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Author:  Homer Simpson [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 10:49 pm ]
Post subject:  My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
I have been seeing her for about three months we were all over each other now she just stays on her side of the bed and nothing is happing any more. Little help on this.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 2:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
Well that's incredibly detailed...

This could be anything, dude. More info needed.

How old are you both? Do you live together? Is there any sex? Do you do things together (dates, etc), were there any fights?

If you want help on this you need to put a bit more effort into your questions.
Author:  Homer Simpson [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 4:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
Yea good call. Sorry about that.
No fights at all so far. We haven't moved in together We are going on dates and Staying over at each others places. No sex,..:( but bj's and stuff like that. I made her squirt times. But I am sure she is looking for something really long term. And I can understand that. She is a few years older then me. I'm in my early s30's. She is in her late 30's But I am just confused as to the abruptness of it. She would some time start stuff in bed, but now nothing. I'm just lost here.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 4:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
OK that's better ;)

No sex after 3 months? Maybe that's the problem then... Is she pumping the brakes on sex, or are you? That's a long ass time to be exclusive to each other and not be fucking (you shouldn't ever be exclusive with a girl before sex).

The other thing it could be is what you mentioned on relationships. Have you told her you don't want anything long term? And has she told you that she does? If you guys are so polarizing on that topic that's a huge point of contention and a big ass wall in your relationship.

Fix the sex thing though, for sure. That's nuts.
Author:  Homer Simpson [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
She is killing it when it comes to the sex stuff. She used to be frisky in the morning but now, I can't get anything. I'm sure this is a easy fix, but for me it's a problem that I haven't had that much experience in.
That's just where I am at in this crazy pua thing.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 4:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
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She is killing it when it comes to the sex stuff. She used to be frisky in the morning but now, I can't get anything. I'm sure this is a easy fix, but for me it's a problem that I haven't had that much experience in.
That's just where I am at in this crazy pua thing.

So wait, you have had sex, or you haven't?

I'm not clear on whether you used to be getting sex and it stopped, or if you simply never got sex (but got oral, etc instead).
Author:  Homer Simpson [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 4:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
No, we have not had sex yet. :(
She would start stuff sometimes or I would. but She would always stop it before it got that far. She would give me a bj or I would finger bang her till she squirted all over the place, but she seemed to be contend with it going that far and stopping.

BUT Now I can't get anything. It's going backward. It must be some basic error that I'm just not aware of.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
Hopefully Hellhound or Hunter_Foxe comments on this... Search for some of their posts. They have a lot of tips for how to get girls worked up and overcome LMR.

From my point of view - you need to fuck her... Actual sex. As soon as possible.

I also think that you two are adults, in a relationship. If she's grown distant, you need to actually TALK to her about it. Communicate like adults.

Pickup is a very different game when you're in a relationship.
Author:  Homer Simpson [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 5:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
Yea. The relationship thing is new to me to be honest. I just feel her growing distant It might be something I did, didn't do or something I didn't do correctly. I can see where some people on here would read that I think that is a horrible mind set to have. And they might be correct. But I am just thinking from a PUA tactical angle. And like you said, and I agreed with you. Relationships are different from pua stuff.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 5:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
You've gotta get her begging for your cock man.

One word for you... Foreplay. Straight up, the longer you can go with out touching her vagina and kissing and caressing the rest of her body... The louder that moan is going to be when you finally do. Then don't even lick it. Just blow on it a little bit. Then give it one quick lick upwards. Then back down. Then do some circles.

I've never gotten a blowjob from a girl and not been able to flip it up to sex. Unless she's on her period but sometimes.. that hasn't even stopped me.

You need to learn how to turn a girl on and knock it off with all this tactical pooah garbage. It's sex. It's supposed to be hot... not robotic.
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Wed Dec 03, 2014 7:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
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No, we have not had sex yet. :(
She would start stuff sometimes or I would. but She would always stop it before it got that far. She would give me a bj or I would finger bang her till she squirted all over the place, but she seemed to be contend with it going that far and stopping.

BUT Now I can't get anything. It's going backward. It must be some basic error that I'm just not aware of.
You've been together for three months, slept in the same bed, got BJ's but never had sex?

My mind is literally blown.

Sorry but 1-2 attempts and no sex it's bye bye birdie.
Author:  Versalis [ Thu Dec 04, 2014 12:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
If she's been sleeping in the same bed with you for 3 months, she's just not all that into you sexually. I'm pretty sure every girl I've been with, would have literally been raping me after a couple of weeks.

I think she likes you as a friend, in an almost brotherly way, and is just giving you head to keep you around. You're basically functioning as a living vibrator on her end.

Is she one of those chicks who can't sleep alone?
Author:  chantos [ Fri Dec 05, 2014 8:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
i don't know how you guys do it. 3 fucking months?? i'd be gone in 3 dates.
Author:  kller [ Fri Dec 12, 2014 7:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
This guy has to be fucking trolling. THREE MONTHS? Wow.

No sex = no relationship. Posting in the wrong section. You still haven't seduced this girl.
Author:  Ctrlindustries [ Fri Dec 12, 2014 10:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My girl used to be all over me but now...not so much.
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This guy has to be fucking trolling. THREE MONTHS? Wow.

No sex = no relationship. Posting in the wrong section. You still haven't seduced this girl.
This exactly. Sex is probably the most important part of keeping a woman happy.
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