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| Author: | Cross De Lena [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 4:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Became more of 'Frend' in relationship |
Hi. Short info: So. HB7, 9 month into the relationship, it's great, we always have fun, we have our 'ups and down' moments. Recently, in the past month or so, she's for no real reason insisting we should spend more time talking then do usual, intimate stuff... For example, yesterday we had an argument while I was waiting my turn for driving a kart, about two hours, we spend it by talking and talking, when I tried to talk about anything sexual(or tried to cuddle to her) she just gets uncomfortable, changing the subject, or avoiding it all together, when I kiss her or something, and when I want to escalate she finds a reason to stop. It's actually no big deal, but when it keeps repeating too often in the last month it really starts to annoy. Anyway, any time she 'turns me down' I react in a non disappointing, not frustrated manner, I just act cool but overall disinterested in her and things she says. She gets sad, and few times I told her what's wrong, like I don't like her in that way, and I don't like it when she's not listening me to what I want, then all I hear are excuses and promises she will change. And here's the kicker: The main argument explaining her weird behavior goes something like this:"I just want to be sure when we get old, we will have something else in common then fucking, making out, and stuff like that." I was like WTF., we do talks, basically, all our time spent together(and we are both 20s so we don't have a place of our own) is about 95% talking about things that don't consider us, rather, she talks about problems in her family and how she wants to fix it, or politics, or whatever. Am I being a pushover, or do my intentions about us seem to overt to her(This sounds evil, like all I want is to get physical with her, but when there is nothing sexual, you kind of miss it). I don't know. Sincerely, average Joe. Thanks for reading. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 4:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Became more of 'Frend' in relationship |
So I'm clear - are you currently having sex with this girl? Or have you not done that yet? I can't tell... |
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| Author: | Cross De Lena [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 5:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Became more of 'Frend' in relationship |
No, she's one of those who wants to wait till marriage. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 5:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Became more of 'Frend' in relationship |
Umm....so you're with a girl who doesn't want to have sex but you're wondering why she doesn't want to be sexual? Both of you want different things. Either stop the sexual stuff or find a girl who is on the same page as you. Ps. You aren't BECOMING a friend...You've been a friend for the entire time lol |
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| Author: | Cross De Lena [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 5:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Became more of 'Frend' in relationship |
I'm just saying that she had more sexual drive before, comparing to the last month. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 6:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Became more of 'Frend' in relationship |
Quote: I'm just saying that she had more sexual drive before, comparing to the last month.
But..... there's no sexual drive. She's waiting for marriage.I think you posted another thread about this girl, didn't you? (It was another user with a girlfriend who wanted to wait, if it wasn't you). You need to decide if you can live with no sex. None of us can help you with that decision. Personally, she'd have never made it past the 2nd or 3rd week with me - soon as I found out she was one of those girls I'd have been gonzo. Life's too short, and this is a pickup forum. You're not picking up, or having sex. |
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