogamy, never close myself off sexually, but respect her and enjoy my time with her realizing that one day it might end.
Author:  telaviv [ Sun Apr 19, 2015 5:53 pm ]
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and you will not miss sarging?
I personally think if you are a (really) good player you will miss the other girls!
Author:  CountRedRover [ Sun Apr 19, 2015 10:08 pm ]
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and you will not miss sarging?
I personally think if you are a (really) good player you will miss the other girls!
Of course I will. But you have to come to terms with the reality of things:
Everything you've learned about game; all your skills and tactics, inner game etc, led you to meet that one girl. If you want to be with her, and she wants to be with you, you've won the game!
Game over; Happy ending; you did it!
Author:  telaviv [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 2:46 pm ]
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you put it straight - I like your explanation :!:

I think it is really hard to find someone you can really "trust" - for long term relationship
I don´t have experiences with the girls from USA, GB, croatia...or other countries - I only know the girls from Austria but I always think, if I speak to a girl e.g. in the disco and we do other "things" - she also would do the "things" with every other man especially HB 1-5


But not only the girls. it´s also hard to find a friend who you can trust, who is on time and who is reliable especially in Austria!
Author:  maria_ [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 9:11 am ]
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hey guys

what do you do if you "think" you have already found the perfect gf and you know that no "better" gf will come? :roll:

would you stop sarging, dating, kissing......and get married, children, family life
or
would you break up and play on the field?
This is ridiculous. There is no one perfect woman. And three years from now the mood and feelings will change, its human dynamics. What I do in my life when I find a woman that is clearly above the rest is make here a live in GF, never offer monogamy, never close myself off sexually, but respect her and enjoy my time with her realizing that one day it might end.
A good relationship is like a good wine: it gets better with time. Infatuation is replaced by deeper love.
The older you get the more you value companionship over sexual pleasure. Libido falls after a certain age so to spend quality time with your other half becomes more important than a challenging new experience. At least from a woman's point of and for a woman who had the opportunity to experience lots of things like me.
I believe in monogamy (at least for myself) and at my age (33) I don't get impressed by the dating scene. I'd rather be focusing on my career and creating things in my life and having family rather than chasing after the thrill of the moment. [been there done that got the t-shirt].
I just want one man that I can invest for a lifetime and give him love until I die. As long as he is giving me sex and loyalty and he is decent I don't want something else.
If at the stage I am someone approaches me and doesn't give me monogamy I will leave him. I did that with the last guy.
I agree with you that there are very few exceptions that are like me and I don't think men are attracted to my type ( because I am boring in terms of mind games etc) but if you bump into a woman who can give you that type of dream and you express those opinions you won't be able to keep her.
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 1:14 pm ]
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hey guys

what do you do if you "think" you have already found the perfect gf and you know that no "better" gf will come? :roll:

would you stop sarging, dating, kissing......and get married, children, family life
or
would you break up and play on the field?
This is ridiculous. There is no one perfect woman. And three years from now the mood and feelings will change, its human dynamics. What I do in my life when I find a woman that is clearly above the rest is make here a live in GF, never offer monogamy, never close myself off sexually, but respect her and enjoy my time with her realizing that one day it might end.
A good relationship is like a good wine: it gets better with time. Infatuation is replaced by deeper love.
The older you get the more you value companionship over sexual pleasure. Libido falls after a certain age so to spend quality time with your other half becomes more important than a challenging new experience. At least from a woman's point of and for a woman who had the opportunity to experience lots of things like me.
I believe in monogamy (at least for myself) and at my age (33) I don't get impressed by the dating scene. I'd rather be focusing on my career and creating things in my life and having family rather than chasing after the thrill of the moment. [been there done that got the t-shirt].
I just want one man that I can invest for a lifetime and give him love until I die. As long as he is giving me sex and loyalty and he is decent I don't want something else.
If at the stage I am someone approaches me and doesn't give me monogamy I will leave him. I did that with the last guy.
I agree with you that there are very few exceptions that are like me and I don't think men are attracted to my type ( because I am boring in terms of mind games etc) but if you bump into a woman who can give you that type of dream and you express those opinions you won't be able to keep her.

