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| Author: | excalibur1234 [ Sat Apr 18, 2015 8:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Tolerated too Much... |
So me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months and everything was going as what I wanted. But then after I develop some feels I started to tolerate some shit and recently we had a fight and nowadays we put some distance between. It seems like She lost most of her interest because I tolerated bullshit a lot. After this cool off I think now I am able to act like a man again and let her know that I wil not tolerate this time but I don't know if its possible to regain the attraction. What do you think ? |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Tolerated too Much... |
Here's this thing with this situation and others like it. If you NEED her to be your gf, if you don't have standards for what you deserve, then you've lost her. And nothing is going to fix that. Sure, make her jealous, flirt with other chicks, tolerate less...but all that does is just delay things. If you care more about whether she is interested than if you are still interested in her, then what can you really do? You got good advice from n2 in the last thread but seems like you dont get it. She doesnt lose interest because you tolerated her shit, she loses interest because regardless of what she does you still need her. When you focus on whether she makes you happy you're on the right road. But now you're coming from how do I keep a chick who talks to me like shit? If you had communicated from the beginning that her arguments turn you off, you wont be in this place. |
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| Author: | chantos [ Sun Apr 19, 2015 5:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Tolerated too Much... |
You can't tell her you won't tolerate stuff if the attraction is already lost. It's so incredibly difficult to regain attraction after they lose interest. Your best bet is to find another girl and be less tolerant. |
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