PUA Forum :: GF gives me money and expensive things.Should I take?

What's my move here?

I see what you guys are saying but if you're in my position you may feel a bit immasculated. She slipped me a 50 when we first had sex because she knew I hadent eaten that day.

Anyway I don't want to lose her respect because her brother totally lost it she saw him as a boy.

I want the stuff it's awesome but I also fee like I'm taking advantage I have feelings for this girl.

Yeah man, as the others said, get your stuff together. Tbh, and I mean no disrespect by this, she likes broke dudes. If you start fixing your shit, you may lose this girl. So being paid for by her would probably be the best move for keeping her. It's a lucky situation dont get me wrong, but it's up to you whether you want her enough to be dependent on her to keep her, or you actually want to fix your shit.

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She doesn't like broke dudes. She has a low self esteem and low confidence. She might also be a codependent personality.
She can't feel comfortable with someone that has money and is like her because she doesn't feel secure.
If he behaves as a secure person and still show her that he is not leaving she will even get more attached to him.
Paying for someone makes her feel that she is in control. Insecure people are bothered if they can be the ones that have the upper hand. Normal people want equality and compromise and a balance between give and take.

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What's my move here?

Introduce her to me. You don't need this kind of trouble.

Don't accept any gifts unless it is your birthday, valentine's day, christmas etc or once in a while because they were spontaneous and you can return the favour at some point.
Have some pride. She will respect you for that.
Tell her: I appreciate what you are offering me but I am a self sufficient man and I feel uncomfortable with what you are doing. I don't want your money. I am here because I want to be with you. I am not some type of gold digger alright?

Author:	LeaderOfMen81 [ Thu Jan 01, 2015 11:31 pm ]
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Been with this girl 2 months she is 22 I'm 33. Gorgeous chick. She started with a job offer that led to her wanting to buy me suite for the interview so she got me $950 worth, then an iPhone, she knew I was having money issues last month and bought all my Christmas gifts. She says that she loves to do this and her ex who was wih her 6 years used to have everything paid for by her. Car, gym, everything. I don't want her losing respect for me I took the gifts after saying no for days and weeks and became exhausted of the const st pressure to accept. She has a lot of money and says that money makes you depressed and she likes to give it makes her feel good. What's my move here?

Author:	odyn [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 2:26 am ]
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Your with a rich gorgeous woman, what your move? Ride the fucking gravy train:) seriously don't over think, she wants to buy you things then let her, get your shit together sooner rather than later. If you aren't asking and she is just gifting you things, then i don't see a problem...have fun.

Author:	JackZero [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 2:35 am ]
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Quote: What's my move here? Introduce her to me. You don't need this kind of trouble.

Author:	LeaderOfMen81 [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 5:49 am ]
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I see what you guys are saying but if you're in my position you may feel a bit immasculated. She slipped me a 50 when we first had sex because she knew I hadent eaten that day. Anyway I don't want to lose her respect because her brother totally lost it she saw him as a boy. I want the stuff it's awesome but I also fee like I'm taking advantage I have feelings for this girl.

Author:	JackZero [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 6:15 am ]
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Quote: I see what you guys are saying but if you're in my position you may feel a bit immasculated. She slipped me a 50 when we first had sex because she knew I hadent eaten that day. Anyway I don't want to lose her respect because her brother totally lost it she saw him as a boy. I want the stuff it's awesome but I also fee like I'm taking advantage I have feelings for this girl. The only reason to feel emasculated is because she is covering your expenses for things you should be able to pay for yourself. It sounds like you need to get yourself together so you can appreciate a gift that you would otherwise be able to pay for on your own.

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Author:	neo87 [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 6:29 am ]
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Yeah man, as the others said, get your stuff together. Tbh, and I mean no disrespect by this, she likes broke dudes. If you start fixing your shit, you may lose this girl. So being paid for by her would probably be the best move for keeping her. It's a lucky situation dont get me wrong, but it's up to you whether you want her enough to be dependent on her to keep her, or you actually want to fix your shit.

Author:	maria_ [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 11:36 am ]
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Don't accept any gifts unless it is your birthday, valentine's day, christmas etc or once in a while because they were spontaneous and you can return the favour at some point. Have some pride. She will respect you for that. Tell her: I appreciate what you are offering me but I am a self sufficient man and I feel uncomfortable with what you are doing. I don't want your money. I am here because I want to be with you. I am not some type of gold digger alright? Her behaviour reminds me the way older women treat gigolos/male prostitutes etc. One day you are going to argue with this woman and she is going to tell you about all the things she gave you . She will talk to you like you are an object and she owns you. Believe me, once you refuse the presents and you tell her that this is who you are ( don't have much money) and this is what you can offer and if she wants she should adjust herself and be happy with what you give and she should behave as a normal gf and not as your sugar mama... she will start falling in love with you. .. and it will also put stronger foundations in your relationship.

