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| Author: | lowriderzzz [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 8:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | how do you keep attraction going on once in relationship... |
Today I was kind of reflecting on my past relationships and tried to figure out what went wrong... (so I can do better next time). And I came to the conclusion that on several cases the relationship ended because she either lost attraction or I lost interest. Basically a lot of times things go like this: 1st we flirt and tease and there is mutual attraction, 2nd we get intimate, sex few times, then after a while things go stale and we look like a an old family couple with no passion between, basically exchanging just data communication. (that part I gate the most). And then if there is no passion/attraction relationship is over. So how do you keep attraction going on, after you know each other, can't use the mysterious element, you used most of your jokes and teasing, basically ran out of ideas? Do you keep flirting even in mid stages of the relationship? Is it actually something that could be taken in consideration and put effort from my side or its just due too "we r not right for each other". But if that is the case, the upper scenario happened to me quite a few times and this makes me think that the cause might be in me. => I should do something different. said in different way - how far should I go putting passion, effort and acting to keep it alive ? |
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| Author: | KiwiPUA [ Wed Dec 24, 2014 11:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do you keep attraction going on once in relationship |
At the end of the day brother, if you have to TRY too hard to keep the spark in a relationship, the reality is that the spark is just not there. But what you need to do is just continue to show your passion and keep doing things that keep her engaged and wanting to be with you. Stop settling down so quick and just try and keep everything alive and active for as long as you can! This saying is so true: "Every relationship is ended by the person who cares the LEAST" Think about it! Good luck! 
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Dec 25, 2014 6:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do you keep attraction going on once in relationship |
Based on a few of your other threads (one at the PUA Lounge, one at the General Section, and one right here at the Relationship section), I will offer two advices: 1. Desensitize your penis head, improve your cardio and learn proper angling to hit a girl's g-spot, cervix, pubococygeus muscle and so forth. Sexually Satisfied Girl = Longer Lasting Relationship with a loyal, faithful and submissive woman Hint: If your girlfriend does not want to submit to ANY or MOST of your simple wishes, then she is NOT sexually satisfied with your bedroom skills. 2. Join a MMA competition and work hard to win. High Testosterone = Passion best-things-to-do-or-say-after-a-sex-ni ... 85877.html good-with-women-but-can-t-defend-fight-vt185763.html do-you-always-look-for-things-to-be-fai ... 85973.html |
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| Author: | lowriderzzz [ Thu Dec 25, 2014 10:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do you keep attraction going on once in relationship |
Quote: Based on a few of your other threads (one at the PUA Lounge, one at the General Section, and one right here at the Relationship section), I will offer two advices:
1. Desensitize your penis head, improve your cardio and learn proper angling to hit a girl's g-spot, cervix, pubococygeus muscle and so forth. Sexually Satisfied Girl = Longer Lasting Relationship with a loyal, faithful and submissive woman Hint: If your girlfriend does not want to submit to ANY or MOST of your simple wishes, then she is NOT sexually satisfied with your bedroom skills. 2. Join a MMA competition and work hard to win. High Testosterone = Passion best-things-to-do-or-say-after-a-sex-ni ... 85877.html good-with-women-but-can-t-defend-fight-vt185763.html do-you-always-look-for-things-to-be-fai ... 85973.html Actually its not related with the last 2 posts, but I get what do you mean. Thanks you for your opinion. And happy holidays. I do shotokan karate. |
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| Author: | reel2real [ Fri Dec 26, 2014 6:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do you keep attraction going on once in relationship |
Quote: Based on a few of your other threads (one at the PUA Lounge, one at the General Section, and one right here at the Relationship section), I will offer two advices:
Word of caution on this. A girl can be sexually satisfied (ie. gets off every time) but if there's no spark/variety/anticipation then she will start looking outside the relationship. It happened to me in my last one.
1. Desensitize your penis head, improve your cardio and learn proper angling to hit a girl's g-spot, cervix, pubococygeus muscle and so forth. Sexually Satisfied Girl = Longer Lasting Relationship with a loyal, faithful and submissive woman Hint: If your girlfriend does not want to submit to ANY or MOST of your simple wishes, then she is NOT sexually satisfied with your bedroom skills. |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Dec 26, 2014 2:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do you keep attraction going on once in relationship |
Quote: Word of caution on this. A girl can be sexually satisfied (ie. gets off every time) but if there's no spark/variety/anticipation then she will start looking outside the relationship. It happened to me in my last one.
Take your pick OP. Choose this anecdote from an anonymous individual versus this scientific study based on a sample of several heterosexual couples studied over several years and cited by 279 scientists:http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1 ... ed#preview Quote: This investigation focused on how sexual satisfaction is associated with relationship quality and stability in premarital couples. With data collected at multiple times over several years from a sample of heterosexual couples (who were all dating at Time 1), we examined how sexual satisfaction was associated with relationship satisfaction, love, commitment, and stability. At each wave of the study, sexual satisfaction was associated positively with relationship satisfaction, love, and commitment for both men and women. In addition, change in sexual satisfaction between Time 1 and Time 2 was associated with change over the same period in relationship satisfaction, love, and commitment. Furthermore, some evidence was found that sexual satisfaction was associated with relationship stability. Overall, sexual satisfaction had stronger links with relationship quality for men than for women.
Personally, my best relationships are with women I have banged and keep banging really well.Moreover, I am still unaware how reel2real sexually satisfies a girl. On the other hand, you can always search my previous posts on how I sexually satisfy girls step by step. Study and compare and then decide on your best course of action. |
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