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| Author: | johnnyturner [ Tue Dec 16, 2014 5:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What do i do? |
** MODERATOR NOTE: thread closed as it is an exact duplicate of an existing thread with responses. Please only post new threads in one location. ** Hi been reading around the forum quite a bit and was thinking maybe some of you with experience and knowledge can advise me on my situation. I have been in nearly 3 year long relationship. She doesnt have many friends and has only had 1 boyfriend prior to me, who ended up cheating on her. Everything was perfect for first 2 years and the girl was extremely protective over me and liked me like crazy, messaging me every hour and would get angry if i didnt reply back. I then lost my job (high status) and since then (for last year) the arguments have been crazy. We are arguing nearly every week and she has done VERY VERY fucked up things. I told her i wanted a break from her and within 48 hours she went on a date, she had a second date lined up and i told her if she goes on that date then I will break up totally and she ended up not going on the second date. She hasnt cheated on me (as in kiss or sleep with anyone else though). She really fu*ks up my head in the sense, 3 days out of the week is saying how much she loves me/when ill marry her and then rest of the week is arguing. She is careless with money and is an impulsive spender. One thing i like about her is the honesty, she tells me everything, however recently has been telling me how she sooo crazily likes a guy at work and it scares her that she might be a type of woman who would cheat. But next day was like ah im soo stupid i shouldnt have said it, i was just emotionally confused..etc etc. I mean of course there are more successful people and much better looking people than me in New York so i dont let myself down in that sense. But what the hell am i doing wrong? I do agree my gf is better looking than me lookwise. Also i do think ive become a bit protective over her since i lost my job, and one guy at her work even tried to ask her back to his place. I started calling & Messaging her when she goes out, but i have stopped that now totally. I cant blame myself for doing that because she always ends up talking to other guys who are her "FRIENDS" but thats total bullshit. One day i did get pissed of and i put my foot down and said i dont give a shit, and made her delete all these guys (from facebook, phone etc) who were blatently looking to hookup with her. She seemed to be surprised i made her do that (to an extent she was happy). In this relationship I have always told her and showed to her I am a man of respect and integrity and that I am not a type of person to cheat (maybe that was a bad move?). Please let me know your thoughts. Thanks Johnny |
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