You've got a lot of opinions in here that you present as fact. That is the problem.

Men and women see sex an relationships differently. In addition, social norms are (unfortunately) more slanted for men's promiscuity being ok while women's promiscuity is seen as taboo.
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The older you get the more you value companionship over sexual pleasure.
This is true for some, but not for others. There are lots of well known philanderers 50+ - for example:

Bill Clinton
Silvio Berlusconi
Dominique Strauss-Khan
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The older you get the more you value companionship over sexual pleasure.
The problem is that one sex considers this mutually exclusive while the other considers them as a package (IN GENERAL)

The fact that I value my companionship with you doesn't necessarily mean that I can't value sexual pleasure with other people. That's the thinking for most men while for most women the two MUST be combined.
Author:  maria_ [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 6:36 pm ]
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You've got a lot of opinions in here that you present as fact. That is the problem.
You have clearly missed my point there. I will explain so you can understand me better.
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Men and women see sex an relationships differently. In addition, social norms are (unfortunately) more slanted for men's promiscuity being ok while women's promiscuity is seen as taboo.
That's not so valid. Except from myself I know other women too that see sex the same way that men see it. It is true that social norms encourage a double standard but only on the surface. Women were always hiding the fact that they can be as sexually promiscuous as men. Upbringing can have lots of influence too.
Monogamy is a choice we make. It is the same kind of choice as celibacy, choosing to go to university instead of work, wearing shoes etc. It is not compulsory and I wasn't focusing on that.
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This is true for some, but not for others.
Also true however, on the average scale a person who has lived their lives young and done the things they wanted to do they want to move forward and experience new things. Older people tend to prefer their telly, their couch and a good set of friends. That's why they don't go out much on clubs.
Friday & Saturday nights are full of 20 years old people. It's like 70% of 20 years old 20% of 30 years old and only a 10% of anyone older. (percentages are more or less). It just loses its appeal.
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The problem is that one sex considers this mutually exclusive while the other considers them as a package (IN GENERAL)
The fact that I value my companionship with you doesn't necessarily mean that I can't value sexual pleasure with other people. That's the thinking for most men while for most women the two MUST be combined.
that's true. We are reaching now my point, if a man WANTS to have the wife, the white house with the garden and the dog... and he approaches a woman who is on the same page with him and he says:" I can't give you monogamy".. he will put her off. So he will lose his chance.
That was exactly my point.

And I used myself as an example because I recently experienced that. The reason why I didn't stay with a guy like that was that I don't feel appealing being open to search for sexual partners. So it would had been unfair if he was sleeping around and I wasn't.

I am not condemning someone wanting to have their options open. Everyone is entitled to chose the lifestyle they want. BUT if you want a woman who is on the same mindset like I am and is looking long term you will make her feel scared to be with you.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Apr 23, 2015 4:26 pm ]
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Perfect is subjective

but if you claim to have found the perfect one what would be the sense in breaking up?

From my experience there is always going to be a better girl. But I'll tell you like a true retired pimp told me... " The best pussy you ever had is the pussy you never had" - Which means, the chase never ends. There always seems to be a better girl until she's been seduced/conquered. That game never ends. The best pussy, the best girl will always appear to be the one that you haven't gotten yet. So eventually you have to get you a good woman or two and, or three, and settle down.

Finding out that there always is a better girl than the one i had, was both a blessing and a curse. It gave me more confidence, but also put my in a perpetual state of chasing the next thing.
Author:  CountRedRover [ Thu Apr 23, 2015 11:14 pm ]
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The best pussy you ever had is the pussy you never had
I like that..
Author:  telaviv [ Fri Apr 24, 2015 5:28 am ]
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[quote="Eddie.Fews"]Perfect is subjective

but if you claim to have found the perfect one what would be the sense in breaking up?



ohh, I only wanted to know the opinions from other guys :?:
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 24, 2015 7:47 am ]
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Perfect is subjective

but if you claim to have found the perfect one what would be the sense in breaking up?



ohh, I only wanted to know the opinions from other guys :?:
And I wanna know yours?

What would you personally gain from continuing to play the field if you've found what you call "the perfect girl"

My perfect girl doesn't exist. At least I don't think so.
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