Author:	maria_ [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 11:41 am ]
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Quote: Yeah man, as the others said, get your stuff together. Tbh, and I mean no disrespect by this, she likes broke dudes. If you start fixing your shit, you may lose this girl. So being paid for by her would probably be the best move for keeping her. It's a lucky situation dont get me wrong, but it's up to you whether you want her enough to be dependent on her to keep her, or you actually want to fix your shit. She doesn't like broke dudes. She has a low self esteem and low confidence. She might also be a codependent personality. She can't feel comfortable with someone that has money and is like her because she doesn't feel secure. If he behaves as a secure person and still show her that he is not leaving she will even get more attached to him. Paying for someone makes her feel that she is in control. Insecure people are bothered if they can be the ones that have the upper hand. Normal people want equality and compromise and a balance between give and take.

Author:	neo87 [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 4:22 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Yeah man, as the others said, get your stuff together. Tbh, and I mean no disrespect by this, she likes broke dudes. If you start fixing your shit, you may lose this girl. So being paid for by her would probably be the best move for keeping her. It's a lucky situation dont get me wrong, but it's up to you whether you want her enough to be dependent on her to keep her, or you actually want to fix your shit. She doesn't like broke dudes. She has a low self esteem and low confidence. She might also be a codependent personality. She can't feel comfortable with someone that has money and is like her because she doesn't feel secure. If he behaves as a secure person and still show her that he is not leaving she will even get more attached to him. Paying for someone makes her feel that she is in control. Insecure people are bothered if they can be the ones that have the upper hand. Normal people want equality and compromise and a balance between give and take. Yes, she probably has low self esteem, I just said broke dudes because it's simpler. But let's be realistic, if a girl says my last bf would hit me daily and I was fine with it and we lasted 6 years, if you don't hit her she's gonna go to the next guy that hits her. It's a messed up analogy, but I don't think this girl is gonna gain confidence if OP asserts that he won't take gifts. She's not normal hence she will most likely find a new guy and lose interest in him. Can't fix someone who is broken. Personally I won't accept gifts like she is giving, but realistically he's gotta know this girl has issues and this is what she likes.

Author:	Hunter_Foxe [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 6:17 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: What's my move here? Introduce her to me. You don't need this kind of trouble. LMAO - I was thinking the same thing!

Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Jan 02, 2015 11:54 pm ]
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PUAs need more women like this. If she's happy giving you money and things, encourage her more so you'll keep her happy.

Author:	LeaderOfMen81 [ Sat Jan 03, 2015 2:04 am ]
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She's a real looker too, like a sweeter version of Blake Lively.

Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Aug 02, 2015 2:25 pm ]
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Quote: Don't accept any gifts unless it is your birthday, valentine's day, christmas etc or once in a while because they were spontaneous and you can return the favour at some point. Have some pride. She will respect you for that. Tell her: I appreciate what you are offering me but I am a self sufficient man and I feel uncomfortable with what you are doing. I don't want your money. I am here because I want to be with you. I am not some type of gold digger alright? Totally bad advice. There is too much drama in this which will make you look very effeminate. Moreover, you will be a killjoy towards the woman who spent time, money and effort just to make you happy. The best way to handle generous women when they give you gifts is to be VERY grateful AND bang their pussy REALLY good. Condition them with these positive feelings. Next time, you'll know for sure that when a woman gives you a gift for no special reason, she wants a good fuck. Don't be an ingrate. Always appreciate the generosity of women. Moreover, don't give women gifts just to reciprocate on the gifts they gave you. Women do that with other women. You're a man and NOT a woman. Protect your masculinity at all cost.

Author:	n2thevoid [ Sun Aug 02, 2015 5:41 pm ]
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Accept it,the act of giving for her makes her feel good why would you deny her of that? ps. I could use a new motorcycle

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Author:	R.C [ Mon Aug 03, 2015 11:37 am ]
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Why is this even being discussed? Apparently $1000 to her is the equivalent to 10 cents to you. She's rich, money ain't a thing. Enjoy the free stuff. And don't stress for nothing.