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| Author: | tonysanders988 [ Thu Feb 12, 2015 3:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Out of Nowhere! No Contact , Get Closure, or just walk away? |
Situation: Her and I have been dating for 2 years. Fucking awesome time together doing new things all the time. She started her 2nd year of college this semester which isn't a problem because I live 15 minutes away. She lives with another girl roommate who also has a boyfriend. She has many girl friends and 1 really close guy friend at the college with her. Guy friend always bugged me because he tried kissing my girlfriend 1 week after we got together and I had none of it. She denied him but still stayed friends with him because he was friend-zoned. In our relationship, we had 1 time where we "broke-up". She was stressed from "not being sure" and from a whole plethora of other things. This was 1 year and 6 months in. I performed NC right away and she came back in 2 days. I love her, she is amazing and I knew she was going through a rough time with parents and other things which contributed to her hasty decision. We just had our 2 year anniversary 3 weeks ago. From all signs, she was still madly in love with me. Problem: 1 week after our 2 year anniversary, i beta'd out and got mad at her for hanging out with her guy friend one night and not me. It was just something stupid too! She went out with him, the guys friend, and all of her roommates to a place at college. We go back and forth for 2 days. On the third day she texts me and says we need to talk. I agreed. She ends up calling and breaking up with me that day...out of the blue! She says that "it's not my fault, she doesn't want to hurt me anymore, she fell out of love, and it's just how she feels. Nothing I can do to fix it with her. Lets take some time apart and then talk as friends and get closure." I asked her if it was because I acted jealous. She said no. I asked her if there was another guy. She said no. I'm thinking to myself... "Woah! We been in a relationship for 2 years... Last week was our anniversary and we exchanged cards, gifts, I love you's, sleeping together, smiles, everything people in love with each other exchange! You're breaking up with me out of the blue?!" So i didn't go NC right after this one... I kept trying to get more out of her and figure out why for the next 2 days. Then went NC for the past week. 2 days ago I broke NC and basically said... -I'm sorry for anything I did -you taught me a lot about myself and i had a great time -I'm not here to convince you of anything -We both need some space right now. and started NC again. She responds yesterday with: "You don't have to be sorry for anything. I really appreciate you saying everything you said last night. This is just how i feel. And the time apart has really validated how I feel. If you are ready, maybe next week we can talk in person. It will be good for us. So, I don't know if I can really salvage this and attract her back at this point. I also don't know how to exactly react to this whole thing because last time she did this it was because of so many stressful factors in her life crushing her at one time... parents fighting/drinking, friends fighting, school finals, new job, etc. I mean, she bought me a crazy anniversary gift 3 weeks ago, we made love, and were crazy in love. How does this happen over the time span of 3 weeks? What's the next step at this point? I haven't responded to her offer to meet up yet. Thanks everyone for feedback. Cause this shit just got real! |
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| Author: | tonysanders988 [ Thu Feb 12, 2015 7:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Out of Nowhere! No Contact , Get Closure, or just walk a |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Feb 12, 2015 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Out of Nowhere! No Contact , Get Closure, or just walk a |
Quote: Situation:
You reality, not her's. From all signs, she was still madly in love with me. Quote: She says that "it's not my fault,
Never is.Quote: You're breaking up with me out of the blue?!
Again, your blue.
Quote: hanging out with her guy friend one night and not me.
=Fucking him.Quote: I kept trying to get more out of her and figure out why for the next 2 days.
You got all needy.Quote: Nevermind. Told her if she really loved me she would of told me or tried to work it out. Then told her if she leaves, don't expect me to be here when you turn around.
You figured it out, when her breath smelled like cock. Good for you Bro. There are plenty more. |
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